{"id":39587,"date":"2019-07-01T10:29:43","date_gmt":"2019-07-01T10:29:43","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=39587"},"modified":"2022-03-22T01:12:06","modified_gmt":"2022-03-22T01:12:06","slug":"se-fizeres-estas-10-coisas-os-homens-vao-pensar-que-es-maluca","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/se-fizeres-estas-10-coisas-os-homens-vao-pensar-que-es-maluca\/","title":{"rendered":"Se fizeres estas 10 coisas, os homens v\u00e3o pensar que \u00e9s maluca"},"content":{"rendered":"

We women often accuse guys of acting silly and crazy. And while this is true (in most cases), sometimes we’re also guilty of acting crazy but we’re just not aware of it.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Quando gostamos mesmo daquele tipo, o nosso c\u00e9rebro torna-se completamente irracional.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

We think it\u2019s normal to constantly text or call him, talk about the future too early or ask for access to his every single password for every rede social<\/a>.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

When we like someone and especially when we\u2019re afraid to lose someone, we start acting a little bit desperate or we start doing crazy things because we don\u2019t know what else to do.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

In our mind, all of this is completely legit but in their mind, it really isn\u2019t.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

So, if you find yourself guilty of doing these 10 things, guys will think you\u2019re a little bit crazy!<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

1. Enviar-lhe constantemente mensagens e telefonar-lhe<\/h2>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n
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Enviar mensagens de texto e telefonar-lhe regularmente \u00e9 totalmente normal e desej\u00e1vel. Mas faz\u00ea-lo com demasiada frequ\u00eancia pode fazer com que pare\u00e7a louca aos olhos dele.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

If you\u2019re sending him tons of messages and then incessantly calling him if he\u2019s not responding throughout the day, he will feel trapped and he will think you don\u2019t have a life of your own.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

We all need some space and time for ourselves, so doing this will only make him think you\u2019re desperate and really stubborn.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

So, it is always good to make some rules when it comes to texting (and there are also plenty of them on the Internet) to make sure you don\u2019t turn into a texting or calling machine.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

2. Falar sobre o futuro demasiado cedo<\/h2>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n
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I know that it feels totally normal to you to talk about the future with someone you really like but guys don\u2019t see it that way.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

If you start talking about the future when it\u2019s too early, they will get scared of it and they will think you\u2019re a little bit crazy.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Se o fizeres, assustar\u00e1s qualquer rapaz e ser\u00e1 dif\u00edcil recuperar o equil\u00edbrio da rela\u00e7\u00e3o que tiveste em tempos.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Por isso, \u00e9 sempre aconselh\u00e1vel guardar o assunto para si, por enquanto, e come\u00e7ar a falar sobre ele quando a vossa rela\u00e7\u00e3o progredir.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

3. Insistir em conhecer imediatamente os seus amigos e familiares<\/h2>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n
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This one is similar to the previous one. If you keep insisting on meeting his friends and family right away and you haven\u2019t even been on a few dates so far, I\u2019m sorry to tell you but he will think that you\u2019re crazy.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

He will feel forced to do something he\u2019s not yet ready for and this will ruin your future time spent with him.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Insistir em tais coisas s\u00f3 o far\u00e1 parecer inseguro, porque for\u00e7ar algu\u00e9m a fazer algo \u00e9 o maior sinal de um estilo de vincula\u00e7\u00e3o inseguro numa rela\u00e7\u00e3o.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

4. Fazer exig\u00eancias<\/h2>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n
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If you have a strict list of A-Z demands that you\u2019ve devised specifically for him, he will get scared immediately.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Mais uma vez, fazer exig\u00eancias numa rela\u00e7\u00e3o \u00e9 outro sinal de ser inseguro<\/a>. H\u00e1 outras formas de o obrigar a fazer o que deseja e fazer exig\u00eancias n\u00e3o \u00e9 uma delas.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Em vez disso, deve ter orgulho e confian\u00e7a em si pr\u00f3pria e dizer-lhe quando ele faz asneiras, mas de uma forma simp\u00e1tica.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Quando lhe diz que espera certas coisas numa rela\u00e7\u00e3o (sem fazer exig\u00eancias), ele ter\u00e1 todo o gosto em cumpri-las.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

5. Pedir acesso a todas as suas palavras-passe<\/h2>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n
\"Se<\/figure>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

A confian\u00e7a \u00e9 a base de qualquer rela\u00e7\u00e3o saud\u00e1vel e, quando \u00e9 quebrada, nada voltar\u00e1 a ser como dantes.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

A confian\u00e7a constr\u00f3i-se com palavras e ac\u00e7\u00f5es e n\u00e3o exigindo que ele lhe d\u00ea acesso a todas as suas palavras-passe.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

If you do this, he will definitely think you\u2019re crazy. Even though I completely understand a woman\u2019s need to have everything under control, some things are just not right.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

E mesmo que tivesse todas as palavras-passe dele, isso s\u00f3 iria piorar as coisas.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Viver constantemente com medo de encontrar algumas ac\u00e7\u00f5es ocultas por parte deles apenas o obrigar\u00e1 a tirar conclus\u00f5es precipitadas sem raz\u00e3o aparente.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

6. Irritar-se com pequenas coisas<\/h2>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n
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It\u2019s perfectly normal to get upset over some things you are really annoyed by but it is not normal to be constantly upset over every single little thing he does.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Se o fizer, tamb\u00e9m o vai perturbar e pronto! Vais criar uma confus\u00e3o emocional<\/a> que tornar\u00e1 a vossa rela\u00e7\u00e3o inst\u00e1vel.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

7. Procurar informa\u00e7\u00f5es pessoais sobre ele nas suas costas<\/h2>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n
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Compreendo que queiras saber tudo sobre ele a qualquer pre\u00e7o, mas nunca deves descobrir informa\u00e7\u00f5es pessoais sobre ele nas suas costas.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Por exemplo, se decidir contactar a ex-namorada dele para saber algumas coisas sobre ele, ele vai rotul\u00e1-la como a louca. <\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Al\u00e9m disso, se for\u00e7ar os amigos dele a partilharem as suas informa\u00e7\u00f5es pessoais consigo, ele ficar\u00e1 certamente zangado consigo e ver\u00e1 isso como um sinal de intrus\u00e3o.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

8. Persegui-lo<\/h2>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n
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If he\u2019s not texting you back immediately, this doesn\u2019t mean you should follow him around the city or similar.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

You don\u2019t want him to think that you\u2019re some kind of a psycho who doesn\u2019t want to let him live in peace.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Guys are especially annoyed by this one, so you shouldn\u2019t do it under any circumstances. And it will also save your nerves as well.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

9. Atuar constantemente de forma passivo-agressiva<\/h2>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n
\"Se<\/figure>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Tem tend\u00eancia para agir de forma passivo-agressiva <\/a>depois de uma grande discuss\u00e3o? Ignora todas as suas palavras e tentativas de lhe pedir desculpa?<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Passive-aggressive treatment is every guy\u2019s biggest nightmare. They simply fear it like the plague and they never know how to approach you when you hold a grudge forever.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

10. Mudar constantemente de ideias e esperar que ele aja em conformidade<\/h2>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n
\"Se<\/figure>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Se num dia quiser uma coisa e noutro dia quiser outra diferente, ele vai perder a cabe\u00e7a e pensar que est\u00e1 louca.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Mudar constantemente de ideias e esperar que ele aja em conformidade significa ser totalmente indecisa e esperar que ele encontre uma forma de lidar com isso e dance ao seu ritmo.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

It is really not fair to expect a guy to understand what you really want if you\u2019re not being consistent regarding your own decisions.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

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