{"id":40671,"date":"2019-07-18T11:45:12","date_gmt":"2019-07-18T11:45:12","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=40671"},"modified":"2021-08-24T13:25:07","modified_gmt":"2021-08-24T13:25:07","slug":"4-razoes-pelas-quais-deixar-de-estar-apaixonado-e-mais-assustador-do-que-estar-apaixonado","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/4-razoes-pelas-quais-deixar-de-estar-apaixonado-e-mais-assustador-do-que-estar-apaixonado\/","title":{"rendered":"4 raz\u00f5es pelas quais deixar de se apaixonar \u00e9 mais assustador do que se apaixonar"},"content":{"rendered":"

Pensa que apaixonar-se \u00e9 assustador<\/a>. You\u2019re letting yourself be led by something you can\u2019t control \u2013 your emotions.\u00a0<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Also, you\u2019re opening up to a completely new person. You\u2019re letting them in your life without holding yourself back; you\u2019re putting yourself out there.\u00a0<\/p>\n\n\n\n

You risk being hurt and having your heart broken. And that is something that we\u2019re all afraid of, whether we\u2019d like to admit it or not.\u00a0<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Por outro lado, pensamos que o abandono amoroso \u00e9 sempre um al\u00edvio. Que essa sensa\u00e7\u00e3o de virar uma nova p\u00e1gina da sua vida equivale a uma liberta\u00e7\u00e3o emocional, f\u00edsica e mental.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Well, think again. The process of falling out of love is everything but that. In fact, in most cases, it\u2019s scarier than falling in love. Here is why.\u00a0<\/p>\n\n\n\n

1. \u00c9 algo que ningu\u00e9m quer<\/strong><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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Let\u2019s face it. No matter where you stand in life right now, we all want to fall in love at one point. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Atualmente, pode estar a fugir desse pensamento devido a uma experi\u00eancia dolorosa anterior, mas a verdade \u00e9 que um dos objectivos finais de qualquer pessoa viva \u00e9, entre outros, encontrar o amor rom\u00e2ntico.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Quando isso acontece, ningu\u00e9m pensa no fim. Em vez disso, todos n\u00f3s gostamos de assumir e esperar que todas as rela\u00e7\u00f5es que estabelecemos durem uma vida inteira. Que cada vez que nos apaixonamos, ser\u00e1 para sempre.\u00a0<\/p>\n\n\n\n

You\u2019re not expecting your romance to end when you\u2019re starting it. You don\u2019t put an expiration date on your relationship and your feelings.\u00a0<\/p>\n\n\n\n

However, sadly, things don\u2019t always end up the way we want and imagine them to. Sometimes, you fall out of love, despite that being the last thing you planned.\u00a0<\/p>\n\n\n\n

And that makes all of it even scarier \u2013 the fact that it hits us, contrary to our desires. The way it is something we can\u2019t control and something we never wish for.\u00a0<\/p>\n\n\n\n

2. You’re hurting yourself and the other person<\/strong><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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Apaixonar-se<\/a> nunca \u00e9 canja e \u00e9 tudo menos f\u00e1cil. Pelo contr\u00e1rio, \u00e9 doloroso tanto para a pessoa que o vive como para a pessoa que \u00e9 deixada para tr\u00e1s.\u00a0<\/p>\n\n\n\n

When you\u2019re falling in love, you never expect things to fall apart. You are not doing it, consciously knowing that you\u2019re soon to hurt both yourself and the person you loved so dearly until now.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

No entanto, quando se trata do processo de revers\u00e3o, tudo \u00e9 diferente. \u00c9 um processo de desgosto que n\u00e3o pode ser evitado.\u00a0<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Maybe your relationship is theoretically perfect, but you simply don\u2019t feel anything for your significant other. If this is the case, then you feel guilty for allowing yourself to fall out of love with someone who didn\u2019t deserve it.\u00a0<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Sente-se culpado por n\u00e3o conseguir controlar o facto de ter de despeda\u00e7ar o seu cora\u00e7\u00e3o. E saber que isso tamb\u00e9m despeda\u00e7a o teu.\u00a0<\/p>\n\n\n\n

When you\u2019re forcing yourself to fall out of love with someone you know <\/p>\n\n\n\n

doesn\u2019t deserve your heart, it also hurts. It hurts knowing that you need to let go, that you must walk away, that you have to kill all of your emotions.\u00a0<\/p>\n\n\n\n

3. Questiona tudo o que sabia<\/strong><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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When you\u2019re falling out of love, you start questioning yourself, your romantic partner, your entire relationship, and everything you once knew about love.\u00a0<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Are you doing the right thing? Or you\u2019re making the mistake of your life?<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Is this just a phase? Or is everything you\u2019ve felt for your partner really forever gone?<\/p>\n\n\n\n

All of these questions are making you anxious, depressed and nervous. Most importantly, they\u2019re making you doubt your own sanity and decision-making skills.\u00a0<\/p>\n\n\n\n

4. You’re leaving your comfort zone<\/strong><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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It doesn\u2019t matter if you were happy in love or not, throughout the years, this feeling has become familiar to you. It has become a part of who you are and now you have to leave it behind.\u00a0<\/p>\n\n\n\n

It doesn\u2019t matter if you\u2019re falling out love after a long term relationship or with someone who\u2019s nunca te amei de volta<\/a>O objetivo \u00e9 praticamente o mesmo.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Este sentimento que o dominou durante anos e se tornou o seu conforto desapareceu e tem de continuar a viver sem ele.\u00a0<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u00c9 preciso reinventar-se e descobrir a vida sem essas emo\u00e7\u00f5es que tantas vezes o guiaram. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

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You think that falling in love is scary. You\u2019re letting yourself be led by something you can\u2019t control \u2013 your emotions.\u00a0 Also, you\u2019re opening up to a completely new person. You\u2019re letting them in your life without holding yourself back; you\u2019re putting yourself out there.\u00a0 You risk being hurt and having your heart broken. And…<\/p>","protected":false},"author":53,"featured_media":40678,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29614],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-40671","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-love-talks"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29614,"label":"love talks"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/07\/shutterstock_1170996397.jpg",800,534,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Ariel Quinn","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/author\/ariel\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29614,"name":"love talks","slug":"love-talks","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29614,"taxonomy":"category","description":"What is love? How does it affect us? How to know someone loves you or show someone you love them? What types of love are there? Learn all that and much more.","parent":38,"count":426,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29614,"category_count":426,"category_description":"What is love? How does it affect us? How to know someone loves you or show someone you love them? What types of love are there? Learn all that and much more.","cat_name":"love talks","category_nicename":"love-talks","category_parent":38}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/40671","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/53"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=40671"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/40671\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/40678"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=40671"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=40671"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=40671"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}