{"id":40077,"date":"2019-07-09T11:00:21","date_gmt":"2019-07-09T11:00:21","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=40077"},"modified":"2021-09-08T10:37:55","modified_gmt":"2021-09-08T10:37:55","slug":"estas-sao-as-10-coisas-que-nao-tens-de-justificar-a-ninguem","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/estas-sao-as-10-coisas-que-nao-tens-de-justificar-a-ninguem\/","title":{"rendered":"Estas s\u00e3o as 10 coisas que n\u00e3o tens de justificar a ningu\u00e9m"},"content":{"rendered":"

1. O seu estado de relacionamento<\/strong><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
\"Estas<\/figure>\n\n\n\n

The truth is that you actually don\u2019t have to explain porque \u00e9 que \u00e9 solteiro, <\/a>why you sleep with another guy every night or why you have lived with your boyfriend for so much time but still haven\u2019t decided to tie the knot.\u00a0<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Those are private and intimate things, and you don\u2019t have to justify them to anyone. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

S\u00f3 precisa de desfrutar da sua vida e fazer coisas que o fa\u00e7am feliz. tu<\/em> felizes, n\u00e3o os outros.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

2. O seu trabalho<\/strong><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
\"Estas<\/figure>\n\n\n\n

You don\u2019t have to explain to anyone why you decided to do the job you are currently doing even if you can do something much better. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Maybe the new work would bring you so much stress and maybe you wouldn\u2019t have any free time.\u00a0<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Talvez goste dos seus colegas de trabalho no seu emprego atual e o ambiente seja positivo, sem ningu\u00e9m a competir e a passar por cima de cad\u00e1veres para conseguir o que quer. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Confie em mim, esta escolha \u00e9 apenas sua e ningu\u00e9m tem o direito de a fazer questionar se \u00e9 boa ou n\u00e3o para si.\u00a0<\/p>\n\n\n\n

3. N\u00e3o ter um beb\u00e9 ou ter muitos filhos\u00a0<\/strong><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
\"Estas<\/figure>\n\n\n\n

Having a child is a very serious thing, and you shouldn\u2019t have to explain to anyone why you still don\u2019t have children or why you have many of them.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u00c9 uma quest\u00e3o privada que s\u00f3 deve ser discutida com o seu parceiro. As pessoas v\u00e3o sempre perguntar e ficar curiosas, mas \u00e9 voc\u00ea que as deve p\u00f4r no seu lugar.\u00a0<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Maybe some women can\u2019t have kids and questions from other people will definitely hurt them. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Por isso, nunca julgue ningu\u00e9m antes de se p\u00f4r no seu lugar e conhecer toda a sua hist\u00f3ria.\u00a0<\/p>\n\n\n\n

4. As suas finan\u00e7as\u00a0<\/strong><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
\"Estas<\/figure>\n\n\n\n

As suas finan\u00e7as s\u00e3o algo que tamb\u00e9m deve guardar para si. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

N\u00e3o \u00e9 preciso explicar a ningu\u00e9m quanto se ganha e como se gasta o dinheiro. Ganhou-o e pode gast\u00e1-lo no que quiser.\u00a0<\/p>\n\n\n\n

So, there is no need to tell anyone about details regarding your finances. In fact, you shouldn\u2019t explain anything that you don\u2019t feel comfortable with.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

5. O seu estilo de vida\u00a0<\/strong><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
\"Estas<\/figure>\n\n\n\n

\u00a0<\/strong>Algumas pessoas gostam de um estilo de vida r\u00e1pido e outras, pelo contr\u00e1rio, seguem o ritmo lento. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Depende de pessoa para pessoa, e isso \u00e9 perfeitamente normal. You don\u2019t have to feel any guilt <\/a>porque algu\u00e9m sai todos os dias, faz tantas actividades e fala sobre elas, enquanto n\u00f3s sabemos que estamos a recarregar energias quando ficamos em casa e passamos tempo com a nossa fam\u00edlia mais pr\u00f3xima.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Deves sempre ouvir o teu pr\u00f3prio cora\u00e7\u00e3o e fazer coisas que te satisfa\u00e7am a ti e n\u00e3o aos outros. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Tu existes para te fazeres feliz e satisfeito, n\u00e3o para as pessoas \u00e0 tua volta.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

6. As suas emo\u00e7\u00f5es\u00a0\u00a0<\/strong><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
\"Estas<\/figure>\n\n\n\n

Your emotions are your private thing, and if you don\u2019t want, you don\u2019t have to talk about them. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Mesmo que as pessoas tenham curiosidade em saber porque \u00e9 que age da forma que age e porque \u00e9 que faz as coisas que faz, n\u00e3o h\u00e1 necessidade de se justificar. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Vive a tua vida da forma que mais te conv\u00e9m e faz uma vida de que te orgulhes.\u00a0<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Quando fica sozinho, deve ter a sensa\u00e7\u00e3o de que fez tudo o que estava ao seu alcance para fazer todas as coisas que sempre quis fazer. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Acredita em mim, quando te sentes bem e quando sentes a paz interior, n\u00e3o h\u00e1 nada que te possa fazer sentir melhor do que isso.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

7. As suas decis\u00f5es<\/strong><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
\"Estas<\/figure>\n\n\n\n

All of us will eventually have to face some important decisions. Some of the time, we will make the right choices, and some of the time we won\u2019t. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Mas isso n\u00e3o tem qualquer problema, porque mesmo que cometa um erro, saber\u00e1 que foi voc\u00ea que o cometeu e n\u00e3o outra pessoa em vez de si. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Ser\u00e1 capaz de se perdoar a si pr\u00f3prio pelas m\u00e1s escolhas, mas n\u00e3o tenho a certeza se ser\u00e1 capaz de perdoar aos outros pelas m\u00e1s escolhas que fizeram por si.\u00a0<\/p>\n\n\n\n

That\u2019s why you are allowed to make decisions that maybe won\u2019t sound logical to others, but if you feel good making them, just bring it on. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u00c9 a tua vida e tens todo o direito de fazer o que te faz feliz.\u00a0<\/p>\n\n\n\n

8. O seu peso<\/strong><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
\"Estas<\/figure>\n\n\n\n

Isto \u00e9 uma coisa muito \u00edntima, <\/a>and you shouldn\u2019t even try to explain to people the way you look. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Maybe you would like to be skinnier or to put on some weight, but you can\u2019t because you have health problems. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Maybe you are a mom, and those kilos which you gained during the pregnancy just won\u2019t come off. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Talvez esteja stressado e coma demasiado para se sentir melhor.\u00a0<\/p>\n\n\n\n

We all have problems we are dealing with in our 4 walls, and you shouldn\u2019t even try to justify yourself and explain to others why you look the way you look. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

That is simply not their business, and they don\u2019t have any right to ask you anything about that.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

9. A sua orienta\u00e7\u00e3o sexual\u00a0<\/strong><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
\"Estas<\/figure>\n\n\n\n

Nobody has any right to judge you for your sexual orientation, and you don\u2019t have to explain your choices and decisions. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Se for heterossexual, n\u00e3o h\u00e1 problema, tal como n\u00e3o h\u00e1 problema em ser homossexual ou bissexual. Somos todos humanos e podemos experimentar at\u00e9 encontrarmos algo que funcione para n\u00f3s.\u00a0<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Maybe others will try to find out more about your romantic relationships, but if you don\u2019t feel comfortable talking about them, you don\u2019t have to. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u00c9 um assunto privado e s\u00f3 deve ser discutido com pessoas a quem se sinta \u00e0 vontade para o contar.\u00a0<\/p>\n\n\n\n

10. A forma como passa o seu tempo livre\u00a0<\/strong><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
\"Estas<\/figure>\n\n\n\n

Nunca se deve tentar justificar o facto de se passar o tempo livre com determinadas pessoas e n\u00e3o com outras. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

It just shows that maybe you feel more comfortable with someone you\u2019ve known for a long time rather than spending time with someone you haven\u2019t known for very long.\u00a0<\/p>\n\n\n\n

But it is up to you how much time you will spend with whom, and you don\u2019t have to explain it to anyone. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

N\u00e3o estou a dizer que se deva estar sempre com as mesmas pessoas, mas estou apenas a dizer que se deve fazer mudan\u00e7as quando se est\u00e1 pronto e n\u00e3o quando os outros est\u00e3o prontos. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

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