{"id":39752,"date":"2020-07-03T10:18:01","date_gmt":"2020-07-03T10:18:01","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=39752"},"modified":"2022-07-19T08:47:39","modified_gmt":"2022-07-19T08:47:39","slug":"10-mensagens-de-texto-que-os-homens-enviam-e-que-tem-significados-secretos-nao-caia-nessa","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/10-mensagens-de-texto-que-os-homens-enviam-e-que-tem-significados-secretos-nao-caia-nessa\/","title":{"rendered":"10 textos que os homens enviam e que t\u00eam significados secretos (n\u00e3o caia nessa!)"},"content":{"rendered":"

\u00c9 um facto bem conhecido que os homens podem ser grandes mestres da conversa suave e que as mulheres fazem a devida dilig\u00eancia em cada uma dessas tentativas. <\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Some fail miserably, but some (if they\u2019re persistent and charming enough) get the occasional green light.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Especially if you\u2019ve just started seeing a guy, texting him can be quite a hassle. And I mean it only in the sense that you still don\u2019t know his h\u00e1bitos de envio de mensagens<\/a> suficientemente bem para decifrar alguns textos duvidosos.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Now, women can turn into real detectives when need be, and nobody is spared if a woman\u2019s sixth sense is telling her to correr para as colinas<\/a>.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Mas h\u00e1 casos ocasionais (durante aquelas fases m\u00e1gicas do in\u00edcio de uma rela\u00e7\u00e3o) em que apenas lhe queremos dar o benef\u00edcio da d\u00favida.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

E, embora alguns homens o mere\u00e7am (porque s\u00e3o realmente sinceros no que dizem), \u00e9 tamb\u00e9m lament\u00e1vel (mas factual) que esses homens sejam uma ra\u00e7a em extin\u00e7\u00e3o.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Since the odds are not in your favour, let\u2019s check out some shady texts a guy will typically text you. Is there a hidden agenda or does he actually mean what he says?<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

1. \u2018\u2019Hey, you up?\u2019\u2019<\/h2>\r\n

\"homem<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Yup… but you can keep on cruising.<\/em> A text that comes at a late hour along the lines of this means nothing more than what it says. The guy is bored out of his mind and can\u2019t be bothered to say anything more meaningful.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

He\u2019s probably hoping for a quick reply and a possible hook-up.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

If he actually cared about you, he\u2019d say something like: \u2018\u2019Yo, having trouble sleeping, thought of you to keep me company. Any chance you\u2019re up?\u2019\u2019<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Este texto tem mais profundidade e n\u00e3o \u00e9 indicativo do seu aborrecimento ou de um booty-call.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

A anterior significa que ele s\u00f3 quer perder tempo e, provavelmente, voc\u00ea foi a terceira pessoa a quem ele enviou uma mensagem.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

2. \u2018\u2019Sorry about yesterday. I got really busy.\u2019\u2019<\/h2>\r\n

\"homem<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

If he suddenly just stopped texting you without offering any explanation or reasoning, it probably means he got a better offer elsewhere. We\u2019ve ALL used this excuse, so we all know what it really means.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Se quisermos enviar uma mensagem de texto a algu\u00e9m, fazemo-lo! Mas se receber uma oferta melhor ou se se fartar da pessoa, esconde-a e d\u00e1 essa desculpa deslavada mais tarde.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

The truth is, if he REALLY got busy, he\u2019d just tell you and then get back to you as soon as he was done. But if he just vanished without a trace, he really doesn\u2019t care much.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

3. \u2018\u2019You\u2019re a really great person.\u2019\u2019<\/h2>\r\n

\"homem<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Isto \u00e9 basicamente um pontap\u00e9 no est\u00f4mago. O que \u00e9 de facto<\/em> means is: \u2018\u2019You\u2019re okay\u2026 just not for me.\u2019\u2019 <\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

With this text, he\u2019s letting you know there\u2019s sem futuro<\/a> com ele. Ele \u00e9 (talvez?<\/em>) tentando poupar os seus sentimentos com esta rejei\u00e7\u00e3o subtil.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Don\u2019t prolong the inevitable\u2014just stop texting him. You\u2019ll find someone who\u2019s upfront and genuine.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

4. \u2018\u2019Haha, that\u2019s cool.\u2019\u2019<\/h2>\r\n

\"homem<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

In translation \u2013 I have nothing else to say. When he texts this after you\u2019ve texted a lengthy paragraph, it means he is totally not interested in continuing the conversation.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Basically, he\u2019s just replying to be polite, but that\u2019s it. The conversation has reached its peak (at least for him), and he\u2019s moving on.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

5. \u2018\u2019Hey, we should totally chill soon!\u2019\u2019<\/h2>\r\n

\"homem<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Notice the vibe of this text. It\u2019s not serious. It\u2019s not particular. It\u2019s rather vague, and as he would say it \u2013 chill.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Which means he literally has nothing better to do, so he\u2019ll probably suggest meeting up the same night (asking you last minute) and will do everything he can to get lucky.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

It doesn\u2019t mean anything more than that because if it did, he wouldn\u2019t text you last minute, and he would use different phrasing.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

This is just a casual text to see if you\u2019re up for some fun, but nothing more than that.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

6. \u2018\u2019Haven\u2019t heard from you in a while. What\u2019s up?\u2019\u2019<\/h2>\r\n

\"homem<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Provavelmente, ele estava a ver os seus textos antigos, viu o seu nome algures no meio e decidiu testar as \u00e1guas.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Chances are, he just wanted to see if there\u2019s a chance of reigniting the old flame.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Mas tamb\u00e9m pode significar que ele quer genuinamente ver como est\u00e1s, especialmente se voc\u00eas t\u00eam uma hist\u00f3ria.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

It all hugely depends on how the rest of the conversation plays out. You\u2019ll know it better than anyone if he\u2019s just trying to get with you or simply chat with an old friend\/girlfriend.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

7. \u2018\u2019Can I take a rain check? Something unexpectedly came up.\u2019\u2019<\/h2>\r\n

\"homem<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

If this were true, he would just specify what came up. If he remains this vague, it probably means that he\u2019s either no longer interested or that he\u2019s going out with someone else.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Este \u00e9 um t\u00edpico desculpa para cancelar planos \u00e0 \u00faltima hora.<\/a> Don\u2019t fall for it, unless he offers a real, believable reason.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

8. \u2018\u2019Can I ask you something unusual\/weird\u2026?\u2019\u2019<\/h2>\r\n

\"homem<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Okay, so this basically means you\u2019re about to be weirded out. He is going to ask something he definitely shouldn\u2019t be asking and is using the \u2018\u2019unusual\u2019\u2019 card para se safar<\/a>.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Tenha cuidado com o que pode vir a seguir e n\u00e3o hesite em parar de enviar mensagens se ele ultrapassar os limites (o que \u00e9 muito prov\u00e1vel).<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

9. \u2018\u2019What\u2019s the deal with <insert the name of your friend>?\u2019\u2019<\/h2>\r\n

\"homem<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

He\u2019s interested in your friend. It\u2019s as simple as that. If a guy asks you this, he\u2019s clearly trying to get the approval to go after your friend, while subtly letting you know you\u2019re off his list.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Um tipo que tem a coragem de fazer isto \u00e9 provavelmente um idiota, por isso afasta-te dele e avisa o teu amigo!<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

10. \u2018\u2019I\u2019m not sure right now. I\u2019ll let you know.\u2019\u2019<\/h2>\r\n

\"homem<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

You\u2019re asking him if he\u2019s free to do something together, and this is his reply.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Translation \u2013 he wants to see if he\u2019ll have better options, and if all else fails, he\u2019ll go with you.  He is basically keeping you as a backup plan.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

It\u2019s not the worst thing in the world, but it definitely sucks.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Find a guy who\u2019ll be thrilled to spend time with you and not someone who\u2019ll keep you on the back burner.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

That\u2019s just shitty behaviour and a slap in the face. Steer clear.<\/p>\r\n

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