{"id":40244,"date":"2020-07-11T08:02:30","date_gmt":"2020-07-11T08:02:30","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=40244"},"modified":"2022-01-05T15:32:34","modified_gmt":"2022-01-05T15:32:34","slug":"8-coisas-merdosas-que-os-homens-fazem-quando-querem-acabar-contigo","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/8-coisas-merdosas-que-os-homens-fazem-quando-querem-acabar-contigo\/","title":{"rendered":"8 Coisas Merdosas que os Homens Fazem Quando Querem Acabar Contigo"},"content":{"rendered":"

Apaixonar-se<\/span><\/a> \u00e9 a parte mais f\u00e1cil. Mas quando as coisas se tornam dif\u00edceis e \u00e9 preciso dizer algumas verdades duras, os homens recorrem a formas pouco inteligentes de a fazer saber que querem sair.<\/p>\n

If you\u2019ve ever suddenly started wondering what the heck has gotten into your boyfriend, this is the right place for you. Some men start acting really shitty when they want to break up but don\u2019t have the balls to tell you (or send you a mensagem de texto de separa\u00e7\u00e3o<\/a>). <\/p>\n

A sua vontade \u00e9 acabar com a rela\u00e7\u00e3o e, por isso, come\u00e7a a comportar-se como um completo estranho e a distanciar-se para que voc\u00ea o fa\u00e7a por eles.<\/p>\n

They are cowards and, instead of facing you with their honest feelings, they will resort to these 8 shitty things to subtly let you know they\u2019re no longer into you.<\/p>\n

Colocar a culpa em si quando se trata da tens\u00e3o da sua rela\u00e7\u00e3o<\/h2>\n

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Things have taken a turn for the worse and it\u2019s clear who\u2019s to blame here. But no, Mr. Perfect isn\u2019t capable of taking any blame for his really crappy actions, so he just points fingers instead.<\/p>\n

He\u2019s the one who complete distanced himself from you, but he starts accusing you of doing the same. He\u2019s the one who has suddenly become secretive and evasive, but he insists you\u2019re the one who\u2019s keeping things from him.<\/p>\n

Whatever shitty thing he does, he just tries to pin it on you. He\u2019s got no balls to at least be genuine and real with you, so he resorts to the lowest of lows.<\/p>\n

Chama-te louca quando lhe chamas a aten\u00e7\u00e3o para o seu comportamento<\/h2>\n

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This is just the easiest way out. Instead of accepting his role in this shitshow, he calls you crazy for suggesting he\u2019s doing anything wrong. When men don\u2019t want to stick around, this is the easiest thing to do.<\/p>\n

Insultar-te e n\u00e3o medir as palavras \u00e9 a forma que ele tem de te dizer para o dispensares das suas fun\u00e7\u00f5es de namorado. O p\u00e9 dele j\u00e1 est\u00e1 a meio caminho da porta, por isso facilita-lhe a vida e dizer adeus<\/span>. You don\u2019t need an immature boy anyway!<\/p>\n

He starts whining whenever he\u2019s not okay with something<\/h2>\n

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A verdade \u00e9 que os homens adoram ser doces e carinhosos com as suas raparigas. Adoram faz\u00ea-las sentir-se mimadas e especiais. E merecidamente!<\/p>\n

But when a guy has no problem whining and complaining around you, he\u2019s clearly no longer trying to win you over.<\/p>\n

Yeah, it\u2019s really sad and unfortunate (because you deserve someone who\u2019ll treat you like the queen you are), but it\u2019s also a blessing in disguise.<\/p>\n

Basicamente, ele j\u00e1 n\u00e3o se preocupa o suficiente para ser simp\u00e1tico e am\u00e1vel consigo, por isso pode expuls\u00e1-lo e concentrar-se no que realmente importa.<\/p>\n

Ele faz planos com os amigos sem sequer te dizer<\/h2>\n

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He goes out as much as he wants and for as long as he wants, regardless of you knowing about it or not. He doesn\u2019t tell you about his plans and he doesn\u2019t text you when he\u2019s out.<\/p>\n

He\u2019s just off doing his own thing and you\u2019re not sure what the hell is going on anymore. To you, he\u2019s still o seu namorado<\/span><\/a>, but to him, it\u2019s no longer the case.<\/p>\n

He wants out of the relationship and that\u2019s why he\u2019s acting like he\u2019s a single dude. That\u2019s what he aspires to be and that\u2019s why he no longer informs you of his plans. In his head, you\u2019re no longer his girl.<\/p>\n

Ele promete-te uma coisa e depois volta atr\u00e1s na sua promessa<\/h2>\n

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He has become a huge disappointment. You make plans that you\u2019re really excited about, and then he cancels last minute. No explanation, no real reason, it\u2019s just no longer happening.<\/p>\n

He tells you he\u2019s going to pick up your dry cleaning or get you lunch on his way over, but he never does. His word no longer means anything and he doesn\u2019t even care to explain himself.<\/p>\n

In his head, you\u2019re not going to be his girlfriend for much longer, so there\u2019s no point being a good boyfriend anymore. He doesn\u2019t try anymore and it\u2019s really showing.<\/p>\n

Ele p\u00f5e fim a toda e qualquer conversa sobre o futuro<\/h2>\n

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Se pensarmos sequer em falar de casamento e filhos, ele rejeita a ideia. Ele acha que o casamento \u00e9 uma porcaria e n\u00e3o sabe muito bem o que quer para o seu futuro.<\/p>\n

Recusa-se a dizer o que quer que seja e nota-se que a ideia de falar sobre o assunto o deixa ansioso. De repente, o tipo que se apaixonou apaixonado por<\/span><\/a> \u00e9 uma sombra do seu antigo eu.<\/p>\n

This guy is just trying to find a way to escape commitment and he doesn\u2019t care how shitty it makes him look.<\/p>\n

Ele namorisca abertamente com outras raparigas em p\u00fablico<\/h2>\n

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He\u2019s not even trying to hide it or deny it. He smiles at every hot girl that passes him by and even talks them up on occasion. Sure, he totally downplays it and might even claim he\u2019s just being friendly, but you know that\u2019s a lie.<\/p>\n

Ele est\u00e1 a tentar fazer-te ver que \u00e9 um mau namorado para que possas acabar com ele. Quer que n\u00e3o gostes dele ao ponto de te perguntares o que \u00e9 que viste nele.<\/p>\n

Ele demora muito tempo a responder \u00e0s tuas mensagens e quase nem telefona<\/h2>\n

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At this point, it\u2019s really obvious what this means. A guy who loves you, wants to be with you, and appreciates you, answers your texts. He also calls you and makes sure to text you during the day as well.<\/p>\n

But his guy has become a ghost. You can feel him slipping away text by text, missed call by missed call. Every day, you realize it a bit more, you just don\u2019t want to admit it to yourself.<\/p>\n

Querida, ele n\u00e3o passa de um desperd\u00edcio do teu tempo. Deixa este imbecil imaturo com algu\u00e9m do n\u00edvel dele e vai procurar um homem que te respeite o suficiente para te dizer o que sente diretamente na tua cara.<\/p>\n

Nobody can guarantee you it\u2019s going to be perfect, but it sure as hell can\u2019t get more petty than this.<\/p>\n

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Falling in love is the easy part. But when the going gets tough, and some harsh truths need to be let out, men resort to crappy ways to let you know they want out. If you\u2019ve ever suddenly started wondering what the heck has gotten into your boyfriend, this is the right place for you….<\/p>","protected":false},"author":13,"featured_media":114434,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29628],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-40244","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-dealing-with-breakup"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29628,"label":"dealing with breakup"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/07\/8-Shitty-Things-Men-Do-When-They-Want-To-Break-Up-With-You-1024x684.jpg",1024,684,true],"author_info":{"display_name":"April Callaghan","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/author\/april\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29628,"name":"dealing with breakup","slug":"dealing-with-breakup","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29628,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Breakups are painful but worry not; you don't need to go through all of it alone. If you need advice on when and how to break up, you'll find it all here.\r\n","parent":29627,"count":263,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29628,"category_count":263,"category_description":"Breakups are painful but worry not; you don't need to go through all of it alone. If you need advice on when and how to break up, you'll find it all here.\r\n","cat_name":"dealing with breakup","category_nicename":"dealing-with-breakup","category_parent":29627}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/40244","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/13"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=40244"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/40244\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/114434"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=40244"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=40244"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=40244"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}