{"id":41201,"date":"2019-07-29T09:49:34","date_gmt":"2019-07-29T09:49:34","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=41201"},"modified":"2021-08-11T13:18:01","modified_gmt":"2021-08-11T13:18:01","slug":"quanto-mais-se-brinca-com-ela-mais-depressa-a-concha-perde-o-interesse","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/quanto-mais-se-brinca-com-ela-mais-depressa-a-concha-perde-o-interesse\/","title":{"rendered":"Quanto mais brincares com ela, mais depressa ela perder\u00e1 o interesse"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>I won\u2019t lie to you \u2013 <strong>h\u00e1 raparigas que gostam de jogos<\/strong>. Raparigas que correm atr\u00e1s de ti quando tentas fugir delas.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>H\u00e1 raparigas que v\u00e3o ficar loucas por ti, no momento em que come\u00e7ares a fingir que \u00e9s dif\u00edcil de conquistar.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Raparigas que se excitam com o facto de terem de competir pela sua aten\u00e7\u00e3o com outras mulheres e raparigas que est\u00e3o prontas a fazer o que for preciso para que voc\u00ea as escolha. Raparigas que gostam de drama e de persegui\u00e7\u00e3o.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>There are girls who don\u2019t mind wasting their energy on trying to get to the bottom of your personality. Girls who are into guys who act all mysterious and secretive.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Raparigas que ficam todas excitadas quando precisam de descodificar os teus sinais contradit\u00f3rios e que est\u00e3o dispostas a ler nas entrelinhas numa tentativa de perceber todas as tuas palavras e ac\u00e7\u00f5es.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>No entanto, este \u00e9 diferente.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>First and foremost, you\u2019d be wrong for calling her a girl. She is a mature woman who knows what she wants and isn\u2019t ready to settle for anything less.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>A self-sufficient woman who has her standards that she won\u2019t lower for anyone. An independent woman who doesn\u2019t need you to make her complete.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>She doesn\u2019t give a toss about <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/relationship\/odeio-esperar-e-por-isso-que-sou-pessimo-em-encontros-modernos\/\">encontros modernos<\/a> rules. She isn\u2019t into playing games or ignoring guys to get their attention.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>So, if you try leading her on, if you try messing up with her head, you won\u2019t make her love you even more. You won\u2019t make her go crazy for you and you certainly won\u2019t make her chase you.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>Instead, you\u2019ll end up doing the complete opposite. You\u2019ll chase her away.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>The more she has to wait for you to answer her text and call her, the more distant she\u2019ll grow. No, it won\u2019t make her wonder where you are and it won\u2019t make her double-text you.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>Instead, it will only make her give up on you \u2013 make her lose the desire to contact you ever again.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/07\/shutterstock_610355321.jpg\" alt=\"Quanto mais brincares com ela, mais depressa ela perder\u00e1 o interesse\" class=\"wp-image-41206\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/07\/shutterstock_610355321.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/07\/shutterstock_610355321-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/07\/shutterstock_610355321-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p>No, she won\u2019t hope it\u2019s you calling every time her phone rings. She\u2019ll block your number and forget you were ever a part of your life.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>You\u2019ll lose this girl more and more with every sleepless night she spends waiting for you to come and pick her up, the way you promised. With every lie and empty excuse you think she\u2019ll believe.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>You\u2019ll make her lose more and more interest each time she starts to feel that you\u2019re treating like her a <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/relationship\/le-isto-se-te-sentires-como-a-sua-segunda-escolha\/\">segunda op\u00e7\u00e3o<\/a> e um plano de apoio. Sempre que a compara com outras raparigas e sempre que a faz sentir que n\u00e3o \u00e9 suficiente.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>You\u2019ll increasingly lose your grip on this girl each time you try to hide her from the rest of the world. Each time you call her to hang out after midnight. Each time you avoid introducing her to your friends.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>You\u2019ll turn her off you every time you sneak out of her house after sleeping with her and whenever you refuse to take her out on a real date.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>You\u2019ll chase her away every time you cancel plans, fail to put her first, and make her second guess your intentions.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>What do you expect? That she\u2019ll put up with you disappearing and coming back in her life whenever you feel like it?<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>Well, think again because you couldn&#8217;t be more wrong.&nbsp;&nbsp;<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>The more time this girl spends waiting for you to come to your senses and get your shit together, the more determined she\u2019ll be to walk away from you.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>You see, just because this girl likes you, it doesn\u2019t mean that she\u2019ll beg for your love. It doesn\u2019t mean that she is ready to put up with all of your crap and will keep quiet about all of your wrongdoings.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>It doesn\u2019t imply that she\u2019ll allow you to treat her however you feel or approve of your lousy behavior. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Most of all, it doesn\u2019t mean that she\u2019ll be your ego booster \u2013 someone you can call whenever you want, just to show to yourself that you\u2019re still man enough to win any girl over.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Por isso, se pensar sequer em jogar <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/amor\/3-jogos-mentais-que-todas-as-pessoas-toxicas-fazem\/\">jogos mentais<\/a> with her, walk on past to your next victim because you won\u2019t accomplish anything with this woman. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"683\" height=\"1024\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/07\/PINTEREST-2019-07-29T114907.902-683x1024.jpg\" alt=\"Quanto mais brincares com ela, mais depressa ela perder\u00e1 o interesse\" class=\"wp-image-41214\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/07\/PINTEREST-2019-07-29T114907.902-683x1024.jpg 683w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/07\/PINTEREST-2019-07-29T114907.902-200x300.jpg 200w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/07\/PINTEREST-2019-07-29T114907.902.jpg 735w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 683px) 100vw, 683px\" \/><\/figure>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>I won\u2019t lie to you \u2013 there are girls who are into games. Girls who will run after you when you try running away from them. There are girls who will go crazy for you, the moment you start pretending to be hard-to-get.&nbsp; Girls who are turned on by the fact that they have to&#8230;<\/p>","protected":false},"author":56,"featured_media":41216,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29639],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-41201","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-understanding-women"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29639,"label":"understanding women"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/07\/shutterstock_297773465.jpg",800,534,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Katie Burns","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/author\/katie\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29639,"name":"understanding women","slug":"understanding-women","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29639,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Women are not that complicated once you learn to understand them, seduce them and treat them the way they deserve. 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