{"id":40130,"date":"2019-07-10T07:45:43","date_gmt":"2019-07-10T07:45:43","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=40130"},"modified":"2021-08-12T06:42:31","modified_gmt":"2021-08-12T06:42:31","slug":"ele-nao-e-mau-a-enviar-mensagens-de-texto-ou-e-preguicoso-ou-nao-gosta-assim-tanto-de-ti","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/ele-nao-e-mau-a-enviar-mensagens-de-texto-ou-e-preguicoso-ou-nao-gosta-assim-tanto-de-ti\/","title":{"rendered":"Ele n\u00e3o \u00e9 \"mau a mandar mensagens\", ou \u00e9 pregui\u00e7oso ou n\u00e3o est\u00e1 assim t\u00e3o interessado em ti"},"content":{"rendered":"

If I could go back to that moment he first used the \u201cI\u2019m bad at texting\u201d excuse, I would slap myself out of that romantic daydream ASAP and see him for who he is right then and there. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Desta forma, desperdicei demasiado do meu tempo e sofri imenso por algu\u00e9m que n\u00e3o merecia. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

I knew the truth deep down: he was just another selfish prick who has no other agenda other than doing what\u2019s convenient for him. <\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Mesmo assim, justificava o seu comportamento porque queria muito confiar nele. Lembro-me de pensar que as mensagens de texto n\u00e3o s\u00e3o assim t\u00e3o importantes, h\u00e1 outras coisas mais importantes. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

But it is important. Texting, messaging, snapchatting, calling \u2013 they are all ways of keeping in touch. They are all small ways to mostrar a algu\u00e9m o quanto se preocupa<\/a>. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Demora t\u00e3o pouco tempo a enviar uma mensagem a algu\u00e9m, mas significa tanto para algu\u00e9m que est\u00e1 \u00e0 espera dessa mensagem. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Ent\u00e3o, porque \u00e9 que tudo tem de ser t\u00e3o complicado quando se trata de uma simples mensagem de texto? <\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

\"Ele<\/figure>\n\n\n\n

Along with being lazy and uninterested, there might be one more reason for them not texting \u2013 they\u2019re playing games. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Ao n\u00e3o iniciarem as mensagens de texto, ao atrasarem as repeti\u00e7\u00f5es ou ao responderem tardiamente, querem parecer fora de alcance para que possa persegui-los. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Perhaps they are counting on women to want what they can\u2019t easily have. Which is true \u2013 to a point. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

But somebody should tell them that women also don\u2019t appreciate someone messing with their heads. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

If you don\u2019t like that either, simply don\u2019t play along. It will just come out to bite you in the end. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Don\u2019t fall for the \u201cbad texter\u201d  excuse. <\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u201cI am not into texting,\u201d and all the varieties of that excuse are lame. A decade ago, this could pass as a solid excuse, but today it\u2019s just ridiculous. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

As mensagens de texto s\u00e3o uma das formas mais f\u00e1ceis de comunica\u00e7\u00e3o nos dias de hoje e qualquer pessoa adulta que diga que \u00e9 m\u00e1 a enviar mensagens de texto deve sentir-se imediatamente envergonhada. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Ele recebeu a tua mensagem. <\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Nesta era moderna, uma coisa \u00e9 certa: ele recebeu a sua mensagem. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Unless his phone is powered off, stolen, lost, broken, or drowning in his toilet bowl, they\u2019ve surely already read your text. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

There is no need for a follow-up text, because that\u2019s never a good idea and it just makes you look desperate. He doesn\u2019t need that ego boost. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Naturally, if your text came at some inconvenient hour \u2013 for instance, when he\u2019s sleeping \u2013 he can\u2019t respond immediately. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Still, he should send you a reply as soon as he can. It’s a basic form of respect. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

You know how the \u201cI\u2019ve been busy\u201d story goes. <\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

You don\u2019t need to hear it again. <\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

He will say that he was super busy and didn\u2019t have time to reply (till the next day),  he didn\u2019t checked in because he was swamped at work, and all the excuses in between. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

V\u00e1 l\u00e1, ningu\u00e9m est\u00e1 assim t\u00e3o ocupado. Penso que a pessoa mais ocupada do mundo dedica um momento do seu tempo a enviar uma mensagem de texto \u00e0 sua cara-metade. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

\"\"<\/figure>\n\n\n\n

It\u2019s all a matter of priorities. It\u2019s all about how much someone cares for you. <\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

A verdade feia que ningu\u00e9m quer ouvir \u00e9: <\/em>Se ele realmente se importasse, mandava uma mensagem. <\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Mesmo que ele seja o pior mensageiro do mundo, ele faria um esfor\u00e7o. Ele telefonaria. Arranjaria tempo para a ver mais vezes. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Ele faria o imposs\u00edvel antes de dizer que \u00e9 mau a enviar mensagens de texto. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Tudo o resto \u00e9 uma desculpa. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Seja honesto consigo pr\u00f3prio e poupe-se a muitas dores e desilus\u00f5es mais tarde. <\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

If the reason he is supposedly \u201cbad at texting\u201d is lack of his interest in you, then it\u2019s pretty clear that you should try your luck somewhere else because with him there will be none. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Provavelmente est\u00e1 a fazer jogos e manter-te no banco<\/a> s\u00f3 trocando mensagens de texto ocasionalmente. Se ele estivesse interessado em algo mais, enviava mensagens pelo menos uma vez por dia. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Mesmo que ele seja demasiado pregui\u00e7oso para enviar mensagens, continua a n\u00e3o valer o seu tempo. <\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

If he is unable to do the bare minimum \u2013 like texting you goodnight or good morning \u2013 right from the start, imagine how bad things are going to be later. <\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Por isso, confio em que, da pr\u00f3xima vez que encontrar algu\u00e9m que diga que n\u00e3o gosta de enviar mensagens de texto, saiba que deve olhar para o outro lado. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Because a man who doesn\u2019t make an effort isn\u2019t worth of yours either. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

\"Ele<\/figure>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

If I could go back to that moment he first used the \u201cI\u2019m bad at texting\u201d excuse, I would slap myself out of that romantic daydream ASAP and see him for who he is right then and there.  This way, I wasted too much of my time and endured a world of pain for somebody…<\/p>","protected":false},"author":34,"featured_media":40133,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29650],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-40130","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-girl-code"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29650,"label":"girl code"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/07\/shutterstock_617234354.jpg",800,534,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Inna Williams","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/author\/inna\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29650,"name":"girl code","slug":"girl-code","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29650,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Only girls will understand these unedited truths about men and girl code rules. Join us at the girl cave, where no guy is allowed to enter.","parent":29643,"count":41,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29650,"category_count":41,"category_description":"Only girls will understand these unedited truths about men and girl code rules. Join us at the girl cave, where no guy is allowed to enter.","cat_name":"girl code","category_nicename":"girl-code","category_parent":29643}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/40130","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/34"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=40130"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/40130\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/40133"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=40130"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=40130"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=40130"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}