{"id":40195,"date":"2020-11-10T12:17:46","date_gmt":"2020-11-10T12:17:46","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=40195"},"modified":"2021-08-12T12:40:25","modified_gmt":"2021-08-12T12:40:25","slug":"7-argumentos-que-sinalizam-o-inicio-do-fim","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/7-argumentos-que-sinalizam-o-inicio-do-fim\/","title":{"rendered":"7 argumentos que voc\u00ea tem que sinalizam o come\u00e7o do fim"},"content":{"rendered":"

Em qualquer rela\u00e7\u00e3o, haver\u00e1 prova\u00e7\u00f5es e tribula\u00e7\u00f5es, e as rela\u00e7\u00f5es saud\u00e1veis s\u00e3o capazes de as suportar. As discuss\u00f5es fazem parte da vida, e uma dose normal \u00e9 perfeitamente normal e expet\u00e1vel.<\/p>\r\n

God knows that I\u2019ve had my fair share of arguments with o meu homem<\/a>, but I actually believe that it only brings us closer. Because if we didn\u2019t fight, ever\u2026 how would I even know he cared enough about me to fight for me?<\/p>\r\n

It is general knowledge that when a person is indifferent, they don\u2019t feel like fighting and just let the other person win. But the opposite means that you actually care deeply for one another.<\/p>\r\n

Ter uma discuss\u00e3o ocasional \u00e9 perfeitamente normal. Mas certos tipos de discuss\u00f5es, o seu volume e frequ\u00eancia podem ser um sinal de que o fim est\u00e1 pr\u00f3ximo.<\/p>\r\n

There are some things that are worth fighting over, and some that are beyond any argument. And if you and your man engage in any of the following 7 types of arguments, I\u2019m sorry to say this, but it is possible that it is the beginning of your end.<\/p>\r\n

Descubra com certeza e, se poss\u00edvel, fa\u00e7a algumas altera\u00e7\u00f5es antes que isso lhe custe a sua rela\u00e7\u00e3o<\/a>.<\/p>\r\n

Aqui est\u00e3o 7 tipos de discuss\u00f5es que s\u00e3o s\u00e9rios sinais de alerta para a sua rela\u00e7\u00e3o.<\/p>\r\n

Argumentos relativamente a objectivos e aspira\u00e7\u00f5es de vida<\/strong><\/h2>\r\n

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If you and your man simply aren\u2019t in sync when it comes to this serious issue, you\u2019ve got a problem on your hands.<\/p>\r\n

As rela\u00e7\u00f5es a longo prazo baseiam-se no respeito m\u00fatuo e na capacidade de compromisso.<\/p>\r\n

But if you two just can\u2019t see eye-to-eye on things such as where you\u2019re going to live, what you\u2019re going to do with your life, and where you see yourselves in 5 years time, perhaps you\u2019re only postponing the inevitable.<\/p>\r\n

Olhando para o futuro, os dois devem estar de acordo sobre estas quest\u00f5es e o vosso futuro deve incluir um ao outro, sem d\u00favida.<\/p>\r\n

But if you\u2019re unsure about what that is and what it means for the both of you, it\u2019s not looking good.<\/p>\r\n

Discuss\u00f5es sobre a vossa vida sexual<\/h2>\r\n

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O que acontece entre os len\u00e7\u00f3is \u00e9 apenas da vossa conta. Ningu\u00e9m pode dizer-vos o que devem gostar ou n\u00e3o gostar e o que devem suportar.<\/p>\r\n

Essa \u00e9 uma prerrogativa vossa e nunca deve ser sacrificada por ningu\u00e9m.<\/p>\r\n

If your man likes to have sex in a way that doesn\u2019t suit you, that\u2019s a problem.<\/p>\r\n

If your man pressures you into having sex when you\u2019re not into it, that\u2019s also problematic.<\/p>\r\n

If you can\u2019t enjoy being intimate with him due to all of these issues, you shouldn\u2019t put up with it.<\/p>\r\n

You have to be able to be open and honest when it comes to sex. If you are unhappy and can\u2019t really work it out no matter how hard you try, maybe you\u2019re not with the right person after all.<\/p>\r\n

Argumentos sobre o facto de um parceiro precisar de mudar para o outro<\/strong><\/h2>\r\n

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Quantas vezes tentaste mudar alguma coisa em outra pessoa e quantas vezes conseguiste?<\/p>\r\n

I think I already know the answer. People are who they are, period. If you want to change them, you don\u2019t really deserve them.<\/p>\r\n

If you can\u2019t accept your man for who he is and vice versa, why don\u2019t you just find someone who actually works for you?<\/p>\r\n

Instead of changing the person you\u2019re with, leave them be, and find somebody you won\u2019t want to change. It\u2019s that simple!<\/p>\r\n

Argumentos onde tens de ter sempre a \u00faltima palavra<\/strong><\/h2>\r\n

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As discuss\u00f5es numa rela\u00e7\u00e3o nunca devem ser sobre ganhar. Nunca deve ter a ver com estar certo ou errado.<\/p>\r\n

It should be a way to find a common ground that you\u2019re BOTH okay with.<\/p>\r\n

If you\u2019re using these arguments simply to have the last word and you keep tabs on who\u2019s right or wrong, you\u2019re in it for all the wrong reasons.<\/p>\r\n

Pense nisso. O bem-estar da vossa rela\u00e7\u00e3o deve ser SEMPRE ser a sua prioridade<\/a> – n\u00e3o<\/em> ter raz\u00e3o ou ser o \u00faltimo a rir.<\/p>\r\n

Argumentos sobre as suas finan\u00e7as<\/strong><\/h2>\r\n

\"um<\/p>\r\n\r\n

You should have a system where you both contribute and nobody feels like they\u2019re being used or taken advantage of.<\/p>\r\n

If you\u2019re not okay with how much money is spent on certain things, you need to speak up.<\/p>\r\n

If you keep fighting about money and how you spend it, it\u2019s not going to change unless you have a mature conversation about it and make adjustments that work for the both of you.<\/p>\r\n

If you can\u2019t find a way that makes you happy, it\u2019s a problem.<\/p>\r\n

As finan\u00e7as s\u00e3o uma parte importante das rela\u00e7\u00f5es, e os vossos h\u00e1bitos de despesa devem ser acordados. Tudo o resto \u00e9 o in\u00edcio de um fim muito complicado.<\/p>\r\n

Argumentos mais ou menos a mesma coisa num loop<\/strong><\/h2>\r\n

\"um<\/p>\r\n\r\n

When you keep fighting about the very same thing over and over again, I think you already know it\u2019s a red flag.<\/p>\r\n

Not being able to find a compromise you\u2019re both fine with is a problem. Right now it might be a minor argument that doesn\u2019t seem so serious.<\/p>\r\n

But over time and as your relationship progresses, it\u2019s only going to get worse.<\/p>\r\n

Either get your affairs in order or accept that it\u2019s just not worth it being with someone you can\u2019t find middle ground with.<\/p>\r\n

It\u2019s hurting you both, and it\u2019s unfair to the both of you.<\/p>\r\n

Argumentos sobre o facto de a outra pessoa n\u00e3o fazer qualquer esfor\u00e7o<\/strong><\/h2>\r\n

\"um<\/p>\r\n

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If your spark is dying and you feel your partner can\u2019t be bothered, it doesn\u2019t seem like the fairy-tale ending you always wished for.<\/p>\r\n

E se o seu parceiro tiver problemas com o esfor\u00e7o que faz para que a rela\u00e7\u00e3o funcione, isso tamb\u00e9m \u00e9 um mau sinal.<\/p>\r\n

You should never feel like your partner doesn\u2019t care enough to make you feel special, and vice versa.<\/p>\r\n

\u00c9 claro que vai haver zonas dif\u00edceis<\/a>mas as rela\u00e7\u00f5es que valem a pena recuperam sempre o seu brilho. Pense nisso.<\/p>\r\n

Voc\u00eas os dois est\u00e3o REALMENTE a tentar manter esta coisa, ou desistiram ambos secretamente e t\u00eam medo de o admitir?<\/p>\r\n

The sooner you accept reality, the sooner you\u2019re going to feel like the weight of the world has fallen off your shoulders.<\/p>\r\n

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