{"id":40159,"date":"2020-03-10T09:22:36","date_gmt":"2020-03-10T09:22:36","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=40159"},"modified":"2022-05-04T11:04:29","modified_gmt":"2022-05-04T11:04:29","slug":"definicao-de-pistantrofobia-sintomas-e-formas-de-a-ultrapassar","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/definicao-de-pistantrofobia-sintomas-e-formas-de-a-ultrapassar\/","title":{"rendered":"Pistantrofobia: defini\u00e7\u00e3o, sintomas e formas de a ultrapassar"},"content":{"rendered":"

Defini\u00e7\u00e3o de pistantropia<\/span><\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n

A Pistantrofobia \u00e9 um medo enorme de confiar nas pessoas devido a experi\u00eancias passadas terr\u00edveis.<\/p>\n

\u00c9 aquela sensa\u00e7\u00e3o horr\u00edvel de ter ci\u00fames numa nova rela\u00e7\u00e3o porque algu\u00e9m o magoou <\/a>no anterior.<\/p>\n

It doesn’t feel nice when you have trust issues and you can’t relax in a new relationship because your previous partner hurt you in the last one.<\/p>\n

\u00c9 imaginar o pior cen\u00e1rio poss\u00edvel nas suas rela\u00e7\u00f5es futuras, mesmo que o que sente seja apenas um medo irracional.<\/p>\n

This is something that happens to more and more Americans and that’s why many of them have failed relationships.<\/p>\n

If you\u2019re uncertain whether or not you are suffering from pistanthrophobia, I suggest you check these symptoms and signs that can reveal this issue in time.<\/p>\n

Sintomas de pistantropia<\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n

Acredita piamente que qualquer novo parceiro o vai magoar<\/h2>\n

\"Mulher<\/p>\n

Se pensa que cada nova pessoa na sua vida amorosa o vai magoar, \u00e9 um sinal claro de que est\u00e1 a sofrer deste estado.<\/p>\n

You have a negative way of thinking because you have been hurt in the past and you simply can’t relax.<\/p>\n

Pensamos que, mais cedo ou mais tarde, a pessoa de quem gostamos nos vai magoar e imaginamos o pior cen\u00e1rio poss\u00edvel na nossa cabe\u00e7a.<\/p>\n

That’s why you keep your walls up, not letting anyone in and get to know you better.<\/p>\n

Se este estado se mantiver durante muito tempo, pode tornar-se cr\u00f3nico e pode acabar por agir com frieza em rela\u00e7\u00e3o a todos, impedindo que os outros se aproximem de si e o conhe\u00e7am.<\/p>\n

Pensa demasiado<\/h2>\n

\"Uma<\/p>\n

Pensar demais \u00e9 muito comum quando se est\u00e1 neste estado de esp\u00edrito. Mesmo que tente dar o seu cora\u00e7\u00e3o a algu\u00e9m, ir\u00e1 precisam de ser constantemente tranquilizados<\/a> que te amam.<\/p>\n

Se eles sa\u00edrem sozinhos, ficar\u00e1 doente de preocupa\u00e7\u00e3o com a possibilidade de eles a tra\u00edrem.<\/p>\n

But just because others were cheaters, it doesn’t mean that your loved will act the same.<\/p>\n

\u00c9 preciso saber que as suas experi\u00eancias passadas n\u00e3o s\u00e3o equivalentes \u00e0s suas rela\u00e7\u00f5es futuras.<\/p>\n

Se relaxar um pouco mais, ver\u00e1 que n\u00e3o h\u00e1 nada com que se preocupar.<\/p>\n

Est\u00e1s sempre com ci\u00fames<\/h2>\n

\"mulher
\nIf you always doubt that your partner will cheat on you, you won’t be able to live your life to the fullest.<\/p>\n

Instead of enjoying, you will constantly have trust issues you won’t be able to get rid of.<\/p>\n

Yes, intimate relationships are tricky and so many things can happen, but if you keep in a negative frame of mind, you will never be able to enjoy it fully. What you currently feel is irrational fear and it\u2019s not good for you.<\/p>\n

Se continuar a viver assim, vai encerrar totalmente o contacto interpessoal com o seu ente querido.<\/p>\n

Mais tarde, tornar-se-\u00e1 um isolacionista, n\u00e3o sendo capaz de lidar com os traumas do passado. E eu sei que essa n\u00e3o \u00e9 a vida que desejas ter.<\/p>\n

Apega-se facilmente<\/h2>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

Quando sofre deste medo, come\u00e7a a acreditar em contos de fadas, desejando ter esse tipo de hist\u00f3ria de amor.<\/p>\n

But we all know that fairy tales don’t exist unless you go the extra mile to create them.<\/p>\n

O seu problema \u00e9 que se apega facilmente e precisa de ser constantemente tranquilizado na sua rela\u00e7\u00e3o atual.<\/p>\n

Even if you want a happy relationship, you think negatively so much that you can’t make one.<\/p>\n

You want your partner to be your best friend, your lover, and your soulmate the day you meet him, but you don’t think about the time that needs to pass to get there.<\/p>\n

Assume que todas as pessoas s\u00e3o batoteiras<\/h2>\n

\"mulher
\nDevido a tantos problemas de confian\u00e7a, pensa constantemente que todos os homens acabar\u00e3o por a trair.<\/p>\n

As suas rela\u00e7\u00f5es \u00edntimas est\u00e3o cheias de pensamentos negativos que fazem de si um isolacionista e um odiador de pessoas.<\/p>\n

A raz\u00e3o pela qual muitas pessoas deixam de o seguir e se afastam \u00e9 a sua energia negativa.<\/p>\n

Os seus traumas passados tiveram um enorme impacto na sua vida amorosa e nada \u00e9 t\u00e3o simples como era antes.<\/p>\n

Sente que n\u00e3o \u00e9 suficientemente bom para o seu parceiro<\/h2>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

Como tem problemas em confiar nas pessoas, desenvolver\u00e1 o medo de n\u00e3o ser suficientemente bom para o seu parceiro.<\/p>\n

It doesn’t happen immediately, but rather along the road after many failed relationships.<\/p>\n

Come\u00e7a a tornar-se cada vez mais consciente da sua apar\u00eancia e do seu comportamento e acredita que n\u00e3o \u00e9 suficientemente bom.<\/p>\n

Vive com medo constante de que o seu parceiro se apaixone por outra pessoa e acabe por ficar sozinho.<\/p>\n

N\u00e3o tens confian\u00e7a nenhuma no teu parceiro, o que \u00e9 a verdadeira defini\u00e7\u00e3o de pistantrofobia, segundo o Urban Dictionary.<\/p>\n

Sente que nunca vai encontrar um amor verdadeiro<\/h2>\n

\"mulher
\nSince you\u2019re unable to trust others so easily, you know in advance that it\u2019s hard to find real love.<\/p>\n

De facto, acredita firmemente que nenhum homem te dar\u00e1 valor<\/a> e comprometer-me totalmente convosco.<\/p>\n

Tem essa mentalidade devido a m\u00e1s experi\u00eancias que aconteceram anteriormente.<\/p>\n

Despite you believing that you\u2019re the only one with these thoughts, there are a lot of Americans who struggle to get rid of this issue.<\/p>\n

Encontrar novas pessoas e conhec\u00ea-las faz-nos sentir mal porque achamos que nos v\u00e3o tomar por garantidas, especialmente os homens.<\/p>\n

Even if people close to you, like your best friend, try to convince you that everything is perfectly fine with you, you still won’t believe them.<\/p>\n

Se sente que o seu parceiro n\u00e3o \u00e9 o que imaginou, fecha imediatamente o contacto interpessoal com ele.<\/p>\n

You won’t even give him a chance to explain anything. And though this is a painful thing to find out, your attitude will be so bad that will make some people unfollow you.<\/p>\n

You hate meeting people thinking that you won’t like them<\/h2>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

Quando se est\u00e1 neste estado de esp\u00edrito, n\u00e3o \u00e9 muito f\u00e1cil ir a reuni\u00f5es sociais e fingir que se gosta de todas as pessoas.<\/p>\n

Devido a m\u00e1s experi\u00eancias que lhe aconteceram, acredita que toda a gente o vai magoar.<\/p>\n

Simplesmente tem problemas em confiar nos outros e \u00e9 muito dif\u00edcil livrar-se desse h\u00e1bito.<\/p>\n

Quem n\u00e3o est\u00e1 familiarizado com este estado tem dificuldade em compreender que \u00e9 muito dif\u00edcil desenvolver uma rela\u00e7\u00e3o feliz.<\/p>\n

Mas se tentarmos sair da nossa zona de conforto, podem acontecer coisas incr\u00edveis. Confia em mim, porque eu j\u00e1 passei por isso!<\/p>\n

Formas de ultrapassar a pistantrofobia<\/strong><\/em><\/span><\/p>\n

Conhe\u00e7a os seus gatilhos<\/h2>\n

\"mulher
\nSe quiser voltar a confiar nos outros, especialmente no seu parceiro amoroso, precisa de conhecer os factores que o levam a sentir-se assim.<\/p>\n

Once you find out what hurts you the most, try to work on that in everyday life. Step by step, get out of your comfort zone and do things you haven’t yet done.<\/p>\n

It will be tough at the beginning, but you\u2019ll learn new things about yourself and you\u2019ll feel much better.<\/p>\n

Dar tempo a si pr\u00f3prio<\/h2>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

Different people react differently to some things. That’s why you can’t expect that you will overcome this state quickly.<\/p>\n

\u00c9 preciso tempo para nos livrarmos de algo que tem ra\u00edzes profundas dentro de n\u00f3s. Seja paciente e d\u00ea a si pr\u00f3prio tempo suficiente para conhecer melhor o seu novo eu.<\/p>\n

In that way, you don’t rush and you won’t feel any pressure. Everything will happen when it is supposed to happen and you will finally be able to come\u00e7ar um novo cap\u00edtulo da sua vida.<\/a><\/p>\n

If you can’t do it alone, ask for therapy<\/h2>\n

\"mulher
\nIt is completely fine to ask for help if you feel that you can’t do it alone.<\/p>\n

Finding a good therapist will make you feel calmer and you\u2019ll know that you did something good for yourself.<\/p>\n

This is actually the best way to help yourself because you\u2019ll know exactly what you need to do to be the old version of yourself again.<\/p>\n

You won’t believe in fairy tales anymore; you will be aware of the reality around you.<\/p>\n

Tentar pensar positivamente<\/h2>\n

\"uma<\/p>\n

It is hard to switch from a negative mindset to a positive one in no time. That’s why you should work on that every day.<\/p>\n

Quando for confrontado com situa\u00e7\u00f5es dif\u00edceis, tente pensar de uma forma diferente da que costumava pensar.<\/p>\n

I know this is not easy, but you will never get where you want to be if you don’t try.<\/p>\n

Quando se libertar de uma forma de pensar negativa, tudo parecer\u00e1 muito melhor.<\/p>\n

Afastar-se de coisas negativas<\/h2>\n

\"vista
\nSe estiver constantemente rodeado de negatividade na sua vida, ter\u00e1 mais hip\u00f3teses de entrar em depress\u00e3o.<\/p>\n

That’s why you should step away from everything that disturbs your peace.<\/p>\n

If you think there are toxic people in your life, just cut them off. If you don’t like spending time in one place, just move to another.<\/p>\n

Pamper yourself, because you have been doing too much for people who don\u2019t deserve it.<\/p>\n

It is finally time to put yourself first and live the life you\u2019re proud of. Remember, nothing is impossible if you really want it!<\/p>\n

In the end, I just want to say that there are no problems that you can’t solve.<\/p>\n

You can change your life even if you are 80 years old. It\u2019s never too late for good things.<\/p>\n

Hope you will listen to my advice and that you won’t sweat the small stuff anymore. I know that it is hardest to fight against yourself.<\/p>\n

But if you win, there isn’t any other battle that you can’t win!
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