{"id":41052,"date":"2019-07-26T07:23:03","date_gmt":"2019-07-26T07:23:03","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=41052"},"modified":"2021-08-24T13:22:41","modified_gmt":"2021-08-24T13:22:41","slug":"porque-e-que-as-relacoes-falham","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/porque-e-que-as-relacoes-falham\/","title":{"rendered":"8 raz\u00f5es principais para o fracasso das rela\u00e7\u00f5es (e como evit\u00e1-las)"},"content":{"rendered":"
N\u00e3o se pode dizer ao certo porque \u00e9 que as rela\u00e7\u00f5es fracassam. H\u00e1 sempre mais do que uma raz\u00e3o que contribui para uma rutura. <\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n
Cada rela\u00e7\u00e3o amorosa \u00e9 diferente e baseia-se em valores diferentes. Por isso, \u00e9 quase imposs\u00edvel decidir o que corre mal numa rela\u00e7\u00e3o em particular.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n
If there has to be a major reason responsible for a relationship fail, I’d say it’s different priorities. Each person values something else. If your significant other considers relationships to be something you don’t agree with, it’s only natural to expect those kinds of relationships end. <\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n
Sei que todos n\u00f3s andamos numa busca constante por uma rela\u00e7\u00e3o saud\u00e1vel. No entanto, mesmo quando se encontra essa rela\u00e7\u00e3o, n\u00e3o h\u00e1 garantias de que seja duradoura. <\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n
O A raz\u00e3o para esta reviravolta \u00e9 muito simples. As pessoas mudam. E como as pessoas mudam, as rela\u00e7\u00f5es tamb\u00e9m mudam. A pessoa por quem se apaixonou n\u00e3o pode ser a mesma pessoa passado algum tempo p<\/strong>asses. So naturally, your true love doesn’t have to remain your true love. <\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n
The thing I’ve learned after observing people in relationships around me and my current relationship is that hard work is the recipe of every relationship success. <\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n
It’s important to keep investing in your relationship. Even more important\u2014don’t give up after the first obstacle. <\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n
The list of reasons I’m going to mention as potential relationship killers are not the same in every long-term relationship, although these are the most common reasons out there.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n
If you are tackling some of the listed problems, I’m offering the best possible solutions to save your relationship. <\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n
1. <\/strong>Problemas de confian\u00e7a<\/strong><\/h2>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<\/figure>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n
A falta de confian\u00e7a \u00e9 o assassino de rela\u00e7\u00f5es mais comum. A confian\u00e7a \u00e9 a base sobre a qual cada casal constr\u00f3i a sua rela\u00e7\u00e3o. Sem confian\u00e7a, uma rela\u00e7\u00e3o n\u00e3o pode avan\u00e7ar. S\u00f3 se pode deteriorar com o tempo. <\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n
Trust issues may appear because of two reasons. Firstly, if one person in the relationship constantly makes promises and breaks them, it’s logical for trust issues to rise.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n
Em segundo lugar, os problemas de confian\u00e7a numa outra pessoa podem surgir do nada. Ou melhor, os problemas de confian\u00e7a podem surgir devido a ci\u00fames infundados.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n
Isto acontece quando um dos parceiros \u00e9 ciumento sem raz\u00e3o aparente. As suas acusa\u00e7\u00f5es baseiam-se apenas em emo\u00e7\u00f5es. N\u00e3o h\u00e1 absolutamente nenhuma prova que sustente as suas acusa\u00e7\u00f5es. <\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n
So, when it comes to these two reasons, it’s obvious that the first one is a lot more solvable.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n
If your partner breaks their promises, talk to them calmly and explain to them that you don’t need anyone to feed you empty words; rather don’t say anything than promise something you cannot fulfill. <\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n
There is a possibility to save your relationship if your partner understands what you ask them to do. Regarding the jealousy, sadly, there isn’t much you can do.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n
O ci\u00fame \u00e9 um sentimento forte e muitas vezes muito doloroso que n\u00e3o pode ser facilmente eliminado. <\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n
Como lidar com <\/strong>quest\u00f5es de confian\u00e7a<\/strong>?<\/strong><\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n
Como j\u00e1 foi referido, a comunica\u00e7\u00e3o \u00e9 a chave para a resolu\u00e7\u00e3o de problemas. De facto, a comunica\u00e7\u00e3o \u00e9 a chave para resolver todos os problemas poss\u00edveis.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n
Be transparent, be honest and never break your word. Ask openly for what you want and work on your relationship from the beginning, not once the problems have already appeared and it’s too late.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n
Lembre-se, a m\u00e1 comunica\u00e7\u00e3o \u00e9 o inimigo da rela\u00e7\u00e3o. <\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n
In a relationship, ego is the opposite of compromise. And anyone who has ever been in a relationship knows that compromise plays one of the biggest roles in the relationship’s success. <\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n
It’s easy to fall in love with someone but it’s hard to make the relationship a successful one. It takes a lot of understanding, hard work and compromise. <\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n
If you enter a relationship thinking everything will go your way, you couldn\u2019t be more delusional. Love requires your ego to be left out completely. <\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n
Todos n\u00f3s temos um ego, mas s\u00f3 os que s\u00e3o suficientemente fortes para o conter conseguem fazer com que as suas rela\u00e7\u00f5es funcionem.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n
When you’re in love, your relationship won’t be all roses and sunshine. There will be situations where your opinion and your partner\u2019s opinion clashes. <\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n
In those situations, it’s important to find the middle ground. That’s where your ego has to be restrained. Otherwise, it can lead to a disaster, especially with your loved ones. <\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n
Como lidar com o seu ego?<\/strong><\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n
You are required to make a system that will work. Firstly, what you absolutely have to do is stop thinking only about yourself. When you are in a relationship, you’re becoming a team. There is no more ‘me’. Now it’s ‘we’. <\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n
Mantenha o seu ego sob controlo, pensando bem nas suas decis\u00f5es. Definitivamente, nunca decida nada por si pr\u00f3prio. Consulte sempre o seu ente querido. <\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n
Naturally, this is also connected to communication, so by avoiding your communication issues, you’re indirectly dealing with your ego as well. <\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n
3. Falta de lealdade<\/strong><\/h2>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<\/figure>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n
A lealdade e a infidelidade est\u00e3o intimamente relacionadas. De facto, quando h\u00e1 uma falta de lealdade durante algum tempo, a infidelidade costuma aparecer. <\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n
Some relationships get even stronger after an incident and some fall apart. It depends on how much you trust your partner and if you’re willing to give him a second chance. <\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n
Most relationships fail because one person doesn’t pay attention to the other as much as they should.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n
Tomam o seu parceiro como garantido e, com o tempo, fazem algo est\u00fapido que faz com que a outra pessoa perca a confian\u00e7a na pessoa que ama. <\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n
When you don’t trust your loved one, there is no loyalty. Where there is no loyalty, there can’t be mutual respect or therefore love.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n
Como lidar com a falta de lealdade?<\/strong><\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n
It’s pretty straightforward. You have to trust your partner from the beginning. You have to be loyal and devoted which are not hard things to do if you love each other. <\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n
Loyalty comes as the default setup in a loving relationship. Actually, if neither of you are loyal, you don’t even have to bother to keep the relationship alive. You cannot force someone to become loyal. <\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n
A couple doesn’t have to experience this at the beginning of the relationship and actually, it’s not usual for that to happen.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n
O problema das prioridades diferentes surge um pouco mais tarde numa rela\u00e7\u00e3o.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n
O que acontece \u00e9 que, a dada altura da rela\u00e7\u00e3o, o casal segue caminhos diferentes. As suas prioridades e as suas perspectivas de vida j\u00e1 n\u00e3o s\u00e3o as mesmas. <\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n
So naturally, they don’t agree on everything anymore which makes their union slowly deteriorate until it completely falls apart. <\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n
Como lidar com uma disson\u00e2ncia de opini\u00f5es?<\/strong><\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n
It’s not the end of the world. If you or your partner has interests which are no longer the same as the other\u2019s, have an interest that suits both of you. <\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n
H\u00e1 uma raz\u00e3o para se terem apaixonado um pelo outro. H\u00e1 um n\u00facleo de onde veio o vosso amor. Isso n\u00e3o pode ser mudado. S\u00f3 pode ser esquecido. <\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n
Por isso, encontrem algo de que ambos possam desfrutar e voltem a estabelecer contacto com o vosso parceiro para se lembrarem de onde vieram e como tudo come\u00e7ou. <\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n
5. <\/strong>Falta de compatibilidade<\/strong><\/h2>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<\/figure>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n
Sometimes all the boxes can be checked but the couple isn’t right for each other. They are not getting along. Everything about their relationship seems uncomfortable.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n
Muitas delas for\u00e7am-se a continuar nessa rela\u00e7\u00e3o mas, com o tempo, a insatisfa\u00e7\u00e3o torna-se avassaladora e acabam por se separar. <\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n
Your hopeless tries to stay with someone you’re not compatible with can only harm you and your self-esteem. When there is no compatibility, it’s better to end things sooner than later. There is a lot less damage if you end it at the beginning. <\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n
Although…<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n
Como lidar com um <\/strong>falta de compatibilidade<\/strong>?<\/strong><\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n
It’s impossible to be entirely compatible with another person. If they don’t show interest in the same things you do, maybe you should try showing interest in something they do. <\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n
This way, you’re opening up your life to something new and there is a great possibility of saving your relationship.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n
Remember that relationship compatibility can only be achieved if you come out of your comfort zone\u2014both of you. If you expect your partner to completely adapt to you and your wishes, you are very wrong. <\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n
6. <\/strong>Falta de comunica\u00e7\u00e3o<\/strong><\/h2>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<\/figure>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n
Os problemas de comunica\u00e7\u00e3o s\u00e3o um dos maiores assassinos de uma rela\u00e7\u00e3o. Como j\u00e1 foi referido v\u00e1rias vezes, uma boa comunica\u00e7\u00e3o \u00e9 a solu\u00e7\u00e3o chave para tudo, incluindo uma rela\u00e7\u00e3o bem sucedida.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n
Devido a julgamentos, cr\u00edticas ou sarcasmo dirigidos \u00e0 outra pessoa da vossa rela\u00e7\u00e3o, esta pode desenvolver desprezo da sua parte ao longo de um certo per\u00edodo de tempo. <\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n
Where there is a lack of communication when it comes to solving problems, other issues like this one rise to the surface. That’s why it’s important to face every little thing bothering you right away.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n
Como lidar com um <\/strong>falta de comunica\u00e7\u00e3o<\/strong>?<\/strong><\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n
Comunique, fale com o seu parceiro e diga-lhe como se sente. Diga-lhe que o seu comportamento o faz sentir desconfort\u00e1vel. <\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n
If talking about the problem doesn’t help solve things, then it’s time to call time on the death of the relationship. <\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n
7. Falta de tempo<\/strong><\/h2>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<\/figure>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n
Hoje em dia, toda a gente anda t\u00e3o ocupada, especialmente com a Internet e as redes sociais cada vez mais loucas. Ningu\u00e9m tem tempo para se dedicar a outra pessoa. <\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n
People hardly find time for themselves in their busy schedule called life, so it’s not surprising they don’t have the time for the person they love. This lack of time is what contributes to people drifting apart from each other. <\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n
When this happens, it’s hard to keep the emotional connection alive. Sooner or later, that relationship is going to end if it keeps going in the same direction. <\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n
Como lidar com a falta de tempo?<\/strong><\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n
Passar tempo de qualidade com quem se ama \u00e9 muito importante. Se isto representa um problema s\u00e9rio para si, existem alguns truques que o podem ajudar a organizar melhor o seu tempo. <\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n
Procurem coisas de que ambos gostem e marquem um hor\u00e1rio para as fazerem juntos. Ou tentem determinar, por exemplo, meia hora para estarem juntos antes de irem para o trabalho e quando regressarem a casa depois do trabalho. Tomem caf\u00e9 juntos, tenham encontros regulares ou planeiem viagens. <\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n
H\u00e1 muitos truques que podem ser utilizados para vos obrigar a passar mais tempo um com o outro e, assim, salvar a vossa rela\u00e7\u00e3o.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n
Money plays a big role in any relationship\u2014it doesn’t matter whether you’re married or not. Money is closely connected to the feelings of safety and security. Where there is no money, it’s logical that one person will assume that the other one isn’t trying hard enough to provide. <\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n
Pode parecer engra\u00e7ado, mas a psique humana funciona de forma misteriosa. Quando n\u00e3o h\u00e1 dinheiro, os problemas come\u00e7am a acumular-se. Al\u00e9m disso, devido \u00e0s preocupa\u00e7\u00f5es financeiras, as pessoas numa rela\u00e7\u00e3o est\u00e3o sempre no limite. <\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n
So, things that wouldn’t normally bother you that much irritate you when you’re broke. <\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n
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