{"id":40892,"date":"2019-07-24T07:35:57","date_gmt":"2019-07-24T07:35:57","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=40892"},"modified":"2021-08-11T13:31:25","modified_gmt":"2021-08-11T13:31:25","slug":"6-coisas-que-nunca-deve-ser-apanhado-a-fazer-com-a-sua-ex","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/6-coisas-que-nunca-deve-ser-apanhado-a-fazer-com-a-sua-ex\/","title":{"rendered":"6 coisas que NUNCA deves ser apanhado a fazer com o teu ex"},"content":{"rendered":"

O seu ex est\u00e1 no seu passado por uma raz\u00e3o, certo? Por isso, da pr\u00f3xima vez que come\u00e7ar a ter ideias de o deixar voltar \u00e0 sua vida, lembre-se rapidamente disto. Porque arrastar-se de novo para a vida com ele que deixou para tr\u00e1s \u00e9 sempre uma m\u00e1 ideia.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Resist the urge to contact him for whatever reason you tell yourself. You don\u2019t need that shit back in your world. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Sometimes, focusing on the bright future that is ahead of you is all the motivation you need to leave past mistakes where they belong \u2013 in the past.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Deixar de se concentrar em o seu ex<\/a> e come\u00e7ar a concentrar-se em si!<\/p>\n\n\n\n

For as long as your priorities are messed up, you are never going to heal and move on the way you\u2019re supposed to. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Ver o homem com quem demorou tanto tempo a terminar a rela\u00e7\u00e3o s\u00f3 pode trazer de volta a nostalgia e fazer com que se esque\u00e7a rapidamente das bandeiras vermelhas que levaram \u00e0 separa\u00e7\u00e3o.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

I understand that it\u2019s hard. Even if you were the one calling it quits. There are always residual feelings lurking somewhere deep within you. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

It can be suppressed anger about his shit that made you break it off. It can be sadness over the fact you couldn\u2019t salvage what you believed was your forever love.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

It can be an array of emotions that are eventually going to lead you to making a really bad decision! And once you\u2019re back in that web of unhealthy behavioral patterns, it\u2019s going to be twice as hard finding your way out once again.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Coloca-te em primeiro lugar. Colocar as suas emo\u00e7\u00f5es<\/a> first. Listen to what your head is telling you. And we both know it isn\u2019t telling you to call your ex.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

So in order to remain in that good place post-breakup, it is essential that you not engage in any of the following habits when it comes to your ex. With time, you\u2019ll see this was the best decision you ever made!<\/p>\n\n\n\n

1. Nunca te vingues do teu ex (deixa que o karma resolva essa merda)<\/strong><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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You know what they say: what goes around, comes back around. And they\u2019re not wrong! Somehow, things always seem to fall into place. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u00c9 certo que, por vezes, pode demorar um pouco mais, mas aqueles que te fazem mal ter\u00e3o sempre o que merecem.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

So it\u2019s better to just let karma take care of your ex, and worry about your own shit. It\u2019s never smart to stoop to that level due to temporary anger. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

In a few months, you\u2019ll be as good as new, and you\u2019ll be laughing about this. So find the strength within and let him go. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Revenge is not the solution here. It\u2019s moving on and letting him see how well you\u2019re doing. That\u2019ll do the trick.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

2. Nunca tenhas rela\u00e7\u00f5es sexuais com o teu ex<\/strong><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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Jumping into bed with your ex is the biggest no-no! You might foolishly think it will bring you closer together again or that it will make him realize how much he misses you, but it\u2019s the exact opposite!<\/p>\n\n\n\n

It will give him the idea that you want a casual relationship with him, so he\u2019ll still be sleeping with other girls as well as with you, and you\u2019ll end up more broken than ever! <\/p>\n\n\n\n

This will mess you up even more, trust me! You\u2019ll get a taste of him again and you won\u2019t want para o deixar ir<\/a>. And he\u2019ll be doing his thing, completely over you, making you more miserable than ever.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

3. Nunca ficar amigo do teu ex<\/strong><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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Don\u2019t kid yourself into thinking you\u2019re ready to have the guy you shared a bed with up until recently be your buddy. It sounds ridiculous, doesn\u2019t it? <\/p>\n\n\n\n

You can\u2019t just switch off your emotions. You can\u2019t just pretend he wasn\u2019t the man you believed was your one up until a few weeks ago. And now you want to be buddies with him?<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Cure-se primeiro. Cuida de ti primeiro. Fala sobre isso com os teus melhores amigos e p\u00f5e tudo c\u00e1 para fora. Chora e v\u00ea todas as com\u00e9dias rom\u00e2nticas que quiseres. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

But don\u2019t try to be his friend. It\u2019s going to be excruciating. You\u2019re not ready. Maybe one day, when your heart is whole again. But definitely not today.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

4. Never text him when you\u2019re feeling down<\/strong><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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I know this sounds harsh, but it\u2019s for your own good. Text your mom, your friends, or your sister! <\/p>\n\n\n\n

But don\u2019t text the man who caused you to feel this way. It\u2019s not fair. Not to him, and especially not to you. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Things are the way they are for good reason. A desperate text at midnight isn\u2019t going to change things.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Plus, you\u2019ll only regret it in the morning. So leave your phone when you\u2019re blue and put on some music. Lie on your bed and don\u2019t think, just feel. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Cry if you want to, but put your phone away, unless it\u2019s to text your friends. Feel your feelings and soon, you\u2019ll be okay again. Not great\u2026 but well enough to know that enviar-lhe mensagens<\/a> would\u2019ve been the worst idea ever.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

5. Nunca bater no seu ex \u00e0 frente dos outros<\/strong><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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Respeite o tempo que partilharam juntos. Durante algum tempo, ele foi o seu n\u00famero um. Ele era o teu homem, a tua rocha e o teu confidente. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Just because it didn\u2019t work out, doesn\u2019t give you the right to badmouth him.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Imagine if he talked shit about you to other people. It would hurt, wouldn\u2019t it? So simply don\u2019t do it. When you get asked about him, politely say he\u2019s a thing of the past now and you wish him nothing but the best, and walk away.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

6. Nunca implores ao teu ex para te aceitar de volta<\/strong><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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Don\u2019t let your sadness make you do things you normally wouldn\u2019t! Never beg anyone to be part of your life. You\u2019re better than that. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Granted, you\u2019re feeling like shit now, and this might seem like your last resort, but it\u2019s the last thing you should ever do.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

It will make him lose respect for you and change the way he sees you. You\u2019re not yourself right now, and that\u2019s okay. But stop yourself before you decide to beg him to take you back. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

That will only give him power over you and might make him use your sadness for his own gain. Be strong and keep away. You\u2019re not yourself right now, but I promise \u2013 you\u2019ll get there!<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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