{"id":40043,"date":"2019-07-09T07:06:20","date_gmt":"2019-07-09T07:06:20","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=40043"},"modified":"2021-09-08T10:17:36","modified_gmt":"2021-09-08T10:17:36","slug":"5-maneiras-de-saber-se-e-amor-verdadeiro-ou-apenas-uma-ilusao-narcisica","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/5-maneiras-de-saber-se-e-amor-verdadeiro-ou-apenas-uma-ilusao-narcisica\/","title":{"rendered":"5 maneiras de saber se \u00e9 amor verdadeiro ou apenas uma ilus\u00e3o narcisista"},"content":{"rendered":"

O amor \u00e9 uma via de dois sentidos. Ambos os parceiros precisam de dar tanto quanto esperam receber se estiverem determinados a fazer com que a rela\u00e7\u00e3o funcione. E se for amor verdadeiro<\/a>, that shouldn\u2019t be a problem. Not one bit.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Mas quando se trata de narcisistas, as coisas s\u00e3o um pouco diferentes.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

O que n\u00f3s consideramos amor, um narcisista v\u00ea como uma oportunidade de atrair mais uma v\u00edtima para a sua teia de mentiras encantadoras e manipuladoras e de falsas promessas.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

They don\u2019t see love the way we do, and they aren\u2019t capable of feeling it as deeply and profoundly as we are. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

They can fake it, and they are damn good at it. And that\u2019s the scariest thing of them all.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

How do you know if you\u2019re experiencing real love or if it\u2019s all just a well thought-out scam, designed to suck you dry and leave you hopeless? How do you know if you\u2019re living a narcissistic illusion?<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u00c9 mau que muitas vezes se chegue a este ponto. \u00c9 uma treta que as nossas esperan\u00e7as e sonhos sejam esmagados por um homem manipulador, carism\u00e1tico e encantador que n\u00e3o passa de um narcisista t\u00f3xico disfar\u00e7ado<\/a>.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u00c9 lament\u00e1vel que estes homens estejam dispostos a ir t\u00e3o longe e que consigam escapar impunes. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

E para qu\u00ea? Para aumentar o seu ego j\u00e1 demasiado inflacionado e se sentirem no controlo. Para o usar a si e a todas as v\u00edtimas que se lhe seguem como saco de pancada.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

In a narcissist\u2019s mind, love is but a means to an end. It is a perfect opportunity to manipulate, lie, deceive and demean. It is a game of sex and power. And they always win, don\u2019t they?<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Quando um narcisista diz que a ama, est\u00e1 apenas a ser manipulador e cuidadoso. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

As suas palavras s\u00e3o t\u00e3o vazias como a sua incapacidade de as sentir. Para ele, significam menos do que nada. E \u00e9 por isso que d\u00f3i tanto.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Knowing that you fell for the fake words of a controlling, sociopathic narcissist can be extremely discouraging. So here are 5 ways to know if you\u2019re experiencing real love or if it\u2019s all just a narcissistic illusion.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

1. Se fosse amor verdadeiro, ele ficaria feliz ao ver-te feliz<\/strong><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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Simples e direto. As pessoas que se preocupam genuinamente connosco ficam felizes quando nos acontecem coisas boas. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

They just can\u2019t help it. But when it\u2019s an illusion, they will try to appear happy and proud, but you\u2019ll be able to tell that it\u2019s fake.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

They will put on a wide, fake smile, but their eyes won\u2019t be able to hide their emptiness. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Os seus olhos dir-vos-\u00e3o tudo o que precisam de saber. A\u00ed, ver\u00e1s o vazio, a vacuidade e a manipula\u00e7\u00e3o.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

He will try to fool you, but if you look really closely, you\u2019ll be able to tell the difference. And at that moment, you\u2019ll know for sure what you\u2019ve been denying all this time. It\u2019s not love\u2026 just a carefully planted illusion.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

2. Se fosse amor verdadeiro, a prioridade dele seria tratar-te bem<\/strong><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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Quando amamos uma pessoa, tratamo-la bem. Desejamos-lhe o melhor e fazemos tudo o que est\u00e1 ao nosso alcance para preservar o seu bem-estar e felicidade.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

But when it\u2019s nothing but an illusion, things are way different. He will pretend he is doing something for your own good, but it will magoar-vos<\/a> e fazem-nos sentir mal. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Even though he will assure you that he means well, it won\u2019t feel that way.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

As suas palavras ser\u00e3o uma coisa, mas as suas ac\u00e7\u00f5es ser\u00e3o outra completamente diferente. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Ele far\u00e1 constantemente coisas que prejudicam o seu bem-estar, mascarando-as com as suas palavras como algo necess\u00e1rio para que cres\u00e7a e evolua. As suas palavras ser\u00e3o gentis, mas as suas ac\u00e7\u00f5es ser\u00e3o m\u00e1s e humilhantes.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

3. Se fosse amor verdadeiro, ele trataria a vossa rela\u00e7\u00e3o como uma parceria<\/strong><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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Se o seu amor fosse sincero, ele consider\u00e1-la-ia igual. Nunca te faria sentir como se lhe devesses alguma coisa. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Nunca precisar\u00e1 de se sentir menos pessoa porque a parceria estar\u00e1 a prosperar com o vosso amor e esfor\u00e7o m\u00fatuos.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

But when you\u2019re living in a narcissistic illusion, he\u2019s the one in control. He\u2019s the one making the decisions, and he\u2019s the one with the upper hand. It\u2019s never you, and deep down, you know you\u2019re being played.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Ele vai tentar fazer parecer que a sua opini\u00e3o \u00e9 importante e pode at\u00e9 pedir-lha. Mas quando chega a hora da verdade, as suas ac\u00e7\u00f5es e palavras s\u00e3o a \u00fanica coisa que importa. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Podem dizer o que quiserem, mas entra por um ouvido e sai pelo outro. N\u00e3o passa de uma ilus\u00e3o e de um faz-de-conta.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

4. Se fosse amor verdadeiro, ele nunca te pediria coisas que te fizessem sentir desconfort\u00e1vel<\/strong><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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Se ele realmente a amasse, respeit\u00e1-la-ia e respeitaria os seus desejos. Nunca te pediria para fazeres algo que te fizesse sentir mal e desconfort\u00e1vel. Ele respeit\u00e1-la-ia demasiado para a colocar nestas posi\u00e7\u00f5es horr\u00edveis.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

But when it\u2019s an illusion, he will do whatever the hell he wants and make you believe that\u2019s what you want as well. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

He will be so charming and convincing that you\u2019ll actually believe him.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Mas, no fundo, sabemos no nosso \u00edntimo o que nos faz sentir bem e o que nos faz revirar o est\u00f4mago. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

If your guy causes the latter, you\u2019re living in an illusion that is slowly making you sick.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

5. Se fosse amor verdadeiro, ele nunca te faria escolher entre ele e a tua fam\u00edlia e amigos<\/strong><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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Se o seu homem<\/a> se realmente o amasse, saberia que os seus entes queridos s\u00e3o uma extens\u00e3o de si. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Ele am\u00e1-los-ia e aceit\u00e1-los-ia como parte de quem tu \u00e9s. E seria um prazer para ele fazer isso.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Mas viver numa ilus\u00e3o narc\u00edsica significa perder lentamente o contacto com os que nos s\u00e3o mais pr\u00f3ximos. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

The guy is slowly alienating you from your support system and making you believe you don\u2019t need them in the first place.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

In his mind, he is the only one you\u2019ll ever need. And he won\u2019t be happy until he has distanced you from every single person you cherish. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

That is his ultimate goal, and he won\u2019t stop until it\u2019s done. So MAKE him stop by realizing what he\u2019s doing, and choosing your family over a narcissistic egomaniac.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

That will be the best decision you will ever make, and it\u2019s not even close. Choose yourself, love yourself, and ALWAYS be your amazing self. Everybody else is already taken.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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Love is a two-way street. Both partners need to give as much as they expect to receive if they are adamant to make it work. And if it is real love, that shouldn\u2019t be a problem. Not one bit. But when it comes to narcissists, things are a bit different. What you and I consider…<\/p>","protected":false},"author":53,"featured_media":40050,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29614],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-40043","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-love-talks"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29614,"label":"love talks"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/07\/shutterstock_501607234.jpg",800,534,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Ariel Quinn","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/author\/ariel\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29614,"name":"love talks","slug":"love-talks","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29614,"taxonomy":"category","description":"What is love? How does it affect us? How to know someone loves you or show someone you love them? What types of love are there? Learn all that and much more.","parent":38,"count":426,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29614,"category_count":426,"category_description":"What is love? How does it affect us? How to know someone loves you or show someone you love them? What types of love are there? Learn all that and much more.","cat_name":"love talks","category_nicename":"love-talks","category_parent":38}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/40043","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/53"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=40043"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/40043\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/40050"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=40043"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=40043"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=40043"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}