{"id":40431,"date":"2019-07-15T13:51:10","date_gmt":"2019-07-15T13:51:10","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=40431"},"modified":"2022-01-19T15:32:44","modified_gmt":"2022-01-19T15:32:44","slug":"todos-os-namorados-que-tive-trairam-me-e-nem-sequer-se-arrependeram","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/todos-os-namorados-que-tive-trairam-me-e-nem-sequer-se-arrependeram\/","title":{"rendered":"Todos os namorados que tive me tra\u00edram e nem sequer est\u00e3o arrependidos"},"content":{"rendered":"

Antes de mais, quero esclarecer uma coisa: a batota \u00e9 uma escolha, n\u00e3o um erro<\/a>. You can\u2019t just come to your partner and tell them that you\u2019ve made a mistake the other night. <\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Como se tivesses escorregado acidentalmente e esbarrado numa rapariga e, quando j\u00e1 l\u00e1 estavas, tivesses dormido com ela. N\u00e3o.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

That\u2019s not how things work. When you cheat on your partner, you do it consciously; it is never something you can call a mistake. <\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

There are many mistakes that you can correct, but once you betray your loved one in this way, I don\u2019t think your relationship can ever be the same. <\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

I wasn\u2019t lucky in my love relationships and all of my boyfriends cheated on me. <\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

I don\u2019t know why, because I didn\u2019t do anything bad. But that fact didn\u2019t stop me from thinking that I was the guilty one.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Pensei que o problema estava sempre em mim. Mas passado algum tempo, apercebi-me que o problema estava sempre neles. <\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Eram inseguros e faziam tudo para se sentirem melhor. Cada um deles traiu-me para se sentir melhor na sua pr\u00f3pria pele.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

E o pior \u00e9 que ningu\u00e9m lamentou o facto. Nem sequer um deles se aproximou de mim e pediu-me desculpa. <\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

And you can just imagine how I felt after that. I couldn\u2019t believe that all my boyfriends were doing the same thing and that I wasn\u2019t capable of building a normal and a healthy relationship.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Pensei que ficaria solteira para o resto da minha vida e que nunca encontraria o que procurava.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

\"Todos<\/figure>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Eu era uma desgra\u00e7a e queria que eles vissem isso. Queria mostrar a cada um deles aquilo em que me transformei depois de me terem quebrado. <\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Mas por muito que chorasse \u00e0 frente deles, por muito que Estava a cair aos bocados<\/a>, they didn\u2019t give a damn about me.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Acho que pensavam que eu era demasiado bom para eles, por isso tomaram-me por garantido. <\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Obviously, I wasn\u2019t the girl who could make them do crazy things just to see me happy.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Eu era aquela que usava o cora\u00e7\u00e3o na manga a toda a hora, a honesta e sincera. Mas isso custou-me muito em cada uma das minhas rela\u00e7\u00f5es rom\u00e2nticas. <\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Mas quando olho para tudo isto agora, I don\u2019t want any revenge.<\/a> I don\u2019t even wish that I could have been different toward them and give them what they deserve.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

I am a smart girl. And smart girls never take revenge \u2013 they let karma do its dirty work. <\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

I hope that all my tears and suffering isn\u2019t in vain. I hope that the right one will come along and show me why it never worked out with anyone else before him.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Quero estar com algu\u00e9m que nunca me tome por garantido, que nunca me engane e que esteja sempre presente. <\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

I know a man like that will come into my life. I also know it won\u2019t be when I want it, but when heaven wants it. I will just be patient enough and let destiny do its work. <\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Eu sei que um dia vou conhecer um homem<\/a> que me vai provar que est\u00e1 tudo bem comigo. Sei que ele me vai mostrar que sou suficientemente boa, digna, completa e bonita.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Ele estar\u00e1 l\u00e1 para me lembrar o qu\u00e3o especial eu realmente sou. Ele apagar\u00e1 todas as minhas inseguran\u00e7as e beijar\u00e1 o s\u00edtio onde os outros infligiram uma ferida profunda. <\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Ele estar\u00e1 l\u00e1 para me abra\u00e7ar e fazer-me sentir melhor com apenas um abra\u00e7o. Um homem como ele ser\u00e1 especial. Ele ser\u00e1 totalmente o oposto de todos aqueles que me tra\u00edram. <\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Ele pedir\u00e1 desculpa se cometer um erro. Orgulhar-se-\u00e1 de todos os meus \u00eaxitos. Ele cuidar\u00e1 de mim como se eu fosse a menina dos seus olhos.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

He will show me what real love is and explain that it didn\u2019t work out with anyone before him because I was too good for them. <\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Esse homem ser\u00e1 o meu anjo da guarda, o meu melhor amigo, o meu di\u00e1rio humano e o meu amante ao mesmo tempo. E sabes que mais? <\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

I can\u2019t wait for him to come! I can\u2019t wait to melt in his arms, to listen to his soft yet mainly voice, and to find rest on his chest. <\/em><\/strong><\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

I can\u2019t wait to give him all my love, dreams, and hopes so he could make the most beautiful love story out of them.<\/em><\/strong><\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

I can\u2019t wait for the one who will be all that I crave so much to be mine and only mine! <\/em><\/strong><\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

\"Todos<\/figure>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

First of all, I want to make one thing straight: cheating is a choice, not a mistake. You can\u2019t just come to your partner and tell them that you\u2019ve made a mistake the other night.  Like you accidentally slipped and bumped into a girl and once you were already there, you slept with her. No….<\/p>","protected":false},"author":40,"featured_media":40448,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29617],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-40431","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-heartbreak"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29617,"label":"heartbreak"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/07\/shutterstock_211654111.jpg",800,534,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Tara Brown","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/author\/tara-brown\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29617,"name":"heartbreak","slug":"heartbreak","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29617,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Recovering after having your heart broken is tough. That's why I've decided to collect different stories of heartbreak - to help everyone going through the same.","parent":38,"count":146,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29617,"category_count":146,"category_description":"Recovering after having your heart broken is tough. That's why I've decided to collect different stories of heartbreak - to help everyone going through the same.","cat_name":"heartbreak","category_nicename":"heartbreak","category_parent":38}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/40431","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/40"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=40431"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/40431\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/40448"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=40431"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=40431"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=40431"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}