{"id":40173,"date":"2019-07-10T10:23:07","date_gmt":"2019-07-10T10:23:07","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=40173"},"modified":"2021-09-08T09:53:28","modified_gmt":"2021-09-08T09:53:28","slug":"5-feridas-emocionais-do-seu-passado-que-o-impedem-de-seguir-em-frente","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/5-feridas-emocionais-do-seu-passado-que-o-impedem-de-seguir-em-frente\/","title":{"rendered":"5 feridas emocionais do seu passado que o impedem de seguir em frente"},"content":{"rendered":"

Cada desgosto, cada amizade falhada e todos os seus infort\u00fanios na vida moldaram-na de alguma forma na mulher que \u00e9 hoje.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Cada cicatriz que ganhaste tornou-te um pouco mais resistente. Cada dor li\u00e7\u00e3o de amor<\/a> tornou-o um pouco mais reservado e cada desilus\u00e3o tornou-o um pouco mais fechado.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

You didn\u2019t want it. You didn\u2019t expect it. But one thing after another has led you to become a different person than you used to be. <\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

O tipo de pessoa que perdeu o brilho que outrora possu\u00eda e cujo entusiasmo pela vida est\u00e1 a desaparecer lentamente.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Algumas feridas curam-se e ficam no passado, mas h\u00e1 outras que, de alguma forma, permanecem sempre no fundo e impedem-nos de seguir em frente.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Those emotional wounds are far too scarring not to leave a lasting mark on you. And as much as you try to pretend they\u2019re not there and that you\u2019re okay, they keep reminding you otherwise.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Some life experiences are just too damaging to kid yourself into thinking they wouldn\u2019t still have an effect on your life. <\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Podemos tentar fugir e podemos tentar neg\u00e1-lo, mas h\u00e1 coisas que nos v\u00e3o sempre apanhar.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Aqui est\u00e3o 5 feridas emocionais do seu passado que est\u00e3o a fazer com que seja dif\u00edcil ver a luz ao fundo do t\u00fanel. <\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

As much as you wish they weren\u2019t there, you know they are the reason you just can\u2019t seem to move forward with that beaming smile you once had.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

1. Ser humilhado por algu\u00e9m de quem se gosta<\/strong><\/h2>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n
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Ser humilhado, privada ou publicamente, por uma pessoa que nos \u00e9 t\u00e3o querida \u00e9 um dos comprimidos mais dif\u00edceis de engolir. <\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Ter a sua dignidade retirada e ser transformado num objeto de degrada\u00e7\u00e3o \u00e9 extremamente dif\u00edcil de processar e ultrapassar.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Quando uma pessoa que am\u00e1vamos profundamente nos tirava isso, tornava-nos dif\u00edcil confiar em algu\u00e9m depois dela.\u00a0<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Fizeram-te sentir em baixo, sem valor e irrelevante. Recuperar-se disso vai ser um trabalho \u00e1rduo. <\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

This emotional wound is forever engraved in you and it will always make your eyes tear up when you\u2019re randomly reminded of it.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

2. Ficar desiludido com a pessoa que tinha num pedestal<\/strong><\/h2>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n
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These days, it\u2019s hard letting people in. It\u2019s hard letting somebody occupy a huge chunk of your heart, letting them settle in comfortably in your mind and in a sua alma<\/a>, esperando que nunca desejem sair daquele lugar.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

At\u00e9 que o fa\u00e7am. At\u00e9 decidirem que o teu cora\u00e7\u00e3o j\u00e1 n\u00e3o \u00e9 suficientemente bom. At\u00e9 decidirem que j\u00e1 n\u00e3o \u00e9s o que eles querem. <\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Eles v\u00e3o-se embora e s\u00f3 nos resta uma mente desiludida que se pergunta porque \u00e9 que isso teve de acontecer.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Why weren\u2019t you enough? Why did the person you let so close to you end up being the worst thing for you?<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Como \u00e9 que isto acontece sempre contigo e como \u00e9 que podes continuar a confiar em algu\u00e9m?<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

3. Ser enganado<\/strong><\/h2>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n
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Deixaste-o entrar na tua vida e tudo o que pediste foi uma coisa. Fidelidade. <\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Tudo o que esperava era ser respeitado e n\u00e3o ser feito de parvo. E, no entanto, de alguma forma, isso acabou por acontecer.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Ele procurou a companhia de outra mulher e tu nunca compreender\u00e1s porqu\u00ea. Nunca saber\u00e1s o que o levou a dormir com uma rapariga qualquer quando tu estavas ali, disposta a dar-lhe tudo o que ele quisesse de ti.\u00a0<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

And now, you expect the same thing from anyone who enters your life. You don\u2019t want to be a skeptic but that\u2019s what he made you into.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

You don\u2019t want to expect the next guy to do the worst thing but you do. That scar will always be there and you are finding it hard to shake it off.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

4. Ter algu\u00e9m que amamos indiferente a n\u00f3s<\/strong><\/h2>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n
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A indiferen\u00e7a \u00e9 o pior sentimento que existe. N\u00e3o se \u00e9 aceite e n\u00e3o se \u00e9 ignorado. <\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

You are simply not even considered. It\u2019s like you\u2019re such a waste of time that you\u2019re not worth being noticed.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

And that hurts more than being ignored. Because when you\u2019re ignored, at least your presence is noticed. <\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

\u00c9 uma op\u00e7\u00e3o<\/a> and you are in the mix. But when somebody you care for is indifferent to you, it feels like you\u2019re merely a shadow of a person.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

A fly on the wall that is clearly there but nobody can see it. Or worse yet\u2026 nobody wants to see it. <\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

It hurts and you\u2019d rather be alone than risk feeling this void ever again. Being hurt at least makes you feel algo<\/em>. Isto faz-nos sentir invis\u00edveis.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

5. Perder um ente querido<\/strong><\/h2>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n
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It goes without saying that losing a loved one is the hardest thing to deal with. It wasn\u2019t something that was meant to hurt you. It wasn\u2019t planned. <\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

And it wasn\u2019t about YOU. It was the worst thing you ever experienced and it hit you like a thousand blows to your chest.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

It just happened, they left this earth and your life suddenly turned gray and your soul became numb. You didn\u2019t know how to deal with it. You couldn\u2019t comprehend the pain that was overcoming every fiber of your being.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Ficou inconsol\u00e1vel, devastado e incapaz de compreender porqu\u00ea.\u00a0<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Incapaz de aceitar que eles se foram. Incapaz de aceitar que j\u00e1 n\u00e3o podia sentir a sua presen\u00e7a f\u00edsica na sua vida. <\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

The one you would\u2019ve given your life for\u2026 lost theirs. And now\u2026 nothing is the same and nothing will ever be the same again.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

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Every heartbreak, every failed friendship and all of your misfortunes in life have in some way shaped you into the woman you are today. Every scar you have earned has made you a little tougher. Every painful love lesson has made you a little more guarded and every disappointment has made you just a little…<\/p>","protected":false},"author":40,"featured_media":40185,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29618],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-40173","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-moving-on"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29618,"label":"moving on"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/07\/shutterstock_504503110-1.jpg",800,534,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Tara Brown","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/author\/tara-brown\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29618,"name":"moving on","slug":"moving-on","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29618,"taxonomy":"category","description":"When nothing else works - inspiring stories about moving on are bound to help you let go of people and situations you never thought you could live without.\r\n","parent":38,"count":200,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29618,"category_count":200,"category_description":"When nothing else works - inspiring stories about moving on are bound to help you let go of people and situations you never thought you could live without.\r\n","cat_name":"moving on","category_nicename":"moving-on","category_parent":38}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/40173","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/40"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=40173"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/40173\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/40185"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=40173"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=40173"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=40173"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}