Fica confuso e destro\u00e7ado, e a sua autoestima est\u00e1 agora em baixo. Deixa de acreditar em si pr\u00f3prio e pensa que ela \u00e9 muito melhor do que voc\u00ea, mesmo quando os outros tentam apontar todas as suas vantagens.<\/p>\n
Por isso, aqui est\u00e3o alguns passos para evitar comparar-se com ela:<\/p>\n
Afastar-se da sua p\u00e1gina nas redes sociais<\/h2>\n
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Esta pode ser a parte mais dif\u00edcil, porque as pessoas hoje em dia gostam de colocar tudo nas redes sociais e todos n\u00f3s temos um pouco de voyeur dentro de n\u00f3s.<\/p>\n
By visiting her and his pages, you will most likely see some photos of them together and burst into tears again. Everyone puts idyllic photos on social media \u2013 remember, it\u2019s not real!<\/p>\n
Deveria bloquear os dois ou mesmo afastar-se da sua pr\u00f3pria p\u00e1gina do FB ou IG durante algum tempo.<\/p>\n
N\u00e3o fazer mais perguntas sobre ela<\/h2>\n
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Pode fingir que j\u00e1 n\u00e3o est\u00e1 interessado na vida dela e na dele, mas todos sabemos que est\u00e1 a deixar cair o nome dela de prop\u00f3sito.<\/p>\n
Em vez disso, envolva-se na sua pr\u00f3pria vida e na vida dos seus amigos e familiares. Ela n\u00e3o \u00e9 o centro do seu universo; ela n\u00e3o \u00e9 uma pessoa importante.<\/p>\n
Don\u2019t compare your physical appearance to hers<\/h2>\n
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She might be prettier, taller, or younger and therefore have glowing skin, but you are a beautiful individual with your own features and personal style. You shouldn\u2019t need to crave someone else\u2019s looks.<\/p>\n
Se foi a apar\u00eancia dela que fez com que o seu ex a deixasse, ent\u00e3o \u00e9 uma pessoa feliz por n\u00e3o estar mais com ele, porque ele \u00e9 muito superficial.<\/p>\n
Na verdade, devia ter pena dela, porque ele pode voltar a fazer o mesmo se ela ficar velha ou gorda.<\/p>\n
Deixar de se culpar<\/h2>\n
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Se achava que a sua rela\u00e7\u00e3o estava a correr bem e nunca viu grandes problemas, ent\u00e3o \u00e9 melhor ficar sem ele. Ele n\u00e3o \u00e9 uma pessoa confiante e pode abandon\u00e1-la numa altura ainda pior.<\/p>\n
It is not your fault that she stumbled into his world at that moment and he didn\u2019t have the guts to confront you or try to mend things.<\/p>\n
He was the one running away and she obviously had no concerns with him being involved with you \u2013 that\u2019s her issue.<\/p>\n
Ela n\u00e3o \u00e9 perfeita<\/h2>\n
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N\u00e3o h\u00e1 qualquer hip\u00f3tese de ela ser a rapariga mais bonita, mais inteligente ou mesmo mais simp\u00e1tica que ele alguma vez conhecer\u00e1.<\/p>\n
Ela pode ter p\u00e9s feios, ter mau feitio quando est\u00e1 b\u00eabeda, n\u00e3o ser capaz de cozinhar a refei\u00e7\u00e3o preferida dele t\u00e3o bem como tu. Ela pode tra\u00ed-lo ou podem at\u00e9 casar-se daqui a um m\u00eas, quem sabe.<\/p>\n
Em breve, ele aperceber-se-\u00e1 de que ela n\u00e3o \u00e9 t\u00e3o perfeita como ele pensava. Ela pode tornar-se semelhante a si aos olhos dele e ele pode acabar por a trair com outra mulher. No entanto, ela n\u00e3o \u00e9 perfeita, porque ningu\u00e9m o \u00e9!<\/p>\n
At the end of the day, if he left you like that, he was never good enough for you. And he is obviously not mature enough because he doesn\u2019t want to fix things, just replace them.<\/p>\n
And she might get replaced too \u2013 or not. Regardless, ask yourself if you would have stayed with your ex after all. Maybe those two deserve each other.<\/p>\n
The point is, you should never change your appearance or interests to make someone love you or try to copy the other woman, thinking she\u2019s doing everything better.<\/p>\n
Mais cedo ou mais tarde, ela vai desaparecer e ele vai perceber que ela n\u00e3o \u00e9 assim t\u00e3o especial.<\/p>\n
E tu? Trabalha em ti, mant\u00e9m-te fiel a ti pr\u00f3prio e vai conhecer novas pessoas!<\/p>\n
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