{"id":40347,"date":"2019-07-11T13:36:50","date_gmt":"2019-07-11T13:36:50","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=40347"},"modified":"2022-01-13T00:28:54","modified_gmt":"2022-01-13T00:28:54","slug":"dar-lhe-outra-oportunidade-significa-dar-se-outro-desgosto","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/dar-lhe-outra-oportunidade-significa-dar-se-outro-desgosto\/","title":{"rendered":"Dar-lhe outra oportunidade significa dar a si pr\u00f3pria outro desgosto"},"content":{"rendered":"

Eu sei que o amas. Sei que, acima de tudo, queres que as coisas entre voc\u00eas se resolvam.<\/p>\r\n

Apesar de a sua mente lhe dizer o contr\u00e1rio, o seu cora\u00e7\u00e3o quer acreditar que ele vai mudar. Apesar de a sua mente lhe dizer que ele est\u00e1 a mentir, o seu cora\u00e7\u00e3o quer acreditar nas suas promessas e justifica\u00e7\u00f5es vazias.<\/p>\r\n

From this point of view, you can\u2019t imagine your life without this man by your side. You keep on forgiving him things you know you shouldn\u2019t.<\/p>\r\n

Continua a olhar para o outro lado quando ele comete um erro, tudo na esperan\u00e7a de que um dia a vossa rela\u00e7\u00e3o seja diferente. Deixas que ele te minta e, o que \u00e9 ainda pior, mentes a ti pr\u00f3pria, confiando nele.<\/p>\r\n

Por isso, continua a dar-lhe segundas oportunidades<\/span><\/a>. You keep praying that this time it will be the last time\u2014that this time he\u2019ll come back to you as a new man, as the man you want and need him to be.<\/p>\r\n

That this time, things will finally fall into place; that he\u2019ll see he can\u2019t live without you either and that he\u2019ll finally learn to appreciate and respect you.<\/p>\r\n

\"Dar-lhe<\/p>\r\n

Claro que, de cada vez que ele volta aos seus velhos h\u00e1bitos, promete a si pr\u00f3pria que foi a \u00faltima vez que caiu nos seus enganos; a \u00faltima vez que se humilhou ao aceit\u00e1-lo de volta.<\/p>\r\n

No entanto, quando damos por isso, estamos de novo no c\u00edrculo intermin\u00e1vel das separa\u00e7\u00f5es e das reconcilia\u00e7\u00f5es; no c\u00edrculo intermin\u00e1vel das mentiras dele e das nossas esperan\u00e7as; no c\u00edrculo intermin\u00e1vel das segundas oportunidades que ele arranja sempre maneira de estragar.<\/p>\r\n

Don\u2019t worry, I won\u2019t be a smartass who will try to tell you that it is easy to turn down a man you\u2019re crazy for because it is without a doubt one of the most painful and bravest things a woman has to do.<\/p>\r\n

I know that he begs, that he cries, and that he doesn\u2019t leave you alone until deixaste-o rastejar de volta para a tua vida<\/a>. \u00c9 claro que tudo isto torna as coisas muito mais dif\u00edceis para si.<\/p>\r\n

Esquecer um homem que se ama j\u00e1 \u00e9 dif\u00edcil. No entanto, esquec\u00ea-lo enquanto ele continua a aparecer \u00e0 sua porta e a pedir constantemente outra oportunidade parece imposs\u00edvel. Mas isso pode ser feito.<\/b><\/p>\r\n

You just need to realize that every time you give this guy another chance, you\u2019re actually giving him a green light to keep on breaking your heart. Every time you lev\u00e1-lo de volta<\/span><\/a>Se n\u00e3o o fizer, est\u00e1 a dar-lhe permiss\u00e3o para se afastar de si sempre que lhe apetecer.<\/p>\r\n

You\u2019re showing him that you\u2019re not going anywhere\u2014that no matter what he does, you\u2019ll be right there where he left you, patiently waiting for his sorry ass to come back. That no matter what he does, you\u2019ll always find a way to forgive him.<\/p>\r\n

That no matter how badly he hurts you, you\u2019ll always keep on loving him.<\/b><\/p>\r\n

 <\/p>\r\n

\"Dar-lhe<\/p>\r\n

Every time you give him another chance, you\u2019re showing this man that you\u2019re perfectly fine with the situation you two are in because let\u2019s face it\u2014you aren\u2019t doing much to change it. You\u2019re showing him that his behavior is acceptable and that there is nothing wrong with being a selfish asshole.<\/b><\/p>\r\n

Every time you give him another chance, you show him that he can count on you at all times and on all occasions; that you\u2019ll forever be his rede de seguran\u00e7a<\/span><\/a> e o seu plano de reserva.<\/p>\r\n

What is even worse, that your status in his life doesn\u2019t bother you at all. You\u2019re showing him that you\u2019re satisfied with the crumbs he\u2019s been giving you and that you\u2019ll always crave more.<\/p>\r\n

Most importantly: every time you give this guy another chance, you\u2019re showing him that you have no self-respect. You\u2019re telling him that you don\u2019t value your time, efforts, and sacrifices.<\/p>\r\n

You\u2019re showing him that your tears obviously don\u2019t matter, since you can forget about them easily.<\/b> That all the heartbreaks he\u2019s put you through are not such a big deal because you are always ready to care for him, as if nothing has happened.<\/p>\r\n

Every time you give this man another chance, you\u2019re showing him that you don\u2019t love yourself, since you\u2019re more than willing to put yourself through all of this pain over and over again.<\/p>\r\n

Por isso, diga-me uma coisa: se n\u00e3o tem amor nem respeito por si pr\u00f3pria, porque \u00e9 que ele o teria?<\/b><\/p>\r\n

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