{"id":39817,"date":"2019-07-04T13:46:07","date_gmt":"2019-07-04T13:46:07","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=39817"},"modified":"2021-08-12T06:53:18","modified_gmt":"2021-08-12T06:53:18","slug":"5-sinais-de-que-esta-preso-a-maus-padroes-de-relacionamento","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/5-sinais-de-que-esta-preso-a-maus-padroes-de-relacionamento\/","title":{"rendered":"5 sinais de que est\u00e1 preso a maus padr\u00f5es de relacionamento"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>O que s\u00e3o padr\u00f5es de relacionamento? S\u00e3o as coisas que se repetem em todas as rela\u00e7\u00f5es amorosas em que se envolve e os comportamentos que apresenta, independentemente do namorado com quem est\u00e1.<\/p>\n<p>In most cases, you\u2019re not even aware that you repeat these toxic, unhealthy templates with every guy who enters your life. That is why we\u2019re here\u2014to open your eyes and help you stop with these behaviors and to escape this endless circle in time.<\/p>\n<h2>1. Culpa-se por tudo<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-39818 size-full\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/07\/shutterstock_1156208644.jpg\" alt=\"5 sinais de que voc\u00ea est\u00e1 preso a padr\u00f5es de relacionamento ruins\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/07\/shutterstock_1156208644.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/07\/shutterstock_1156208644-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/07\/shutterstock_1156208644-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>The first sign that you\u2019re trapped in bad relationship patterns is the fact that somehow, you always think of yourself as guilty for everything wrong in your relationship. No matter what, you end up being the one taking all the responsibility and you end up blaming yourself.<\/p>\n<p>Well, let me tell you one thing\u2014in a healthy relationship, things don\u2019t work out that way. Instead, both partners are equally responsible for everything that happens between them.<\/p>\n<p>Uma coisa \u00e9 ter auto-consci\u00eancia suficiente e ser suficientemente maduro para aceitar e admitir os seus erros. No entanto, \u00e9 outra coisa se for mais f\u00e1cil para si <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/amor\/tens-de-parar-de-te-culpar-pela-incapacidade-dele-de-te-amar\/\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">culpar-se a si pr\u00f3prio<\/span><\/a> than to open your eyes and see your partner\u2019s real face.<\/p>\n<h2>2. Tem dificuldades de comunica\u00e7\u00e3o<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-39894 size-full\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/07\/shutterstock_1395298580.jpg\" alt=\"5 sinais de que voc\u00ea est\u00e1 preso a padr\u00f5es de relacionamento ruins\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/07\/shutterstock_1395298580.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/07\/shutterstock_1395298580-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/07\/shutterstock_1395298580-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Communication is one of the bases of every successful relationship and not knowing how to express yourself leads to many problems between couples. However, before you learn how to verbalize your desires, doubts and fears, you have to do some introspection and be certain about what you want. The next step is to be brave enough to talk to your partner honestly about everything that\u2019s bothering you without hesitation and without holding yourself back.<\/p>\n<p>Remember that you won\u2019t achieve anything by holding grudges or giving him the silent treatment. Instead, act like the grown-ass woman you are and speak your mind. Otherwise, you can\u2019t expect things to ever change for the better.<\/p>\n<h2>3. D\u00e1s mais do que recebes<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-39895 size-full\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/07\/shutterstock_1395298580-1.jpg\" alt=\"5 sinais de que voc\u00ea est\u00e1 preso a padr\u00f5es de relacionamento ruins\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/07\/shutterstock_1395298580-1.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/07\/shutterstock_1395298580-1-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/07\/shutterstock_1395298580-1-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Quando pensamos nisso, est\u00e1vamos <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/amor\/problema-sou-sempre-um-amor\/\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">aquele que mais amou<\/span><\/a> em todas as rela\u00e7\u00f5es rom\u00e2nticas que tiveste. E esta n\u00e3o \u00e9 exce\u00e7\u00e3o.<\/p>\n<p>Whether you\u2019d like to admit it or not, you\u2019ve always been the one who puts more effort in and who gives way more love than she receives. The one who makes sacrifices and the one who struggles for the relationship, while the other person couldn\u2019t care less.<\/p>\n<p>It\u2019s time you think about why things are like this. Do you think of yourself as less worthy than your partner?<\/p>\n<h2>4. \u00c9 emocionalmente dependente do seu parceiro<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-39896 size-full\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/07\/shutterstock_1395298580-2.jpg\" alt=\"5 sinais de que voc\u00ea est\u00e1 preso a padr\u00f5es de relacionamento ruins\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/07\/shutterstock_1395298580-2.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/07\/shutterstock_1395298580-2-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/07\/shutterstock_1395298580-2-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>One of the most alarming signs that you\u2019re stuck in bad relationship patterns is that you feel like you can\u2019t live without your significant other. You don\u2019t feel complete without him by your side, which makes it impossible for you to leave him, despite the way he treats you. Your romantic partner becomes the center of your world and you don\u2019t feel like yourself without him.<\/p>\n<p>If this is something you can relate to, one thing is clear\u2014you\u2019re emotionally co-dependent on your partner and that is nothing more than a toxic relationship pattern. Instead of expecting a man to make you happy, put your own life in your hands and make something out of it, without anyone\u2019s help.<\/p>\n<h2>5. You don\u2019t know how to call it quits<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-39897 size-full\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/07\/shutterstock_1395298580-3.jpg\" alt=\"5 sinais de que voc\u00ea est\u00e1 preso a padr\u00f5es de relacionamento ruins\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/07\/shutterstock_1395298580-3.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/07\/shutterstock_1395298580-3-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/07\/shutterstock_1395298580-3-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Quantas vezes j\u00e1 deu por si a dar infinitas <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/relationship\/to-the-girl-whos-given-more-second-chances-than-she-can-count\/\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">segundas oportunidades<\/span><\/a> a homens que nunca as mereceram? Arranjando desculpas, justificando o seu comportamento de merda e esperando desesperadamente por uma mudan\u00e7a que, no fundo, sabia que nunca iria acontecer? Quantas vezes se reconciliou com um homem com quem n\u00e3o tinha futuro?<\/p>\n<p>It is more than obvious you don\u2019t know when it\u2019s time to break things off with someone you care for. You don\u2019t know when to give up on a relationship when it is not worth fighting for.<\/p>\n<p>Em vez disso, continua a arrastar-se em c\u00edrculos intermin\u00e1veis de amor e \u00f3dio, felicidade e desespero, maquilhagens e rupturas. A pior parte \u00e9 que \u00e9 exatamente assim que acabamos por ficar presos nestes maus padr\u00f5es de relacionamento vezes sem conta.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-39898 size-large\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/07\/shutt-1-683x1024.jpg\" alt=\"5 sinais de que voc\u00ea est\u00e1 preso a padr\u00f5es de relacionamento ruins\" width=\"683\" height=\"1024\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/07\/shutt-1-683x1024.jpg 683w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/07\/shutt-1-200x300.jpg 200w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/07\/shutt-1.jpg 735w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 683px) 100vw, 683px\" \/><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"","protected":false},"author":20,"featured_media":39899,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29625],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-39817","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-toxic-relationship"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29625,"label":"toxic relationship"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/07\/shutterstock_1395298580-4.jpg",800,534,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Christine Keller","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/author\/christine\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29625,"name":"toxic relationship","slug":"toxic-relationship","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29625,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Are you in a toxic relationship without even knowing it? 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