{"id":41230,"date":"2019-07-29T12:25:40","date_gmt":"2019-07-29T12:25:40","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=41230"},"modified":"2021-08-11T13:17:15","modified_gmt":"2021-08-11T13:17:15","slug":"como-lidar-com-o-facto-de-a-tua-bff-ser-amiga-do-teu-ex","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/como-lidar-com-o-facto-de-a-tua-bff-ser-amiga-do-teu-ex\/","title":{"rendered":"Como lidar com o facto de a sua melhor amiga ser amiga do seu ex"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>H\u00e1 um ano, acabei com o meu namorado que me magoou muito. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Ele traiu-me e humilhou-me \u00e0 frente de todos os nossos amigos porque trouxe a sua nova amante a um caf\u00e9 onde est\u00e1vamos todos.\u00a0<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>He told me right there that he was now seeing her. He didn&#8217;t even care. Yup, he was that bad.\u00a0<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>I cut him off that day. He could be lying dead next to me and I wouldn&#8217;t care less for him. <\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>Mas a minha melhor amiga, que \u00e9 a melhor e mais simp\u00e1tica pessoa de sempre, continua a falar com ele e com a sua nova namorada.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Na verdade, passaram mais tempo juntos logo ap\u00f3s o sucedido. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>The worst part was that due to my job, I had to move to another city where I was alone and couldn&#8217;t &#8220;control&#8221; who was hanging out with whom, so they spent the entire summer having a great time while I was crying myself to sleep.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>Tentei explicar \u00e0 minha amiga que aquilo que ela estava a fazer n\u00e3o estava certo e que eu sabia que ela s\u00f3 o estava a fazer porque era uma boa pessoa e tinha pena de quem quer que fosse<\/strong>.\u00a0<\/p>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"800\" height=\"532\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/07\/shutterstock_99289220.jpg\" alt=\"Como lidar com o facto de a sua melhor amiga ser amiga do seu ex\" class=\"wp-image-41233\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/07\/shutterstock_99289220.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/07\/shutterstock_99289220-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/07\/shutterstock_99289220-768x511.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p>Com o passar do tempo, a sua amizade enfraqueceu. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>I thought that this was because of me, but it turned out it was because of his new girlfriend. My friend didn&#8217;t like her company.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>Para quem est\u00e1 a lidar com este problema, tenho algumas sugest\u00f5es:<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>1. Por muito simp\u00e1tica que a sua amiga seja e por muito forte que seja a amizade dela com o seu ex, se ele lhe tiver feito algo semelhante e ela n\u00e3o estiver l\u00e1 a gritar com ele, mas a sorrir como uma menina est\u00fapida, corte-lhe a palavra. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>I don&#8217;t mean cut her off for good, but at least for some time until she realizes what\u2019s right and what\u2019s wrong.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>2. Play it cool. Don&#8217;t freak out and try to point out something to her if it seems like you are talking to a wall. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Be a lady and wait. Everything will come out eventually; everyone&#8217;s personality and deeds will show up in the end.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>3. Se ela \u00e9 sua boa amiga e uma boa pessoa, e se ele \u00e9 como \u00e9, ent\u00e3o ela acabar\u00e1 por perceber isso e voltar\u00e1 para si e elimin\u00e1-lo-\u00e1 da sua vida.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Acredita, aconteceu-me.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>Because at the end, everyone&#8217;s intentions become clear and everyone shows their actual face.<\/strong><br><\/p>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"683\" height=\"1024\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/07\/PINTEREST-2019-07-29T142527.390-683x1024.jpg\" alt=\"Como lidar com o facto de a sua melhor amiga ser amiga do seu ex\" class=\"wp-image-41247\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/07\/PINTEREST-2019-07-29T142527.390-683x1024.jpg 683w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/07\/PINTEREST-2019-07-29T142527.390-200x300.jpg 200w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/07\/PINTEREST-2019-07-29T142527.390.jpg 735w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 683px) 100vw, 683px\" \/><\/figure>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>A year ago, I broke up with my boyfriend who really hurt me. He cheated on me and actually humiliated me in front of all of our friends because he brought his new lover in at this cafe where all of us were hanging.\u00a0 He told me right there that he was now seeing her&#8230;.<\/p>","protected":false},"author":25,"featured_media":41243,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29624],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-41230","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-friends-and-family"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29624,"label":"friends&amp;family"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/07\/shutterstock_1055032637.jpg",800,534,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Amy Nicholson","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/author\/amy\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29624,"name":"friends&amp;family","slug":"friends-and-family","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29624,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Do you want to improve your relationship with friends and family? 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