{"id":39660,"date":"2020-04-02T10:41:38","date_gmt":"2020-04-02T10:41:38","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=39660"},"modified":"2022-03-07T16:20:49","modified_gmt":"2022-03-07T16:20:49","slug":"se-ele-tiver-estas-10-caracteristicas-pode-ser-vitima-do-seu-abuso-narcisico","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/se-ele-tiver-estas-10-caracteristicas-pode-ser-vitima-do-seu-abuso-narcisico\/","title":{"rendered":"Se ele tem estas 10 caracter\u00edsticas, voc\u00ea pode estar sendo v\u00edtima do abuso narcisista dele"},"content":{"rendered":"

Conto de fadas. Est\u00e1 a viver num conto de fadas. \u00c9 t\u00e3o bonito. O homem com quem est\u00e1s \u00e9 tudo o que sempre quiseste num homem.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

He is a gift sent from heaven. He is the man you\u2019ve been waiting for your whole life.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Sabes que todos n\u00f3s nos sentimos assim enquanto tudo ainda est\u00e1 fresco? Sabes que cada homem parece impec\u00e1vel e enviado por Deus?<\/em><\/strong><\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Don\u2019t fall for the cheapest trick in the book. <\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Don\u2019t get me wrong, it\u2019s okay to have a honeymoon phase. You\u2019re still in love like a fool which makes you blind to his shortcomings.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Later on, those \u2018flaws\u2019 come to surface and in a normal relationship, you learn to live with them. <\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

After all, you\u2019re not perfect either. There are definitely things about you which drive him crazy, too. <\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

But I\u2019m not talking about normal everyday quirks every person has. I\u2019m not talking about regular arguments every couple has.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

I’m talking about real psychological and emotional abuse. <\/strong><\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

\u00c9 que, \u00e0 primeira vista, os narcisistas s\u00e3o iguais a toda a gente. Mais ainda, os narcisistas s\u00e3o encantadores e hipnotizantes.<\/p>\r\n

S\u00e3o ainda mais apelativas do que as pessoas psicologicamente saud\u00e1veis. <\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Os narcisistas s\u00e3o predadores no mundo dos humanos. No mundo dos animais, os predadores t\u00eam caracter\u00edsticas f\u00edsicas que os definem como predadores.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

T\u00eam dentes grandes, garras afiadas, etc. <\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Well, our predators don\u2019t have any indications of being hunters. They look and act like everyone else. But that is the catch.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

\u00c9 exatamente essa a sua maior arma contra n\u00f3s. \u00c9 assim que nos apanham. <\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Os narcisistas encaixam-se perfeitamente no mundo das pessoas honestas e carinhosas. Entram sorrateiramente na nossa vida e come\u00e7am a alimentar-se da nossa energia e da nossa vida at\u00e9 nos deixarem completamente esgotados. <\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

The saddest thing is that they keep doing it until it\u2019s too late for us to run away without any serious consequences. <\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

But enough with their terror already! I\u2019m not going to observe and do nothing while so many women lead the battles of their life. <\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

I\u2019m going to help you recognize a narcissist while it\u2019s not too late, while there is still a chance for someone to save themselves.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Isto \u00e9 o que todos os narcisistas fazem. Estas s\u00e3o as suas caracter\u00edsticas ocultas que nos podem dizer muito.<\/strong><\/p>\r\n

S\u00f3 precisa de abrir os olhos e p\u00f4r os seus sentimentos de lado.<\/strong><\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

1. Every narcissist is one person at home and completely another when you\u2019re out<\/h2>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n
\"Se<\/figure>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Os narcisistas t\u00eam dois lados da sua personalidade. Uma \u00e9 especialmente para si e a outra \u00e9 para todos os outros. <\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Ou melhor, um \u00e9 quem realmente \u00e9 e o outro \u00e9 o que quer que as pessoas vejam. <\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

No exterior, o seu narcisista \u00e9 encantador e simplesmente perfeito. As pessoas riem-se das suas piadas e absorvem tudo o que ele diz.<\/p>\r\n

As suas hist\u00f3rias s\u00e3o incr\u00edveis e ele \u00e9 ainda mais perfeito. <\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Quando chega a casa, esse homem perfeito transforma-se num manipulador exigente e sufocante. Torna-se imposs\u00edvel lidar com ele.<\/p>\r\n

E se as suas condi\u00e7\u00f5es n\u00e3o forem cumpridas, ele fica ainda pior.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

2. They criticize, but can\u2019t handle being criticized<\/h2>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n
\"Se<\/figure>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

They are thin-skinned which means they can\u2019t handle criticism, not even constructive criticism.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

They immediately think you\u2019re coming at them when in fact, you\u2019re just trying to point out some things to help them become a better person. <\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

But, when it comes to you, the rules are different. He\u2019s judging you every chance he gets.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

He\u2019s observing every step you take and if you make even the slightest mistake, he\u2019ll be all over you like a bloodthirsty wild dog.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

3. Est\u00e3o obcecados com eles pr\u00f3prios e ignoram-no completamente<\/h2>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n
\"Se<\/figure>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Exageram nas suas realiza\u00e7\u00f5es e exageram os seus talentos. Tudo o que tu consegues fazer, eles dizem que sabem melhor. <\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Eles nunca o demonstram, mas a sua hist\u00f3ria \u00e9 incrivelmente verdadeira. As pessoas acreditam em todas as mentiras que eles dizem. <\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Quando fazemos algo que \u00e9 realmente digno de louvor, eles minam imediatamente o nosso sucesso ou fazem-se de rainha do drama s\u00f3 para nos roubarem a aten\u00e7\u00e3o. <\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

So, your achievements go unnoticed while his \u2018attempts\u2019 (even though he never did anything noticeable) are praised. <\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

4. S\u00e3o incapazes de ter uma rela\u00e7\u00e3o significativa<\/h2>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n
\"Se<\/figure>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Mesmo que voc\u00ea e toda a gente pensem que ele tem muitos amigos, todos os narcisistas est\u00e3o, na verdade, sozinhos. <\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

They have acquaintances, people they can talk to about superficial things, but their relationships don\u2019t go further than that.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

A raz\u00e3o para isso \u00e9 que lhes falta empatia, pelo que s\u00e3o incapazes de estabelecer uma rela\u00e7\u00e3o com outro ser humano. <\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

The only thing they know how to do is catch you in a trap and pretend they care for you for as long as you\u2019re giving them their narcissistic supply.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

5. Alimentam-se do poder mas t\u00eam um medo cobarde do fracasso<\/h2>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n
\"Se<\/figure>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

There is an image which follows them, an image they created for themselves. Almost every narcissist is surrounded by power and apparent \u2018success\u2019. <\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Na verdade, n\u00e3o s\u00e3o assim t\u00e3o bem sucedidos nem t\u00e3o poderosos. Apenas sabem apresentar-se como se o fossem.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

What really goes around in their mind is an enormous fear of failure. That\u2019s why a narcissist will never admit he did something wrong.<\/p>\r\n

Ele nunca pedir\u00e1 desculpa por nada. <\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Nessas situa\u00e7\u00f5es, ele desvia-o para outra coisa, normalmente algo que voc\u00ea fez de errado, ou muda o t\u00f3pico da conversa para que ele n\u00e3o esteja mais no centro das aten\u00e7\u00f5es.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

6. S\u00f3 d\u00e3o afeto quando lhes conv\u00e9m <\/h2>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n
\"Se<\/figure>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Life can be beautiful with a narcissist\u2014for a few days. Seriously, when you\u2019re doing everything he wants, he will give you all the love you need. I mean, it\u2019s not real love, it\u2019s affection. <\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Os narcisistas s\u00e3o incapazes de amar algu\u00e9m. Mas s\u00e3o capazes de demonstrar afeto se isso os beneficiar de alguma forma. <\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

As soon as he doesn\u2019t need anything from you, he will take that affection back. He will act like you\u2019re a nobody, like you\u2019re not worthy to breathe let alone anything else.<\/p>\r\n

Ver tamb\u00e9m: Um burl\u00e3o pode apaixonar-se pela sua v\u00edtima? A verdade revelada<\/a><\/strong><\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

7. Gostam de lutas<\/h2>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n
\"Se<\/figure>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

A narcissist will pick on you, he will provoke you until you lose it and say something back at him. That\u2019s a perfect way to start a fight.<\/p>\r\n

E, infelizmente, \u00e9 exatamente isso que ele quer. <\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

When your relationship is in complete chaos and when you\u2019re falling apart, it\u2019s the paradise they\u2019ve been dreaming of. In those moments, they are at their peak. They are absolute rulers. <\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Se lhes respondermos e os atacarmos verbalmente com argumentos leg\u00edtimos, eles ficam na defensiva. <\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

You can\u2019t break them, no matter how hard you try because their t\u00e1cticas de manipula\u00e7\u00e3o <\/a>s\u00e3o impec\u00e1veis. No final, \u00e9 voc\u00ea que fica destro\u00e7ado, enquanto eles ficam mais fortes do que nunca.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

8. Os narcisistas s\u00e3o obcecados pela ordem<\/h2>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n
\"Se<\/figure>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Como j\u00e1 foi referido, os narcisistas n\u00e3o t\u00eam empatia. Por isso, n\u00e3o conseguem ver nada para al\u00e9m do preto e branco. <\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

If you could look at the world through their eyes, you would only see things as simple as that. For a narcissist, there is no in-between. Either it is or it\u2019s not. <\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Alguns deles s\u00e3o obcecados com a limpeza e a ordem e, se alguma coisa cai fora do s\u00edtio, perdem a cabe\u00e7a e descarregam a sua raiva na primeira pessoa que v\u00eaem.<\/p>\r\n

They don\u2019t need a reason. They don\u2019t even have one.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

9. They depend on the attention they\u2019re getting <\/h2>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n
\"Se<\/figure>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Enjoying the spotlight is their drug. Other people\u2019s attention is what gets them going.<\/p>\r\n

E sabem que mais? N\u00e3o h\u00e1 lugar naquele palco para ningu\u00e9m que n\u00e3o seja um narcisista. <\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

A sua necessidade de aten\u00e7\u00e3o vai t\u00e3o longe que, quando os seus amigos falam de outra pessoa de forma positiva, o narcisista v\u00ea isso como um ataque pessoal. <\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Nesse momento, a conversa e os holofotes t\u00eam de voltar para eles.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

10. S\u00e3o emocionalmente esgotantes e completamente sem no\u00e7\u00e3o<\/h2>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n
\"Se<\/figure>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

N\u00e3o fazem ideia de que s\u00e3o a fonte de todos os problemas. Esgotam emocionalmente as pessoas \u00e0 sua volta e arranjam brigas sempre que podem. <\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

The pain which they cause on a daily basis is enormous and they are completely clueless that people feel that pain. Since they are emotionless, they cannot understand other people\u2019s emotions either.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Actually, when you look a bit deeper into their behavior, when you sit and analyze why someone is acting the way they are, things won\u2019t be so unclear anymore. <\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Os narcisistas n\u00e3o t\u00eam empatia porque provavelmente nunca tiveram algu\u00e9m na sua vida que lhes mostrasse o que \u00e9 a empatia e como se deve tratar as pessoas.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Os narcisistas n\u00e3o conseguem lidar com cr\u00edticas e t\u00eam de se apresentar como o melhor poss\u00edvel porque s\u00e3o inseguros at\u00e9 ao tutano. <\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Infelizmente, est\u00e3o a seguir o caminho oposto quando se trata de lidar com os seus medos. Est\u00e3o a fazer as piores coisas poss\u00edveis para as pessoas que as rodeiam e, no final, tamb\u00e9m para elas pr\u00f3prias.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

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Fairy tale. You\u2019re living in a fairy tale. It\u2019s so beautiful. The man you\u2019re with is everything you ever wanted in a man. He is a gift sent from heaven. He is the man you\u2019ve been waiting for your whole life. Do you know that we all feel like this while everything is still fresh?…<\/p>","protected":false},"author":21,"featured_media":39679,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29633],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-39660","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-narcissism"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29633,"label":"narcissism"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/07\/shutterstock_1188884551.jpg",800,534,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Maria Parker","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/author\/maria\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29633,"name":"narcissism","slug":"narcissism","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29633,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Mind games and manipulations are narcissist's favorite controlling tactics. Learn how their mind operates so that you can protect yourself. ","parent":22911,"count":233,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29633,"category_count":233,"category_description":"Mind games and manipulations are narcissist's favorite controlling tactics. Learn how their mind operates so that you can protect yourself. ","cat_name":"narcissism","category_nicename":"narcissism","category_parent":22911}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/39660","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/21"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=39660"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/39660\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/39679"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=39660"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=39660"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=39660"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}