{"id":39918,"date":"2019-07-05T10:17:20","date_gmt":"2019-07-05T10:17:20","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=39918"},"modified":"2022-09-25T08:30:14","modified_gmt":"2022-09-25T08:30:14","slug":"5-formas-a-prova-de-bala-para-manter-os-narcisistas-fora-da-sua-vida","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/5-formas-a-prova-de-bala-para-manter-os-narcisistas-fora-da-sua-vida\/","title":{"rendered":"5 maneiras \u00e0 prova de bala para manter os narcisistas fora da sua vida"},"content":{"rendered":"

Deixe-me adivinhar. A \u00faltima vez que se encontrou na teia de um narcisista manipulador, charmoso e controlador, prometeu a si pr\u00f3prio que seria a \u00faltima vez. E estava a falar a s\u00e9rio.<\/p>\r\n

At\u00e9 que o pr\u00f3ximo aconteceu.<\/p>\r\n

Antes de se aperceber do que a atingiu e antes de se aperceber que se tinha apaixonado de novo exatamente pelo mesmo homem (s\u00f3 que num corpo diferente), era quase tarde demais. Conseguiste sair, mas por pouco. Mas n\u00e3o saiu sem uma cicatriz.<\/p>\r\n

Uma cicatriz psicol\u00f3gica. Uma que te assombra sempre que pensas em apaixonar-se<\/span><\/a> novamente.<\/p>\r\n

One that hovers over your head every time you think you\u2019ve met a good man. One that doesn\u2019t let you let your guard down, because now, you\u2019re done with that. It\u2019s time for some new rules.<\/p>\r\n

Os narcisistas fazem-nos isso.<\/p>\r\n

They will suck you dry and once they got everything they need out of you, they leave you broken, shallow and fragile \u2013 barely even a person. Once your narcissist leaves you, you are but a shadow of your former self.<\/p>\r\n

E se me perguntarem, j\u00e1 chega. Quanto tempo temos de sofrer e at\u00e9 onde \u00e9 que eles podem ir nas suas persegui\u00e7\u00f5es mal\u00e9ficas? Infelizmente, haver\u00e1 sempre um pr\u00f3ximo cretino narcisista por a\u00ed, mas h\u00e1 formas de garantir que nunca mais se apaixona por ele!<\/p>\r\n

Pode acreditar que \u00e9 um \u00edman para<\/span><\/a> these manipulative and abusive control freaks, but I assure you \u2013 you\u2019re not!<\/p>\r\n

It feels that way because subconsciously you have a type. But once you realize that and start actively pursuing a completely different type of man, one that\u2019s GOOD for you, it will be easy to see that life can actually be beautiful again.<\/p>\r\n

So here are 5 killer ideas that will help you keep narcissists out of your life. And this time \u2013 for good!<\/p>\r\n

1. Cuidado com os homens que exercem uma atra\u00e7\u00e3o forte (quase magn\u00e9tica) sobre si desde o in\u00edcio<\/h2>\r\n

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Sabe aquele tipo de qu\u00edmica instant\u00e2nea, forte, meio assustadora, meio emocionante que sente uma vez na lua azul com algu\u00e9m? Uma que te faz querer saltar-lhe para cima ali mesmo e naquele momento?<\/p>\r\n

Bem, da pr\u00f3xima vez que tiver esta rara sensa\u00e7\u00e3o e sentir uma atra\u00e7\u00e3o extremamente sedutora, fuja. Pare imediatamente e n\u00e3o actue de acordo com esse impulso. A atra\u00e7\u00e3o que estes homens cru\u00e9is exercem sobre as mulheres \u00e9 t\u00f3xica!<\/p>\r\n

Almost impossible to resist\u2026 but if you nip it in the bud before it evolves further, you\u2019re going to be okay. Don\u2019t let his animalistic, magnetic vibe pull you one inch closer. That\u2019s how it ALL starts.<\/p>\r\n

2. Go for the polar opposite of who you\u2019d normally consider dating<\/h2>\r\n

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One way to get rid of narcissists is to change it up. And I mean, pull a 180. If you go for charming, self-assured, highly successful men who are smooth as hell, stop. Perhaps it\u2019s time to consider giving the guy next door a chance.<\/p>\r\n

Sabe, aquele que pode n\u00e3o ser o George Clooney e que pode n\u00e3o trabalhar numa firma de advogados de topo na cidade, mas que \u00e9 gentil, emp\u00e1tico e com inten\u00e7\u00f5es genu\u00ednas.<\/p>\r\n

The one that always says \u201cHi\u201d when he sees you and offers to help carry your groceries. One that walks your dog when you\u2019re at work and who makes you feel calm and safe. Try him for a change, and see what happens.<\/p>\r\n

Relacionadas: Quando o narcisista a v\u00ea com outra pessoa, continue andando<\/a><\/strong><\/p>\r\n

3. Find a guy who doesn\u2019t conform, but rather paves his own way and ignores unimportant opinions<\/h2>\r\n

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Go for a guy who isn\u2019t afraid to go against the grain. Go for a guy who doesn\u2019t care what others think as long as he knows he\u2019s doing what\u2019s right for him.<\/p>\r\n

Find a man who can do his own thing and be proud of him for making a small difference. It\u2019s so easy following in other people\u2019s footsteps. But what\u2019s NOT easy is paving your own path to success. Respect any man who is brave enough to stick out in a crowd. It\u2019s not as easy as it may seem.<\/p>\r\n

He might be successful, he might not. But he is damn well trying and at the end of the day, that\u2019s all you can ask for. You live and you learn. And that\u2019s his main motto in life.<\/p>\r\n

4. Afasta-te dos tipos que te criticam subtilmente, mas que conseguem fazer com que pare\u00e7am construtivos<\/h2>\r\n

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Nope, nope, and nope. You\u2019re a grown-ass woman and if you wanted to hear his opinion on every little thing you do, you\u2019d ask. I\u2019m guessing you rarely do, so stop tolerating it!<\/p>\r\n

You can dress however you choose, stay out for as long as you want, and pursue whatever passion makes you feel alive! Steer clear of guys who aren\u2019t okay with that, and realize that you deserve somebody who will encourage you, NOT demean you.<\/p>\r\n

However charming it may sound, it\u2019s toxic and it\u2019s only the beginning. So don\u2019t let happen again and leave the minute you realize your every move is under a microscope. You\u2019ll thank me later.<\/p>\r\n

5. Escolher um homem com uma mentalidade e valores de vida semelhantes<\/h2>\r\n

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Who has time to try to change anyone these days? If you\u2019re with someone who is simply not what you\u2019re looking for in the long run, leave. If your man is a narcissistic egomaniac who is trying to make you into someone you\u2019re not, leave.<\/p>\r\n

Find a guy who shares similar values. Find a guy you think would make a good father one day. Find a guy who appreciates the little things in life, and doesn\u2019t sweat the small stuff. And trust me, you\u2019ll know what I\u2019m talking about once you meet that guy.<\/p>\r\n

Don\u2019t <\/span>perder tempo<\/span><\/a> on somebody who likes to play God. If you feel a weird vibe around him, that\u2019s your gut telling you to flee. Trust it and move on. It\u2019s not worth it staying with someone who only likes half of you, when there are tons of guys out there who would LOVE you in all of your entirety.<\/p>\r\n

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