{"id":4039,"date":"2020-09-04T12:29:43","date_gmt":"2020-09-04T12:29:43","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/herway.net\/?p=4039"},"modified":"2021-08-12T12:41:51","modified_gmt":"2021-08-12T12:41:51","slug":"nao-e-louco-sentir-falta-de-alguem-nao","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/nao-e-louco-sentir-falta-de-alguem-nao\/","title":{"rendered":"N\u00e3o \u00e9s louco por sentires falta de algu\u00e9m que n\u00e3o \u00e9 teu"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>People are aching for places they never been to, craving things others have, being afraid of the things that haven\u2019t happened yet\u2014so why couldn\u2019t you be missing somebody who isn\u2019t yours?<\/p>\n<p>A ideia de n\u00e3o ter algu\u00e9m e de o querer \u00e9, no m\u00ednimo, estranha. As pessoas v\u00eaem-na sobretudo como um desejo de sofrimento, mas h\u00e1 um outro lado da quest\u00e3o.<\/p>\n<p>Wanting somebody who is not yours is full of \u201cwhat if\u201d questions. It\u2019s knitted with imagination and it\u2019s what occupies your brain twenty-five hours a day.<\/p>\n<p>Sim, s\u00f3 h\u00e1 vinte e quatro horas por dia, mas pensamos na pessoa de quem sentimos falta vinte e cinco horas por dia.<\/p>\n<p>O problema de n\u00e3o saber o que quer algu\u00e9m que quer s\u00f3 para si \u00e9 a sensa\u00e7\u00e3o de ter uma pe\u00e7a de um puzzle que encaixa em mais do que um s\u00edtio.<\/p>\n<p>What does his gaze towards you in a room full of people mean? He has the need to touch you\u2014your hair, your arm, put his hand on your waist when he is trying to move past you, to make you notice him.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-110375\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/09\/sad-mindful-woman-looking-away-in-the-living-room.jpg\" alt=\"mulher triste e pensativa a olhar para o lado na sala de estar\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/09\/sad-mindful-woman-looking-away-in-the-living-room.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/09\/sad-mindful-woman-looking-away-in-the-living-room-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/09\/sad-mindful-woman-looking-away-in-the-living-room-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/09\/sad-mindful-woman-looking-away-in-the-living-room-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/09\/sad-mindful-woman-looking-away-in-the-living-room-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/09\/sad-mindful-woman-looking-away-in-the-living-room-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/09\/sad-mindful-woman-looking-away-in-the-living-room-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/09\/sad-mindful-woman-looking-away-in-the-living-room-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>You\u2019re not crazy\u2014he is doing all these things. Little does he know that even a small stupid conversation means so much to you. All this is like a promise of a together future but never spoken out loud.<\/p>\n<p>Little did he know that when you send even the smallest signal of affection to a person that has a vivid imagination, you\u2019re simultaneously giving that person the permission to miss you.<\/p>\n<p>When you get to think about it, it does make sense. Who\u2019s there to stop a person from daydreaming?<\/p>\n<p>Imagina-o a ter olhos s\u00f3 para si. Deseja sentar-se ao lado dele num jantar, sendo inteligente e divertida. Pensa nele a ter olhos s\u00f3 para si e fantasia com este amor \u00e9pico.<\/p>\n<p>Because there is a part of you that you haven\u2019t yet shown to the world. Because there is much more to you than people are able to see.<\/p>\n<p>The furthest place your imagination goes is not down the sexual road, but you believe that he\u2019ll manage to see the true you\u2014the one that deserves all the love in this world.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-110376\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/09\/mindful-woman-sitting-on-big-window.jpg\" alt=\"mulher atenta sentada numa grande janela\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/09\/mindful-woman-sitting-on-big-window.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/09\/mindful-woman-sitting-on-big-window-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/09\/mindful-woman-sitting-on-big-window-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/09\/mindful-woman-sitting-on-big-window-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/09\/mindful-woman-sitting-on-big-window-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/09\/mindful-woman-sitting-on-big-window-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/09\/mindful-woman-sitting-on-big-window-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/09\/mindful-woman-sitting-on-big-window-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Missing him comes in waves and tonight you are drowning. The only thing that\u2019s keeping you from swimming is the fear that you don\u2019t have the permission to miss him.<\/p>\n<p>That fear feels like you have a stone tied to your legs. To miss him doesn\u2019t make sense, but when did anything about feelings make sense?<\/p>\n<p>You\u2019re allowed to have feelings for him even though they are messy. You\u2019re allowed to wake up in the morning and stay a bit longer in the bed daydreaming about him.<\/p>\n<p>You\u2019re allowed to miss the days that you haven\u2019t had with him. You\u2019re allowed to look forward and crave happiness that you still haven&#8217;t experienced with him.<\/p>\n<p>You\u2019re allowed to look forward to your next meeting and to wish for the happiness that comes together with him choosing you. <a href=\"https:\/\/goodmenproject.com\/featured-content\/7-ways-you-know-youre-in-love-with-someone-other-than-your-boyfriend-twlm\/\" rel=\"noopener\">You\u2019re not crazy for missing him even though he is not yours.<\/a><\/p>\n<p>O cora\u00e7\u00e3o quer o que quer.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-110372\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/09\/Youre-Not-Crazy-For-Missing-Somebody-Who-Is-Not-Yours-pinterest.jpg\" alt=\"N\u00e3o \u00e9s louco por sentires falta de algu\u00e9m que n\u00e3o \u00e9 teu\" width=\"1000\" height=\"1500\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/09\/Youre-Not-Crazy-For-Missing-Somebody-Who-Is-Not-Yours-pinterest.jpg 1000w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/09\/Youre-Not-Crazy-For-Missing-Somebody-Who-Is-Not-Yours-pinterest-200x300.jpg 200w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/09\/Youre-Not-Crazy-For-Missing-Somebody-Who-Is-Not-Yours-pinterest-683x1024.jpg 683w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/09\/Youre-Not-Crazy-For-Missing-Somebody-Who-Is-Not-Yours-pinterest-768x1152.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/09\/Youre-Not-Crazy-For-Missing-Somebody-Who-Is-Not-Yours-pinterest-150x225.jpg 150w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1000px) 100vw, 1000px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>People are aching for places they never been to, craving things others have, being afraid of the things that haven\u2019t happened yet\u2014so why couldn\u2019t you be missing somebody who isn\u2019t yours? The idea of not having somebody and wanting them is skittish, to say the least. People mostly see it as suffering desire, but there&#8230;<\/p>","protected":false},"author":41,"featured_media":110379,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29653],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-4039","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-letters"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29653,"label":"letters"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/09\/Youre-Not-Crazy-For-Missing-Somebody-Who-Is-Not-Yours-1024x684.jpg",1024,684,true],"author_info":{"display_name":"Martha Sullivan","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/author\/martha-sullivan\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29653,"name":"letters","slug":"letters","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29653,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Regardless if you're looking for moving on, romantic, emotional, or open letters on various topics, you can be sure that you'll find it all here. 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