{"id":40504,"date":"2020-07-16T10:37:30","date_gmt":"2020-07-16T10:37:30","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=40504"},"modified":"2022-07-23T09:15:09","modified_gmt":"2022-07-23T09:15:09","slug":"nunca-desista-destas-8-coisas-por-um-homem-por-muito-que-o-ame","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/nunca-desista-destas-8-coisas-por-um-homem-por-muito-que-o-ame\/","title":{"rendered":"Nunca desista destas 8 coisas por um homem, por muito que o ame"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Love is beautiful. Love is inspiring. But love shouldn&#8217;t be the only thing that matters to you in life (no matter what they told you in movies or in books).<\/p>\n<p>A vida real \u00e9 algo completamente diferente e, por vezes, \u00e9 preciso fazer coisas que s\u00e3o necess\u00e1rias para preservar o equil\u00edbrio.<\/p>\n<p>Being in love doesn&#8217;t mean giving up on your career, friends, or morals only to appease your partner.<\/p>\n<p>Deve haver uma linha r\u00edgida entre o amor e as outras coisas na nossa vida, porque, caso contr\u00e1rio, \u00e9 f\u00e1cil perdermo-nos e negligenciarmos outros aspectos igualmente importantes da vida.<\/p>\n<p>And if your partner doesn&#8217;t understand it, it means he&#8217;s not worthy of being with you.<\/p>\n<p>Real men don&#8217;t force their women to abandon everything for them, to fit their norms, and treat them as their only priority.<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/amor\/os-homens-de-verdade-amam-nos-com-as-accoes-mais-reais-e-nao-com-as-palavras-mais-falsas\/\">Homens de verdade<\/a> compreendem a necessidade de outras coisas na vida para al\u00e9m do amor. Encorajam-no a manter-se fiel a si pr\u00f3prio.<\/p>\n<p>Afinal de contas, fazer tudo e mais alguma coisa por amor \u00e9 o maior atalho para a insatisfa\u00e7\u00e3o e o desastre final. E \u00e9 por isso que nunca deve abdicar destas 8 coisas por um homem, por muito que o ame!<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline reset\">A sua carreira<\/h2>\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-96079\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/07\/woman-typing-on-laptop-1.jpg\" alt=\"mulher a escrever no port\u00e1til\" width=\"800\" height=\"533\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/07\/woman-typing-on-laptop-1.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/07\/woman-typing-on-laptop-1-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/07\/woman-typing-on-laptop-1-768x512.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/figure>\n<p>Longe v\u00e3o os tempos em que se esperava que as mulheres estivessem apenas na cozinha, \u00e0 espera que os seus homens regressassem a casa, e que fossem obedientes em tudo.<\/p>\n<p>Back then, women didn&#8217;t really have a choice, but today, things have changed.<\/p>\n<p>Se o seu homem quiser sabotar a sua carreira, dizendo-lhe que deve ficar mais tempo em casa para passar mais tempo com ele, n\u00e3o deve sequer pensar nisso, por muito que o ame.<\/p>\n<p>Se \u00e9 apaixonada pelo seu trabalho e o seu homem est\u00e1 a tentar convenc\u00ea-la a desistir, deve pensar em acabar com ele.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Os seus amigos<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-96076\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/07\/group-of-friends-laughing-outside.jpg\" alt=\"grupo de amigos a rir-se no exterior\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/07\/group-of-friends-laughing-outside.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/07\/group-of-friends-laughing-outside-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/07\/group-of-friends-laughing-outside-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>You should never take your friends for granted once you&#8217;re in a relationship or start dating someone you really like.<\/p>\n<p>Remember that your friends were there for you when he wasn\u2019t and you are not obliged to spend all your free time with him.<\/p>\n<p>If he starts complaining that you\u2019re spending more time with your friends instead of him, even though you know that this isn\u2019t true, don\u2019t fall for that trick.<\/p>\n<p>Ou\u00e7a o seu instinto e mantenha-se fiel \u00e0s suas convic\u00e7\u00f5es, independentemente do que ele lhe disser. Porque desistir dos seus amigos por amor nunca deve ser uma quest\u00e3o.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">A sua moral<\/h2>\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-96078\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/07\/woman-refusing-an-alcohol-drink.jpg\" alt=\"mulher a recusar uma bebida alco\u00f3lica\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/07\/woman-refusing-an-alcohol-drink.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/07\/woman-refusing-an-alcohol-drink-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/07\/woman-refusing-an-alcohol-drink-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/figure>\n<p>If you&#8217;re strictly against drugs or something else, then you shouldn&#8217;t date a person who isn\u2019t.<\/p>\n<p>You should never change your morals only to appease someone whom you barely know, and you should not pretend that you&#8217;re okay with anything they do that contradicts your values.<\/p>\n<p>If you don&#8217;t feel comfortable with something your partner or date does, you should not tolerate it only to show them how cool or open-minded you are.<\/p>\n<p>You will be more cool if you tell them that you&#8217;re not okay with it and stand up for yourself because you respect yourself and your morals more than anything else.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">A sua independ\u00eancia<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-96083\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/07\/Business-woman-reading-news-on-the-web.jpg\" alt=\"Mulher de neg\u00f3cios a ler not\u00edcias na Internet\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/07\/Business-woman-reading-news-on-the-web.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/07\/Business-woman-reading-news-on-the-web-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/07\/Business-woman-reading-news-on-the-web-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Don\u2019t ever give up your independence once you find yourself in a relationship.<\/p>\n<p>O utilizador deve ser capaz de <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/como-ter-um-brilho\/\">cuidar de si f\u00edsica e mentalmente<\/a>N\u00e3o confie mais no seu parceiro s\u00f3 porque ele pode parecer mais dominante.<\/p>\n<p>If he&#8217;s earning lots of money, this doesn&#8217;t mean that you shouldn&#8217;t bother working.<\/p>\n<p>Haver\u00e1 alturas em que ter\u00e1 de sobreviver sozinha e haver\u00e1 alturas em que ter\u00e1 de fazer algo que o seu parceiro costumava fazer por si.<\/p>\n<p>\u00c9 por isso que manter a sua independ\u00eancia \u00e9 essencial se quiser <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/amor\/i-cant-afford-to-love-you-but-i-can-afford-happiness\/\">preservar a sua felicidade<\/a> e bem-estar.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">A sua identidade<\/h2>\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-96081\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/07\/sad-woman-holding-smiling-mask-1.jpg\" alt=\"mulher triste com uma m\u00e1scara sorridente\" width=\"800\" height=\"549\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/07\/sad-woman-holding-smiling-mask-1.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/07\/sad-woman-holding-smiling-mask-1-300x206.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/07\/sad-woman-holding-smiling-mask-1-768x527.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/figure>\n<p>Nunca, mas nunca mude a sua personalidade, por muito que goste dele. Muitas mulheres cometem este erro crucial, quando come\u00e7am a fingir que gostam de fazer algo apenas para obter a aprova\u00e7\u00e3o dele.<\/p>\n<p>A mudan\u00e7a de identidade para outra pessoa pode ter consequ\u00eancias graves para toda a sua vida.<\/p>\n<p>You don&#8217;t want to be something you&#8217;re not and you don&#8217;t want to be loved for who they want you to be and not for who you really are.<\/p>\n<p>Always be careful of what you&#8217;re doing and for whom you&#8217;re doing it. If the majority of things you&#8217;re doing are only to please your partner and collect their likes, then your relationship is neither healthy nor genuine.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">O seu estilo<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-96082\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/07\/smiling-woman-looking-at-her-self-in-mirror-at-home.jpg\" alt=\"Mulher sorridente a olhar-se ao espelho em casa\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/07\/smiling-woman-looking-at-her-self-in-mirror-at-home.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/07\/smiling-woman-looking-at-her-self-in-mirror-at-home-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/07\/smiling-woman-looking-at-her-self-in-mirror-at-home-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>If you&#8217;re thinking of getting a new haircut or buying a new dress only because he asked you to do it, do yourself a favor and don&#8217;t.<\/p>\n<p>Similar to your personality, if you&#8217;re not comfortable with something your partner proposes you to do, you shouldn&#8217;t have to it.<\/p>\n<p>Never change your personality or style only to impress him; this will turn you into something you&#8217;re not.<\/p>\n<p>Perder\u00e1 a sua identidade original, que, uma vez perdida, \u00e9 muito dif\u00edcil de recuperar.<\/p>\n<p>Your body, your hair, your preferences \u2013 these belong to you. Only you know what you really want and what&#8217;s best for you.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">O seu respeito por si pr\u00f3prio<\/h2>\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-96080\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/07\/colleague-arguing-at-office.jpg\" alt=\"colega a discutir no escrit\u00f3rio\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/07\/colleague-arguing-at-office.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/07\/colleague-arguing-at-office-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/07\/colleague-arguing-at-office-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/figure>\n<p>Se o seu namorado insistir que deve fazer algo por ele ou lhe der ordens, lembre-se de que ele \u00e9 apenas o seu namorado e muito menos o seu chefe ou est\u00e1 em posi\u00e7\u00e3o de lhe dar ordens.<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/relationship\/5-razoes-pelas-quais-as-mulheres-independentes-atraem-homens-emocionalmente-indisponiveis\/\">\u00c9 uma mulher independente<\/a> e o respeito por si pr\u00f3prio devem ser sempre a sua prioridade.<\/p>\n<p>If he orders you to do something, tell him to do it himself because you&#8217;re neither his maid nor servant.<\/p>\n<p>Once you lose self-respect, it is really hard to gain it back. You should never be afraid to simply say \u201cno\u201d when you feel like it.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Os seus sonhos<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-96073\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/07\/Woman-standing-in-front-of-the-window-and-drinking-tea-in-the-morning.jpg\" alt=\"Mulher em frente \u00e0 janela e a beber ch\u00e1 de manh\u00e3\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/07\/Woman-standing-in-front-of-the-window-and-drinking-tea-in-the-morning.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/07\/Woman-standing-in-front-of-the-window-and-drinking-tea-in-the-morning-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/07\/Woman-standing-in-front-of-the-window-and-drinking-tea-in-the-morning-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>If you\u2019re dreaming about having a big family or moving to a specific place, you should not let your partner dictate the outcome of it.<\/p>\n<p>If you know what you want, you should never give up on your dreams just because he doesn\u2019t approve of it.<\/p>\n<p>Os seus sonhos s\u00e3o uma parte de si e se os abandonar, significa abandonar uma parte de si.<\/p>\n<p>Desistir dos seus sonhos significa desistir da sua felicidade, e nenhum homem mereceu tal coisa.<\/p>\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-96071\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/07\/Never-Give-Up-These-8-Things-For-A-Man-No-Matter-How-Much-You-Love-Him-Pinterest.jpg\" alt=\"Nunca desista destas 8 coisas por um homem, por muito que o ame\" width=\"683\" height=\"1024\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/07\/Never-Give-Up-These-8-Things-For-A-Man-No-Matter-How-Much-You-Love-Him-Pinterest.jpg 683w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/07\/Never-Give-Up-These-8-Things-For-A-Man-No-Matter-How-Much-You-Love-Him-Pinterest-200x300.jpg 200w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 683px) 100vw, 683px\" \/><\/figure>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Love is beautiful. Love is inspiring. But love shouldn&#8217;t be the only thing that matters to you in life (no matter what they told you in movies or in books). Real life is something completely different and sometimes you have to do things that are necessary in order to preserve the balance. Being in love&#8230;<\/p>","protected":false},"author":25,"featured_media":96070,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29622],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-40504","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-relationship-advice"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29622,"label":"relationship advice"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/07\/Never-Give-Up-These-8-Things-For-A-Man-No-Matter-How-Much-You-Love-Him.jpg",800,534,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Amy Nicholson","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/author\/amy\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29622,"name":"relationship advice","slug":"relationship-advice","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29622,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Making all aspects of your relationship work is one of the biggest challenges. 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