Essa foi a primeira pista que me deteriorou. Para come\u00e7ar, nunca fui suficientemente boa para ele ser a sua namorada legal. Ele dedicou-se totalmente a essa outra rapariga. <\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n Of course he did. Why shouldn\u2019t he when he made clear that she was better than me.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n Lembro-me de uma vez em que me despedi de um emprego em que o meu ordenado nunca chegava a horas e tinha um patr\u00e3o horr\u00edvel. <\/p>\n\n\n\n He made a comment that made me feel like I was the laziest person ever. We were talking about my friend and he said something like, \u201cWell, at least she has a job.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n Ele sabia com o que eu estava a lidar no trabalho e tamb\u00e9m sabia que este meu estatuto de desempregado era tempor\u00e1rio at\u00e9 eu ter uma nova oportunidade de emprego. <\/p>\n\n\n\n It wasn\u2019t like I was asking for money or anything from him. Instead of his support, though, he downgraded me.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Within a month and a half, I found another job and it was in this really great firm. They loved me in the interview and it wasn\u2019t like I slept with someone to get that position. <\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n Ele nunca me felicitou. Na verdade, acho que ele tinha ci\u00fames de mim.\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n Os amigos dele felicitavam-me, dizendo como eu era independente, encantadora e simp\u00e1tica. Ele nunca comentava nada. Por isso, continuei a pensar que n\u00e3o era nada disso.\u00a0<\/p>\n\n\n\n Sei que sou muito atraente e invisto em roupas bonitas, especialmente em lingerie sexy. Eu sabia que ele me via como muito atraente, mas nunca disse nada. <\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n Okay, I\u2019m sorry for my vanity, but I am a woman and you need to tell me that you love my thighs and hair and lips.\u00a0<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n Sometimes it\u2019s not enough just to have sex with someone. It proves nothing except for the fact that you satisfied your primal need. <\/p>\n\n\n\n Compared to him, I was a Victoria\u2019s Secret model, but I never had a problem with stating I loved his beer belly and strong hands.<\/p>\n\n\n\n I am aware now that he was a jealous and narcissist person, that he never appreciated me, and how better off I am without him, but it\u2019s just hard to appreciate myself. <\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n If he \u2013 the one with the beer belly and mediocre accomplishments \u2013 never appreciated me, how is someone else who is a far better catch than he was, going to appreciate me?<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n Sei que os amigos dele e os meus amigos gostam de mim e dizem que sou uma boa mulher, mas ainda tenho dificuldade em acreditar nisso. <\/p>\n\n\n\n Odeio-o por me ter feito isto. Odeio o facto de que essa outra pessoa que vai trope\u00e7ar em mim vai ter de lidar com muitos peda\u00e7os partidos. <\/p>\n\n\n\n S\u00f3 espero que essa futura pessoa seja realmente paciente e compreensiva.\u00a0<\/p>\n\n\n\n E espero que, para ele, exista um universo c\u00e1rmico que compense todas as coisas que ele j\u00e1 fez a mim ou a qualquer outra rapariga, e que ele seja 10 vezes menos confiante do que eu sou agora.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n I was involved with this very narcissistic man who never directly said anything mean to me or was ever aggressive, but the actions and hints he used to give me totally crushed my entire being. 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