{"id":4070,"date":"2020-09-05T09:01:10","date_gmt":"2020-09-05T09:01:10","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/herway.net\/?p=4070"},"modified":"2021-08-12T12:37:23","modified_gmt":"2021-08-12T12:37:23","slug":"amor-sem-respeito-relacao","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/amor-sem-respeito-relacao\/","title":{"rendered":"Quando h\u00e1 amor mas n\u00e3o h\u00e1 respeito na rela\u00e7\u00e3o"},"content":{"rendered":"

Todos n\u00f3s estamos um pouco cegos pelas hormonas quando entramos numa rela\u00e7\u00e3o e n\u00e3o vemos as coisas como elas realmente s\u00e3o no in\u00edcio.<\/p>\n

We feel happy and we want to hold on to it forever. The truth is, you can\u2019t really stay in a relationship for the same reasons you entered it.<\/p>\n

No in\u00edcio, apaixonamo-nos pela apar\u00eancia e pela aten\u00e7\u00e3o, mas com o passar do tempo, a rela\u00e7\u00e3o deve crescer<\/a>.<\/p>\n

If you keep giving the same things all over again without adjusting to the needs of another person, there is the possibility that the person you\u2019re with might get fed up with you playing the same movie on repeat.<\/p>\n

Eu apaixonei-me pelo teu afeto. Apaixonei-me pelas tuas palavras doces e elogios, e adorei a forma como olhaste para mim. Tinhas um olhar que dizia muito sobre o quanto me desejavas.<\/p>\n

And it felt good to be wanted. But these kinds of feelings don’t last forever.<\/p>\n

I know you want me. I know you love me. But that\u2019s just it. And I\u2019m sorry, at this point it\u2019s just not enough.<\/b><\/p>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

Compra-me flores. Beijas-me na testa todas as manh\u00e3s e perguntas-me como foi o meu dia.<\/p>\n

You remember all the important dates. I get hugs, cuddles, and your hand in my hand on a regular basis. It feels good\u2014I swear it does.<\/p>\n

Continuas a fazer-me elogios sobre o meu aspeto e isso nunca muda. Dizes-me como me achas bonita e como est\u00e1s feliz por me teres ao teu lado.<\/p>\n

You often tell how you don\u2019t know what you did to deserve such a stunning woman. Little do you know, there was no need for you to deserve me\u2014I chose you because I wanted you as much as you wanted me.<\/p>\n

Ver tamb\u00e9m:<\/strong> 10 Undeniable Signs He\u2019s TRULY, MADLY, DEEPLY in Love with You<\/a><\/p>\n

But\u2026.<\/p>\n

I am afraid that\u2019s all I am to you. Just a pretty face and nothing more.<\/p>\n

I don\u2019t want you to admire me for my looks. That was my birth gift\u2014I didn\u2019t earn it.<\/b><\/p>\n

\"homem<\/p>\n

Quero que me admirem por<\/a> o meu intelecto e como sou apaixonado e como os meus olhos brilham e como a minha voz ganha uma cor diferente quando falo de algo que adoro. <\/b><\/p>\n

I want you to acknowledge my hard work, my dedication, to tell me you\u2019re happy to have such a purpose-driven woman next to you. <\/b><\/p>\n

Quero que me queiras pelo que sou e n\u00e3o pelo meu aspeto. <\/b><\/p>\n

Fazes todas estas coisas para me mostrar o teu amor, mas tenho dificuldade em ver outra coisa no teu olhar.<\/p>\n

You don\u2019t respect my decisions. You don\u2019t think I can make it no matter how hard I work. You think your success is more important than what I do.<\/p>\n

Nunca me disse como sou inteligente e nunca apoiou nenhuma das minhas ideias. Limitaste-te a cortar-me a palavra sem sequer me ouvires e a ires tratar dos teus problemas sozinho.<\/p>\n

Even when I am happy to help, you rush to somebody else for advice. You don\u2019t do these things in a relationship.<\/p>\n

\"jovem<\/p>\n

N\u00e3o compreende que o respeito \u00e9 um fator fundamental que nos permite compreender e reconhecer as ideias e decis\u00f5es do outro.<\/p>\n

True respect cannot be forced and I\u2019m not doing that, however, in most situations, people respect others due to power differentials.<\/p>\n

Ver tamb\u00e9m:<\/strong> \u00c9 por isso que o teu namorado te trata sem respeito<\/a><\/p>\n

Uma mulher pode ser bonita e inteligente ao mesmo tempo.<\/b><\/p>\n

If you\u2019d just give me the benefit of the doubt and listen to my advice for a change, you\u2019d see that what I say does make sense, in fact.<\/p>\n

If you\u2019d trust me with your problems, I\u2019d feel more appreciated.<\/p>\n

I don\u2019t want you to be proud of how beautiful I am\u2014I\u2019d get that anywhere.<\/p>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

Qualquer pessoa pode ser bonita e qualquer pessoa pode substituir-me porque h\u00e1 pelo menos um bili\u00e3o de outras mulheres que s\u00e3o t\u00e3o bonitas como eu.<\/p>\n

I\u2019d rather have you be proud of what kind of women you have next to yourself.<\/p>\n

I am not a trophy and I wish you\u2019d just stop treating me like one.<\/p>\n

I don\u2019t want just your affection, I want your admiration as well\u2014but not for how I look but for what I am. <\/b><\/p>\n

I don\u2019t want to be just a pretty face. I don\u2019t want to be weaker than you. I want my opinion to count. I want you to actually hear what I have to say, and I want you to respect me.<\/p>\n

I want you to scratch the surface and see what\u2019s beneath it. <\/b><\/p>\n

Because if you don\u2019t start respecting me, if you don\u2019t try to see another side of me, I might just respect myself enough to walk away from you.<\/b><\/p>\n

\"Quando<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

We\u2019re all a little blinded by hormones when we first enter a relationship and we don\u2019t see things as they really are at the beginning. We feel happy and we want to hold on to it forever. The truth is, you can\u2019t really stay in a relationship for the same reasons you entered it. At…<\/p>","protected":false},"author":20,"featured_media":112577,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29625],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-4070","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-toxic-relationship"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29625,"label":"toxic relationship"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/09\/When-There-Is-Love-But-No-Respect-In-The-Relationship-1024x684.jpg",1024,684,true],"author_info":{"display_name":"Christine Keller","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/author\/christine\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29625,"name":"toxic relationship","slug":"toxic-relationship","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29625,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Are you in a toxic relationship without even knowing it? What should you do if you find yourself in one? Here's all you need to know!","parent":29620,"count":228,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29625,"category_count":228,"category_description":"Are you in a toxic relationship without even knowing it? What should you do if you find yourself in one? Here's all you need to know!","cat_name":"toxic relationship","category_nicename":"toxic-relationship","category_parent":29620}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/4070","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/20"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=4070"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/4070\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/112577"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=4070"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=4070"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=4070"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}