{"id":39942,"date":"2019-07-08T07:54:25","date_gmt":"2019-07-08T07:54:25","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=39942"},"modified":"2022-07-06T09:34:25","modified_gmt":"2022-07-06T09:34:25","slug":"se-tens-medo-de-pedir-estas-10-coisas-a-um-homem-nao-devias-estar-com-ele","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/se-tens-medo-de-pedir-estas-10-coisas-a-um-homem-nao-devias-estar-com-ele\/","title":{"rendered":"Se tens medo de pedir estas 10 coisas a um homem, n\u00e3o devias estar com ele"},"content":{"rendered":"

So, you\u2019re really into that one guy you find special and you think he\u2019s the right one for you, but you\u2019re still a bit cautious because you don\u2019t want to fuck things up. And you shouldn\u2019t be alarmed \u2013 this is completely normal.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

After all, if you\u2019re really meant to be, your decisions won\u2019t push him away from you, but bring him even closer!<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

So, stop looking for excuses only to validate his behavior. If you\u2019re medo de perguntar a um rapaz<\/a> for these 10 things, then you know you definitely shouldn\u2019t be with him!<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Ver tamb\u00e9m: \u00c9 assim que voc\u00ea sabe que \u00e9 hora de seguir em frente, com base no seu zod\u00edaco<\/a><\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

1. Compromisso<\/h2>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n
\"Se<\/figure>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Muitos rapazes s\u00e3o jogadores ou t\u00eam fobia de compromissos.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

And what makes the situation even more difficult is that you can seldom predict if he\u2019s a player or he has commitment issues.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

So, you keep dating not knowing what\u2019s next, and when it happens, it happens too late.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

\u00c9 que o compromisso \u00e9 algo que nunca se deve ter medo de pedir e, se o tivermos, isso significa he\u2019s not the right one for you<\/a>. Porqu\u00ea?<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Because if he\u2019s ready to be with you and if he really wants to be with you, he would have never let you question his intentions.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Ele faria quest\u00e3o de a tornar sua e s\u00f3 sua.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

2. Esperar pelo sexo<\/h2>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n
\"Se<\/figure>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Remember that any guy who pushes you into doing something you\u2019re not comfortable with, is not worthy of you.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

If you\u2019re afraid that he will turn his back and abandon you when you tell him that you need some time before getting intimate, then you know you\u2019re better off without him anyway.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Mereces algu\u00e9m que te aprecie a ti e ao teu corpo, e n\u00e3o que pense apenas em si pr\u00f3prio.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

3. Um futuro<\/h2>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n
\"Se<\/figure>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Are you looking for someone to build a future with? Then you shouldn\u2019t be afraid to say so.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

If you\u2019re not interested in casual romances and you\u2019re afraid that this might turn him off, you should run as far as you can from him.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

If he\u2019s subconsciously forcing you to do something only to keep him, it means he\u2019s a dirty player<\/a> e tu devias ser mais s\u00e1bio!<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Mereces construir um futuro com algu\u00e9m que o queira tanto como tu e nada mais te deve interessar.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

4. Fazer de ti a sua prioridade<\/h2>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n
\"Se<\/figure>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

If you feel like everything and everyone is more important to him than you, then you shouldn\u2019t be afraid to tell him so.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

You\u2019re not his toy and you\u2019re not there to fulfill his every wish. You\u2019re a human being and you deserve to be put on his priority list.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

And if he\u2019s unwilling to do so, then you shouldn\u2019t beg for it either.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

If making you his priority doesn\u2019t come natural to him and he doesn\u2019t even consider it despite your complaints about it, it means he\u2019s too off and definitely no good for you.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

5. Monogamia<\/h2>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n
\"Se<\/figure>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Algumas mulheres sentem-se confort\u00e1veis com o conceito de uma rela\u00e7\u00e3o aberta, em que se sai com v\u00e1rias pessoas ao mesmo tempo.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

But, if you\u2019re not of them, that\u2019s nothing you should be ashamed of.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

If you want to be in a monogamous relationship, you should say so \u2013 it is your right and you should always listen to your inner voice.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

You shouldn\u2019t discard your feelings and go against your values only to appease his ego.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

And if you\u2019re afraid to tell him for fear that he will head for the hills, then you know he\u2019s not the one for you and you should move on.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

6. Um pedido de desculpas<\/h2>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n
\"Se<\/figure>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

It doesn\u2019t matter if you\u2019ve just started dating or already been in a relationship for some time, there will always be some situations where you will say something insulting or something you didn\u2019t really mean.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Haver\u00e1 sempre situa\u00e7\u00f5es em que se magoar\u00e3o um ao outro, e pedir desculpa por isso \u00e9 uma obriga\u00e7\u00e3o se quiserem continuar a construir uma uma rela\u00e7\u00e3o feliz e saud\u00e1vel.<\/a><\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

But, if he doesn\u2019t apologize and you\u2019re too scared to ask him to do so, you know you\u2019re with the wrong man.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Ele nunca deve tomar a sua felicidade e respeito como garantidos. E s\u00f3 o facto de ter de lhe pedir desculpa j\u00e1 \u00e9 suficiente.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

7. Crian\u00e7as<\/h2>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n
\"Se<\/figure>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Se desejam ter filhos um dia no futuro, devem ser livres de o dizer.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

And if he doesn\u2019t agree with your decision and he can\u2019t promise you that he would want to become a parent one day, then you know what to do.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Decidir ter filhos ou n\u00e3o \u00e9 uma coisa importante e nunca deve comprometer os seus desejos s\u00f3 porque tem medo de o perder.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

If you choose to stay with him even though you know that he\u2019ll never want to become a parent, you\u2019re deliberately depriving yourself of happiness.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

8. O perd\u00e3o<\/h2>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n
\"Se<\/figure>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

You said something you didn\u2019t really mean and you\u2019re genuinely sorry for it, but you\u2019re afraid to seek forgiveness because you think you will be rejected.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Nenhuma pessoa deve ter medo de pedir perd\u00e3o quando est\u00e1 genuinamente arrependida (especialmente se n\u00e3o for nada de especial e especialmente se j\u00e1 o perdoou v\u00e1rias vezes at\u00e9 agora).<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

If you\u2019re afraid to ask for forgiveness, it means he\u2019s definitely not worthy of you.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

9. Respeito<\/h2>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n
\"Se<\/figure>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

O respeito \u00e9 um direito humano de nascen\u00e7a e nunca se deve pensar em ficar calado perante qualquer tipo de desrespeito ou maus tratos.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

If you\u2019re afraid to speak your mind and tell him that you deserve better conduct and respect from him, it means he\u2019s in a way emotionally abusing you.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

And you definitely shouldn\u2019t accept such treatment in return!<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Ver tamb\u00e9m: 7 maneiras de se proteger do abuso emocional<\/a><\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

10. Esfor\u00e7o<\/h2>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n
\"Se<\/figure>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Se for evidente que ele a est\u00e1 a tomar por garantida e nunca faz nada para te fazer sentir especial<\/a>, it means he\u2019s a selfish and egocentric low-effort prick.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

And if you\u2019re afraid to acknowledge it to his face, it means he\u2019s even bigger prick and you should make a run for it ASAP.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Lembre-se que real men don\u2019t make excuses \u2013 they make an effort<\/a> sem que seja necess\u00e1rio pedir-lhes que o fa\u00e7am.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Os verdadeiros homens nunca a fariam questionar as suas inten\u00e7\u00f5es e nunca a fariam sentir-se menos importante; a sua prioridade n\u00famero um \u00e9 a sua felicidade.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Por isso, espere por um homem que lhe mostre o verdadeiro significado de fazer um esfor\u00e7o e que nunca a deixar\u00e1 ficar mal, aconte\u00e7a o que acontecer!<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

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