{"id":4011,"date":"2019-09-04T09:18:41","date_gmt":"2019-09-04T09:18:41","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/herway.net\/?p=4011"},"modified":"2021-08-31T07:15:29","modified_gmt":"2021-08-31T07:15:29","slug":"13-regras-que-ensinarei-a-viver-a-minha-filha","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/13-regras-que-ensinarei-a-viver-a-minha-filha\/","title":{"rendered":"13 regras que vou ensinar \u00e0 minha filha para viver"},"content":{"rendered":"

H\u00e1 muito tempo, prometi a mim pr\u00f3prio escrever um carta orgulhosa para a minha filha<\/a> where I’ll gather all my life’s wisdom, and tell her all the things I wish someone wrote to me, so here I am keeping that promise. <\/p>\n

You don\u2019t need a man to be happy<\/h2>\n

\"jovem<\/p>\n

O mundo vai tentar dizer-nos que precisamos de algu\u00e9m para nos sentirmos completos.<\/p>\n

They\u2019ll try to make you feel less of a person if you don\u2019t have a guy next to you. They tell you that your happiness and life success depends on whether a man wants you.<\/p>\n

I\u2019ll tell you that\u2019s just BS. You don\u2019t need a man to be happy.<\/a><\/p>\n

I gave birth to you as a whole human being\u2014you are more than enough on your own.<\/p>\n

A sua felicidade \u00e9 da sua responsabilidade<\/h2>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

Your happiness is not dependent on boys\u2019 attention or how others see you.<\/p>\n

You\u2019re the only one that has power over your feelings, over your life, and over your happiness. So, please, choose to be happy.<\/p>\n

Escolher sorrir e rir e dan\u00e7ar e morder o l\u00e1bio e deixar o cabelo encaracolado e ver a temporada inteira de uma s\u00e9rie num dia.<\/p>\n

Escolher afastar-se <\/a>de rela\u00e7\u00f5es t\u00f3xicas e pessoas t\u00f3xicas. Posso n\u00e3o estar sempre presente para te fazer feliz, mas ensinar-te-ei a fazeres-te feliz.<\/p>\n

As pessoas est\u00e3o partidas e podem n\u00e3o te dar o amor que mereces, mas ama-as na mesma<\/h2>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

Don\u2019t shut yourself down. Don\u2019t push people away. Don\u2019t be like that.<\/p>\n

Dar amor incondicionalmente. Porque quando se d\u00e1 amor sem esperar nada em troca, s\u00f3 ent\u00e3o se pode dizer que se amou verdadeiramente.<\/p>\n

You won\u2019t lack love because I\u2019ll teach you to love yourself regardless whether people do it or not.<\/p>\n

O mundo inteiro \u00e9 vosso<\/h2>\n

\"Rapariga<\/p>\n

Sinta-se \u00e0 vontade para o conquistar. Seja o que for que te apete\u00e7a ser, eu protejo-te.<\/p>\n

Queres ser bailarina, astronauta, veterin\u00e1ria, m\u00e9dica ou talvez cantora?<\/p>\n

Quer fazer mergulho, quer comprar um motor, quer fazer as malas e viajar pelo mundo?<\/p>\n

It\u2019s your decision and I\u2019ll teach you that the impossible is just an option.<\/p>\n

A beleza est\u00e1 l\u00e1 onde a escolhemos para ser vista<\/h2>\n

\"Mulher<\/p>\n

You don\u2019t have to show extra skin to be noticed and to be beautiful.<\/p>\n

O batom vermelho \u00e9 lindo e tu consegues us\u00e1-lo. As cal\u00e7as de fato de treino s\u00e3o bonitas e as camisolas com capuz tamb\u00e9m.<\/p>\n

You can pull off that crop top. You can be prettier in sneakers than those girls that can\u2019t walk in high heels but decide to wear them anyway.<\/p>\n

O cabelo encaracolado \u00e9 fant\u00e1stico, o cabelo liso \u00e9 deslumbrante.<\/p>\n

Chubby men can be attractive as well as those tall and \u2018gym body\u2019 guys as well.<\/p>\n

It\u2019s the inner beauty that matters.<\/a> It\u2019s how things make you feel that matter, not what others say is beautiful. I\u2019ll teach you to choose your own beauty.<\/p>\n

Caminhar com a cabe\u00e7a levantada<\/h2>\n

\"rosto<\/p>\n

Don\u2019t let anything or anybody bring your down.<\/p>\n

Don\u2019t let anyone tell you you are not worthy.<\/strong><\/p>\n

You\u2019ll meet a thousand bullies throughout your whole life\u2014kindergarten, high school, workplace, at the bus station, on your loan interview\u2014you name it.<\/p>\n

O que eles vos dizem s\u00f3 interessa se acreditarem nisso.<\/p>\n

I\u2019ll teach you not to bend your head because of them but instead, to prove them wrong.<\/p>\n

Em vez de magoar as pessoas, fa\u00e7a-as sentir que s\u00e3o importantes<\/h2>\n

\"Mulher<\/p>\n

I\u2019ll teach you not to be the bully.<\/p>\n

I\u2019ll teach you that no matter how bad a day you had, not to take it out on others.<\/p>\n

Be the light at the end of the tunnel for others because your kind words might change someone\u2019s life.<\/p>\n

Don\u2019t build walls\u2014build roads to other people\u2019s hearts. You never know when you\u2019ll need the same.<\/p>\n

It\u2019s OK to cry<\/h2>\n

\"Mulher<\/p>\n

I\u2019ll teach you not to hide your tears.<\/p>\n

I\u2019ll teach you not to bottle up your feelings nor to allow them to suffocate you because it\u2019s OK to cry and it\u2019s OK to feel.<\/p>\n

Forget about being tough and not letting anybody come close to you. Instead of growing thick around yourself, I\u2019ll teach you como lidar com desgostos.<\/a><\/p>\n

A maioria dos homens s\u00e3o idiotas, mas encontrar\u00e1s aquele que te amar\u00e1 da forma que mereces<\/h2>\n

\"Mulher<\/p>\n

You\u2019ll come to realize this yourself\u2014men sometimes have no idea what to do with themselves let alone with you. They\u2019re messy and they might even make a mess out of your life.<\/p>\n

Mas there will be someone who\u2019ll love you<\/a> da forma que mereces.<\/p>\n

There will be somebody who will choose you and who\u2019ll keep choosing you for the rest of his life\u2014accept nothing less and don\u2019t rush things. Things always fall into place eventually.<\/p>\n

Your productivity doesn\u2019t determine your success<\/h2>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

I\u2019ll teach you that it\u2019s fine to stay home when you\u2019re feeling down.<\/p>\n

There will be days when you don\u2019t feel like eating\u2014it\u2019s impossible to be productive on those days. It doesn\u2019t mean you weren\u2019t born for big things.<\/p>\n

There will be days where you\u2019ll give 150% of yourself and sometimes your battery will be on saver mode, but don\u2019t ever doubt that you won\u2019t make anything big of your life.<\/p>\n

Acredito em ti e sei que o far\u00e1s.<\/p>\n

Se queres alguma coisa, vai atr\u00e1s dela com todo o teu cora\u00e7\u00e3o<\/h2>\n

\"Mulher<\/p>\n

Acredito que quando queremos verdadeiramente alguma coisa, todo o universo nos ajuda a consegui-la.<\/p>\n

Don\u2019t ever believe you are unworthy or that there are things you can\u2019t achieve.<\/p>\n

There isn\u2019t a single border you can\u2019t cross, there isn\u2019t a single human being you can\u2019t get to, and there isn\u2019t single weather in which you can\u2019t survive. So just go for it!<\/p>\n

Don\u2019t dim your voice.<\/h2>\n

\"retrato<\/p>\n

Never dim your voice\u2014not to your mother, not to your boyfriend, friends, teachers, or bosses.<\/p>\n

If what you\u2019re saying is making sense, don\u2019t let them convince you that you’re wrong.<\/p>\n

Instead, find a way to prove to them that you\u2019re right.<\/p>\n

You\u2019re allowed to fall, as long as you get up<\/h2>\n

\"Mulher<\/p>\n

I\u2019ll teach you that life is full of ups and downs and that you can\u2019t be high all the time but the great thing is that you can\u2019t be low all the time either.<\/p>\n

You\u2019re allowed to have bruised knees. You\u2019re allowed to fall off your bike, get fired, and have only $4.99 in your bank account.<\/p>\n

Your projects will fail, there will be flights you\u2019ll miss and people you\u2019ll let go too easily.<\/p>\n

It will only be forgiven if you don\u2019t give up and you find a way to be a better version of yourself each and every day. Because, my darling, you have only one life and I\u2019ll do my best to teach you to live it to the fullest.<\/p>\n

Whether you\u2019re going to do it or not, later on, will be up to you and only you.<\/p>\n

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A long time ago I made myself a promise to write a proud letter to my daughter where I’ll gather all my life’s wisdom, and tell her all the things I wish someone wrote to me, so here I am keeping that promise.  You don\u2019t need a man to be happy The world will try…<\/p>","protected":false},"author":25,"featured_media":121573,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29624],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-4011","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-friends-and-family"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29624,"label":"friends&family"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/09\/13-Rules-Ill-Teach-My-Daughter-To-Live-By-1024x684.jpg",1024,684,true],"author_info":{"display_name":"Amy Nicholson","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/author\/amy\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29624,"name":"friends&family","slug":"friends-and-family","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29624,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Do you want to improve your relationship with friends and family? Following these tips will help you boost your connection with your favorite people.","parent":29620,"count":316,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29624,"category_count":316,"category_description":"Do you want to improve your relationship with friends and family? Following these tips will help you boost your connection with your favorite people.","cat_name":"friends&family","category_nicename":"friends-and-family","category_parent":29620}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/4011","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/25"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=4011"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/4011\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/121573"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=4011"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=4011"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=4011"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}