{"id":39504,"date":"2019-07-01T07:01:26","date_gmt":"2019-07-01T07:01:26","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=39504"},"modified":"2022-01-05T15:33:16","modified_gmt":"2022-01-05T15:33:16","slug":"4-tacticas-de-separacao-destrutivas-que-os-narcisistas-abusivos-usam","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/4-tacticas-de-separacao-destrutivas-que-os-narcisistas-abusivos-usam\/","title":{"rendered":"4 t\u00e1cticas destrutivas de separa\u00e7\u00e3o usadas pelos narcisistas abusivos"},"content":{"rendered":"

Separa\u00e7\u00e3o<\/a> is always heavy stuff. Even when the guy you\u2019re breaking things off with is the most normal dude you\u2019ve ever dated, it still sucks big time.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

You\u2019re ending a big chunk of a sua vida<\/a>, and especially if you\u2019re the one being dumped, it can be hard to come to terms with it.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Tal como qualquer outra grande mudan\u00e7a na nossa vida, \u00e9 preciso habituarmo-nos a ela.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Mas quando o tipo que acaba a rela\u00e7\u00e3o \u00e9 um narcisista abusivo, as coisas s\u00e3o mais confusas e destrutivas.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Um narcisista nunca facilita nada. \u00c9 ele que precisa de ter todo o controlo, por isso, aconte\u00e7a o que acontecer, vai acabar por ser o destinat\u00e1rio das suas inten\u00e7\u00f5es cru\u00e9is.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

As I\u2019ve mentioned above, narcissists can\u2019t cope with not being in control.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

E no momento em que sentirem que est\u00e3o a perder a m\u00ednima vantagem sobre si, recorrer\u00e3o a medidas dr\u00e1sticas.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

If he senses that you\u2019re trying para acabar com as coisas<\/a> or that you\u2019ve started defying him, he\u2019s going to make sure to be the one to end it first.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

E n\u00e3o de uma forma amig\u00e1vel. Vai ser de acordo com os seus planos desonestos e vai picar a AF.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Se sentir que o seu narcisista se est\u00e1 a preparar para o deixar, prepare-se para qualquer um dos seguintes 4 cen\u00e1rios.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

These are his most common choices of letting you know he\u2019s done with you. Consider yourself warned!<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

1. Ele j\u00e1 tem um interesse rom\u00e2ntico de reserva e vai deix\u00e1-la abruptamente, sem qualquer explica\u00e7\u00e3o<\/h2>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n
\"4<\/figure>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Quando um narcisista tem a certeza de que vai acabar tudo consigo, certifica-se de que j\u00e1 tem outro companheiro de cama.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Ele tem de ter sempre op\u00e7\u00f5es para o caso de as coisas correrem mal. E, neste caso, n\u00e3o ter\u00e1 qualquer aviso nem explica\u00e7\u00f5es.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

O seu humor tornar-se-\u00e1 subitamente imprevis\u00edvel, ficar\u00e1 muito irrit\u00e1vel e ter\u00e1 uma atitude desagrad\u00e1vel para consigo.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Remember, narcissists don\u2019t possess the ability to feel shame and regret, so it really won\u2019t make a difference to him if you cause a scene.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

He will leave you with no apologies and he will make sure you know that he\u2019s already got another chick to fill in for you.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

E esse vai ser o fim do seu narcisista e de si. Vai acabar t\u00e3o abruptamente como come\u00e7ou.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

2. Ele vai fazer de ti o mau da fita, abusando de ti verbalmente e pondo-te as culpas todas em cima<\/h2>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n
\"4<\/figure>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

His plan is going to be so devious and sneaky that you won\u2019t know what hit you. Firstly, he\u2019s going to cause minor inconveniences to make you appear really shitty.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

He is going to make sure to let you know just how bad he thinks you are and he won\u2019t mince his words.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Then, he\u2019s going to push your buttons by doing stuff he knows you don\u2019t like and that way, he\u2019s going to make you go at least a little bit mad and he will use it against you.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Ele vai fazer com que pare\u00e7a louca, inst\u00e1vel e uma m\u00e1 namorada e vai fingir que \u00e9 um pobre coitado que caiu na sua teia de mentiras e enganos.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

You won\u2019t even understand how he\u2019s doing it and he\u2019ll already be gone, having achieved his goal.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

You\u2019ll be feeling like you did something wrong but all that really happened was he manipulated the shit out of you and left with his head held high.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Tal como ele sempre planeou.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

3. Ele vai dar e recusar o seu afeto ao ponto de a afastar<\/h2>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n
\"4<\/figure>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

As suas emo\u00e7\u00f5es (as que ele finge ter) estar\u00e3o por todo o lado.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

One day he will adore you and shower you with love and the next day he\u2019ll be mad about the crumbs you left on the kitchen floor.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

You won\u2019t know what to do about it, as his behavior is going to drastically escalate and the smallest things will push him over the edge.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

And that\u2019s exactly what he wants you to think. He is going to make you do all the work for him by appearing like a raging lunatic and making you end things as if it was all your idea.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

This is going to be an extremely toxic atmosphere and you won\u2019t be able to handle it for long.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

While he thrives in it, you\u2019ll simply have to put an end to it and there you go.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Just like that, it\u2019s over and he didn\u2019t have to pull the trigger. You did it for him.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

4. Ele vai usar o sexo como uma arma para a desmoralizar<\/h2>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n
\"4<\/figure>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

O sexo vai tornar-se uma arma poderosa no seu arsenal. Ele vai us\u00e1-la contra si de todas as formas que puder.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

E se tiver uma boa vida sexual<\/a>, it\u2019s going to be especially difficult.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

He will deny you sex when he sees you really want it. And when he notices you\u2019re too tired to function, he\u2019ll ask you if you\u2019re in the mood (knowing that you\u2019re NOT).<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

He is going to make you beg him to have sex with you, which is something you never thought you\u2019d do.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Mas o comportamento dele n\u00e3o te deixar\u00e1 outra alternativa. Ele pode ser um desperd\u00edcio t\u00f3xico de ar, mas pode dar-te na cama.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

And damn it, you want it one last time. And that\u2019s how he\u2019s going to get you. Your ego is going to suffer a big blow every time he says, \u201cNo,\u201d and he will enjoy every second of it.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

And once he\u2019s done having his fun, he\u2019ll end it with you, leaving you struggling to cope with the aftermath of his actions. And it will suck. Profoundly.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

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Breaking up is always heavy stuff. Even when the guy you\u2019re breaking things off with is the most normal dude you\u2019ve ever dated, it still sucks big time. You\u2019re ending a big chunk of your life, and especially if you\u2019re the one being dumped, it can be hard to come to terms with it. Just…<\/p>","protected":false},"author":21,"featured_media":39510,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29633],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-39504","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-narcissism"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29633,"label":"narcissism"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/07\/shutterstock_1084354871.jpg",800,534,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Maria Parker","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/author\/maria\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29633,"name":"narcissism","slug":"narcissism","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29633,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Mind games and manipulations are narcissist's favorite controlling tactics. Learn how their mind operates so that you can protect yourself. ","parent":22911,"count":232,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29633,"category_count":232,"category_description":"Mind games and manipulations are narcissist's favorite controlling tactics. Learn how their mind operates so that you can protect yourself. ","cat_name":"narcissism","category_nicename":"narcissism","category_parent":22911}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/39504","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/21"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=39504"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/39504\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/39510"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=39504"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=39504"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=39504"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}