7 QUALIDADES QUE EU PENSAVA QUERER NUM PARCEIRO AT\u00c9 CONHECER O MEU ACTUAL NAMORADO<\/p>\n\n\n\n
1. Someone who\u2019s (overly) spontaneous<\/strong><\/h2>\n\n\n\n![\"7](\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/07\/shutterstock_491412199.jpg\")
<\/figure>\n\n\n\nI mean, who doesn\u2019t like to be around people who are spontaneous? It\u2019s in our human nature to want to have fun and do crazy things with someone who is the embodiment of spontaneity (especially if we are lacking it).<\/p>\n\n\n\n
But, I\u2019ve realized that being (overly) spontaneous has its bad sides as well, and I\u2019m glad that my current partner in a way lacks it.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
It\u2019s one thing to live life as you please, and it\u2019s completely another to be spontaneously irresponsible, and live life like there\u2019s no tomorrow.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
And I\u2019ve realized that there\u2019s a really thin line between the two. Most of my spontaneous partners turned out to be irresponsible and fucked up which influenced the entire course of our relationship as well.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Ver tamb\u00e9m: 5 raz\u00f5es inesperadas para continuar a atrair os homens errados<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n2. Someone who\u2019s the life of the party<\/strong><\/h2>\n\n\n\n![\"7](\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/07\/shutterstock_521588080.jpg\")
<\/figure>\n\n\n\n\u00c0 semelhan\u00e7a da anterior, costumava escolher os meus parceiros de acordo com o qu\u00e3o convidativos e divertidos eram. <\/p>\n\n\n\n
Sempre me apaixonei por aqueles tipos que eram a vida da festa, que eram insaci\u00e1veis no que diz respeito a beber, dan\u00e7ar e fazer figura de parvos.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Mas agora apercebo-me de que isso foi totalmente errado e sei perfeitamente porqu\u00ea. <\/p>\n\n\n\n
It\u2019s because guys who are the life of the party are thirsty for attention (aka attention whores), and it can be really stressful and sometimes unbearable to deal with them in certain situations.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
3. Algu\u00e9m que me queira agradar de todas as formas poss\u00edveis<\/strong><\/h2>\n\n\n\n![\"7](\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/07\/shutterstock_631584956.jpg\")
<\/figure>\n\n\n\nNo, I don\u2019t mean anything sexual, but it could refer to that, too. <\/p>\n\n\n\n
What I mean is I don\u2019t want someone who wants to please me mentally in every way possible. <\/p>\n\n\n\n
I don\u2019t want someone who is afraid to contradict me when needed and to say what they really mean.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Unfortunately, I\u2019ve realized it too late, but better late than never, right?<\/p>\n\n\n\n
4. Algu\u00e9m com problemas que precisam de ser resolvidos<\/strong><\/h2>\n\n\n\n![\"7](\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/07\/shutterstock_1034150995.jpg\")
<\/figure>\n\n\n\nOh, lord. I can\u2019t emphasize how mad I am at myself for this one. I always tended to fall for bad boys who need fixing. <\/p>\n\n\n\n
I guess it\u2019s in my nature to feel sorry for them and want to help them at any cost (and each one cost me a lot of time and nerves as well).<\/p>\n\n\n\n
I always felt good when I was able to help them and show them a different perspective of life, but I didn\u2019t understand that by doing it, I was ferir-me a mim pr\u00f3prio<\/a>. <\/p>\n\n\n\nEm vez de me divertir com um parceiro que tem tudo controlado, perdi o meu tempo a tentar consertar almas despeda\u00e7adas e a imaginar que tenho alguns poderes especiais que as v\u00e3o curar e tornar o mundo um lugar melhor.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
5. Algu\u00e9m cuja maior prioridade seja a nossa rela\u00e7\u00e3o<\/strong><\/h2>\n\n\n\n![\"7](\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/07\/shutterstock_1320166088.jpg\")
<\/figure>\n\n\n\nSim. Sempre tive medo que o meu parceiro me negligenciasse a mim e \u00e0 nossa rela\u00e7\u00e3o, por isso estava literalmente obcecada por estar com algu\u00e9m cuja maior prioridade fosse a nossa rela\u00e7\u00e3o. <\/p>\n\n\n\n
I can\u2019t even describe how happy I am now with my current boyfriend because he understands the need to spend some time alone.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Esta \u00e9, de facto, uma das coisas mais importantes em qualquer rela\u00e7\u00e3o. <\/p>\n\n\n\n
Todos n\u00f3s devemos ter algum tempo para recarregar as energias e passar tempo com os nossos amigos e fam\u00edlia. Concentrarmo-nos apenas na rela\u00e7\u00e3o n\u00e3o \u00e9 nada saud\u00e1vel e est\u00e1 condenado.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
6. Someone who\u2019s heavy on the compliments<\/strong><\/h2>\n\n\n\n![\"7](\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/07\/shutterstock_1197102781.jpg\")
<\/figure>\n\n\n\nI bet there isn\u2019t any woman out there who doesn\u2019t like to receive compliments. <\/p>\n\n\n\n
Todas n\u00f3s gostamos de ouvir que o nosso cabelo est\u00e1 bonito, que a nossa roupa e o nosso corpo est\u00e3o na moda, e apaixonamo-nos sempre por aquele tipo que sabe como fazer elogios perfeitos<\/a>.<\/p>\n\n\n\nBut, by doing that, we forget about our personality as well! By being blinded by these \u201ctrivial\u201d compliments, we forget to think about more important ones regarding our souls. <\/p>\n\n\n\n
And I can\u2019t even explain you how grateful I am for finally being with someone who doesn\u2019t only focus on my looks. It\u2019s really refreshing and motivating!<\/p>\n\n\n\n
7. Someone who\u2019s just there to provide me with an escape<\/strong><\/h2>\n\n\n\n![\"7](\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/07\/shutterstock_271954382.jpg\")
<\/figure>\n\n\n\nWe\u2019re back to the bad boys again. All this time, I only wanted to be with someone who was just there to provide me with an escape. <\/p>\n\n\n\n
Sempre me apaixonei por mauz\u00f5es que faziam coisas malucas que lhes aumentavam a adrenalina, e isso fazia-me sentir t\u00e3o viva.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Pensava que estava a viver o momento, mas apercebi-me de que, em vez disso, estava a perder muita coisa. <\/p>\n\n\n\n
With my current boyfriend, I\u2019ve learned that living in the moment means being present physically and mentally, without any of that crazy shit and the need to prove yourself something that is not true.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
I\u2019ve realized that I don\u2019t need any of these. Real relationships are about being there for each other and focusing on the good things instead of solely providing an escape to each other. And, believe me, I\u2019ve never been happier in my life!<\/p>\n\n\n\n
<\/figure>\n\n\n\nI mean, who doesn\u2019t like to be around people who are spontaneous? It\u2019s in our human nature to want to have fun and do crazy things with someone who is the embodiment of spontaneity (especially if we are lacking it).<\/p>\n\n\n\n
But, I\u2019ve realized that being (overly) spontaneous has its bad sides as well, and I\u2019m glad that my current partner in a way lacks it.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
It\u2019s one thing to live life as you please, and it\u2019s completely another to be spontaneously irresponsible, and live life like there\u2019s no tomorrow.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
And I\u2019ve realized that there\u2019s a really thin line between the two. Most of my spontaneous partners turned out to be irresponsible and fucked up which influenced the entire course of our relationship as well.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Ver tamb\u00e9m: 5 raz\u00f5es inesperadas para continuar a atrair os homens errados<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n \u00c0 semelhan\u00e7a da anterior, costumava escolher os meus parceiros de acordo com o qu\u00e3o convidativos e divertidos eram. <\/p>\n\n\n\n Sempre me apaixonei por aqueles tipos que eram a vida da festa, que eram insaci\u00e1veis no que diz respeito a beber, dan\u00e7ar e fazer figura de parvos.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Mas agora apercebo-me de que isso foi totalmente errado e sei perfeitamente porqu\u00ea. <\/p>\n\n\n\n It\u2019s because guys who are the life of the party are thirsty for attention (aka attention whores), and it can be really stressful and sometimes unbearable to deal with them in certain situations.<\/p>\n\n\n\n No, I don\u2019t mean anything sexual, but it could refer to that, too. <\/p>\n\n\n\n What I mean is I don\u2019t want someone who wants to please me mentally in every way possible. <\/p>\n\n\n\n I don\u2019t want someone who is afraid to contradict me when needed and to say what they really mean.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Unfortunately, I\u2019ve realized it too late, but better late than never, right?<\/p>\n\n\n\n Oh, lord. I can\u2019t emphasize how mad I am at myself for this one. I always tended to fall for bad boys who need fixing. <\/p>\n\n\n\n I guess it\u2019s in my nature to feel sorry for them and want to help them at any cost (and each one cost me a lot of time and nerves as well).<\/p>\n\n\n\n I always felt good when I was able to help them and show them a different perspective of life, but I didn\u2019t understand that by doing it, I was ferir-me a mim pr\u00f3prio<\/a>. <\/p>\n\n\n\n Em vez de me divertir com um parceiro que tem tudo controlado, perdi o meu tempo a tentar consertar almas despeda\u00e7adas e a imaginar que tenho alguns poderes especiais que as v\u00e3o curar e tornar o mundo um lugar melhor.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Sim. Sempre tive medo que o meu parceiro me negligenciasse a mim e \u00e0 nossa rela\u00e7\u00e3o, por isso estava literalmente obcecada por estar com algu\u00e9m cuja maior prioridade fosse a nossa rela\u00e7\u00e3o. <\/p>\n\n\n\n I can\u2019t even describe how happy I am now with my current boyfriend because he understands the need to spend some time alone.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Esta \u00e9, de facto, uma das coisas mais importantes em qualquer rela\u00e7\u00e3o. <\/p>\n\n\n\n Todos n\u00f3s devemos ter algum tempo para recarregar as energias e passar tempo com os nossos amigos e fam\u00edlia. Concentrarmo-nos apenas na rela\u00e7\u00e3o n\u00e3o \u00e9 nada saud\u00e1vel e est\u00e1 condenado.<\/p>\n\n\n\n I bet there isn\u2019t any woman out there who doesn\u2019t like to receive compliments. <\/p>\n\n\n\n Todas n\u00f3s gostamos de ouvir que o nosso cabelo est\u00e1 bonito, que a nossa roupa e o nosso corpo est\u00e3o na moda, e apaixonamo-nos sempre por aquele tipo que sabe como fazer elogios perfeitos<\/a>.<\/p>\n\n\n\n But, by doing that, we forget about our personality as well! By being blinded by these \u201ctrivial\u201d compliments, we forget to think about more important ones regarding our souls. <\/p>\n\n\n\n And I can\u2019t even explain you how grateful I am for finally being with someone who doesn\u2019t only focus on my looks. It\u2019s really refreshing and motivating!<\/p>\n\n\n\n We\u2019re back to the bad boys again. All this time, I only wanted to be with someone who was just there to provide me with an escape. <\/p>\n\n\n\n Sempre me apaixonei por mauz\u00f5es que faziam coisas malucas que lhes aumentavam a adrenalina, e isso fazia-me sentir t\u00e3o viva.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Pensava que estava a viver o momento, mas apercebi-me de que, em vez disso, estava a perder muita coisa. <\/p>\n\n\n\n With my current boyfriend, I\u2019ve learned that living in the moment means being present physically and mentally, without any of that crazy shit and the need to prove yourself something that is not true.<\/p>\n\n\n\n I\u2019ve realized that I don\u2019t need any of these. Real relationships are about being there for each other and focusing on the good things instead of solely providing an escape to each other. And, believe me, I\u2019ve never been happier in my life!<\/p>\n\n\n\n2. Someone who\u2019s the life of the party<\/strong><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
<\/figure>\n\n\n\n3. Algu\u00e9m que me queira agradar de todas as formas poss\u00edveis<\/strong><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
<\/figure>\n\n\n\n4. Algu\u00e9m com problemas que precisam de ser resolvidos<\/strong><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
<\/figure>\n\n\n\n5. Algu\u00e9m cuja maior prioridade seja a nossa rela\u00e7\u00e3o<\/strong><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
<\/figure>\n\n\n\n6. Someone who\u2019s heavy on the compliments<\/strong><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
<\/figure>\n\n\n\n7. Someone who\u2019s just there to provide me with an escape<\/strong><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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