{"id":40490,"date":"2019-07-16T09:44:26","date_gmt":"2019-07-16T09:44:26","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=40490"},"modified":"2022-02-26T11:24:38","modified_gmt":"2022-02-26T11:24:38","slug":"uma-carta-a-minha-melhor-amiga-que-me-acompanhou-na-minha-separacao","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/uma-carta-a-minha-melhor-amiga-que-me-acompanhou-na-minha-separacao\/","title":{"rendered":"Uma carta para a minha melhor amiga que me acompanhou na minha separa\u00e7\u00e3o"},"content":{"rendered":"<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Querida amiga,<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">I\u2019ve never once doubted our friendship. This might sound cheesy, but since the day I met you, I knew you\u2019d make a difference in my life and become someone special for me.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">This really was and still is the truth. Through all these years, you\u2019ve been my partner in crime, my other half, and my family. You\u2019ve become <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/friendship\/querido-bestie-sera-sempre-pessoa\/\">a minha pessoa<\/a>.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">And that is something I could never thank you enough for. During all this time, you\u2019ve done more than anyone has ever done for me \u2013 no exaggerating.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">However, the thing that showed me I could count on you for as long as I breathe was my heartbreak. The heartbreak I didn\u2019t go through alone, the heartbreak you went through with me, as if it was happening to you.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">No, I won\u2019t be talking about the pain I experienced. I won\u2019t be talking about the trauma and scars all of that left on me.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Sabem porqu\u00ea? Porque sim <strong>this isn\u2019t about me, it\u2019s about you.<\/strong><\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">The truth is that I\u2019m not much of a writer, but I just want to say thank you. Thank you for not letting me fight my demons alone and for never abandoning me.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" class=\"wp-image-40492\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/07\/shutterstock_1046476249.jpg\" alt=\" Uma carta para a minha melhor amiga que me acompanhou na minha separa\u00e7\u00e3o\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/07\/shutterstock_1046476249.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/07\/shutterstock_1046476249-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/07\/shutterstock_1046476249-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/figure>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>Obrigado por me aturarem.<\/strong> Por n\u00e3o teres perdido a coragem quando eu estava zangada, hist\u00e9rica e insuport\u00e1vel. Por n\u00e3o perderes a paci\u00eancia e por n\u00e3o me mandares para o inferno, mesmo quando eu o merecia.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>Obrigado por me ouvires sempre.<\/strong> For always being there, for never telling me that I\u2019m boring you with my endless stories you\u2019ve heard a thousand times, and never being too busy to hear me out.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Obrigado por atenderes o telefone a meio da noite e por apareceres \u00e0 minha porta sempre que precisei de ti. Por cuidares de mim como se eu fosse uma crian\u00e7a e por nunca me deixares sair da tua vista.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>Obrigado por ser abrangente e compassivo<\/strong>. Por compreenderem a minha dor e por n\u00e3o permitirem que ela me comesse viva.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>Obrigado por n\u00e3o me julgarem.<\/strong> Por n\u00e3o me culpar pela forma como me estava a sentir.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Por perceberem que eu precisava de tempo para recuperar. Por n\u00e3o pensarem que eu era um lun\u00e1tico por ter agido da forma que agi.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Thank you for holding my hand and wiping all of my tears. For staying with me all those times I was afraid to sleep alone and for living my life instead of me when I wasn\u2019t capable of functioning.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>Obrigado por, por vezes, ser <\/strong><a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/friendship\/6-razoes-pelas-quais-o-teu-amigo-mau-e-o-amigo-que-mais-se-preocupa\/\"><strong>m\u00e9dia<\/strong><\/a><strong>, duro e brutal.<\/strong> Por me ter tirado os \u00f3culos de sol cor-de-rosa e por me ter aberto os olhos.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Por todas as vezes que me fizeste encarar a dolorosa verdade que eu me recusava a aceitar. Por nunca me teres contado mentiras s\u00f3 para me fazer sentir melhor.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">For telling me all the things I didn\u2019t want to hear, only because they were for my own good. For all the times I hated you when I should have been grateful for your honesty.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>Thank you for never giving up on me. Thank you for healing me, because I wouldn\u2019t have made it without you.<\/strong><\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">No entanto, <strong>I also want to tell you that I\u2019m sorry<\/strong>.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Desculpa por ter posto o meu ex em primeiro lugar enquanto est\u00e1vamos numa rela\u00e7\u00e3o. Desculpa por n\u00e3o te ter dado o meu amor e aten\u00e7\u00e3o suficientes.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Desculpa por ter sido cega em todas as situa\u00e7\u00f5es em que tentaste dizer-me que ele n\u00e3o servia para nada.&nbsp;<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">For not believing you and your judgments, despite knowing that you always want what\u2019s best for me.&nbsp;&nbsp;<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Desculpa por ter sido ego\u00edsta. Por n\u00e3o ter pensado nas tuas necessidades, enquanto eu estava num momento de afli\u00e7\u00e3o.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">For spending all those months in my personal agony, without once asking you how you\u2019ve been. Without understanding that you have a life outside of my friendship and for not wondering if you ever needed me during that time.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>I\u2019m<a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/para-o-amigo-que-acha-que-eu-nao-presto-tens-razao-e-peco-desculpa\/\"> desculpa por n\u00e3o ser o amigo que mereces<\/a>.<\/strong><\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">I know that I could never repay you for all you\u2019ve done for me. I only hope that you know that I would be lost without you.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>S\u00f3 espero que saibas isso <\/strong><a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/friendship\/uma-carta-a-minha-melhor-amiga-tu-inspiras-me\/\"><strong>inspira-me<\/strong><\/a><strong>que saibas o quanto te amo e o quanto significas para mim. E espero que aprendas com os meus erros, para nunca mais os repetires. <\/strong><\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"683\" height=\"1024\" class=\"wp-image-40494\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/07\/PINTEREST-2019-07-16T113944.288-683x1024.jpg\" alt=\"Uma carta para a minha melhor amiga que me acompanhou na minha separa\u00e7\u00e3o\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/07\/PINTEREST-2019-07-16T113944.288-683x1024.jpg 683w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/07\/PINTEREST-2019-07-16T113944.288-200x300.jpg 200w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/07\/PINTEREST-2019-07-16T113944.288.jpg 735w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 683px) 100vw, 683px\" \/><\/figure>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Dear Bestie, I\u2019ve never once doubted our friendship. This might sound cheesy, but since the day I met you, I knew you\u2019d make a difference in my life and become someone special for me. This really was and still is the truth. Through all these years, you\u2019ve been my partner in crime, my other half,&#8230;<\/p>","protected":false},"author":25,"featured_media":40496,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29624],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-40490","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-friends-and-family"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29624,"label":"friends&amp;family"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/07\/shutterstock_499880986.jpg",800,534,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Amy Nicholson","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/author\/amy\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29624,"name":"friends&amp;family","slug":"friends-and-family","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29624,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Do you want to improve your relationship with friends and family? 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