And while you\u2019re lying there on your bed trying hard to figure things out, the only solution that seems logical to you is to probably ask him where things are going. I mean, every sane person would do the same, right? Well, not really.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n
Quando se trata de homens, ter uma conversa sobre o rumo das coisas e sobre o que sentem em rela\u00e7\u00e3o a tudo \u00e9 mais como cometer suic\u00eddio.<\/em><\/strong><\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n Unlike women, men don\u2019t really like to define things because this makes them anxious, and if you force them to open up to you and tell you exactly how they feel about everything, you will only make things worse!<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n Remember this and read it a few times if you have to. (Trust me, I\u2019m speaking from experience.)<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n And if you\u2019re wondering why, here are 5 solid reasons you should never ask a guy where things are going (no matter how much you want to)!<\/strong><\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n Os homens, por natureza, precisam de mais tempo para processar as suas emo\u00e7\u00f5es, a fim de compreenderem o que realmente querem e o que realmente sentem em rela\u00e7\u00e3o a tudo.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n Por outro lado, as mulheres s\u00e3o mais maduras neste contexto porque s\u00e3o mais r\u00e1pidas a compreender as suas emo\u00e7\u00f5es.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n Now, imagine that you ask the guy you like to have the where-things-are-going conversation. I\u2019m sure you assume the outcome.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n He\u2019ll start overthinking and getting more and more confused about everything because his emotions haven\u2019t yet clicked in his brain.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n So, the worst case scenario is he comes to the conclusion that he\u2019s not really ready to commit only because it\u2019s too early for him to think about all of this.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n Well, to keep this from happening, the only thing you shouldn\u2019t do is force him to have this conversation with you because with time, he\u2019ll understand all of it on his own and open up to you when he\u2019s ready.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n Ver tamb\u00e9m: O que \u00e9 que os homens querem numa mulher? 15 coisas que o v\u00e3o impressionar <\/a><\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n Eu, como mulher, compreendo-a perfeitamente quando se trata de ser impaciente e de exigir respostas para poder funcionar corretamente.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n Mas, se optar por lhe pedir para definir o que tem, ele pode pensar que est\u00e1 desesperada. Porqu\u00ea?<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n Because he could get the feeling that you\u2019re rushing things (especially if it\u2019s too early for him; remember the above-mentioned point?) and no one likes to be rushed into something.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n Sentir-se pressionado a fazer escolhas e a chegar a conclus\u00f5es s\u00f3 far\u00e1 com que ele fuja de si em vez de se aproximar.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n E, pior ainda, ele vai pensar que voc\u00ea \u00e9 insegura e controladora, porque pressionar algu\u00e9m significa querer desesperadamente dirigir as coisas como voc\u00ea deseja, apenas para se sentir em paz consigo mesma. E ningu\u00e9m se sente atra\u00eddo por essas qualidades.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n Ver tamb\u00e9m: 10 coisas que o fazem pensar que ela est\u00e1 desesperada<\/a><\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n It\u2019s not a coincidence that men are said to be from Mars and women from Venus \u2013 they have completely different mindsets.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n Enquanto as mulheres exigem respostas, os homens exigem espa\u00e7o. O maior problema de que muitas mulheres s\u00e3o culpadas \u00e9 a necessidade de resolver incertezas.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n While women detest uncertainty, men detest restriction. Sounds ironic, right? But, it\u2019s true. Men don\u2019t have the urge to define things because they like to let things unfold naturally.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n Ao contr\u00e1rio deles, as mulheres s\u00f3 se sentem confort\u00e1veis quando sabem concretamente para onde as coisas est\u00e3o a ir e a que velocidade.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n So, learning that uncertainty is not a problem that you have to fix is the first step to realizing that you shouldn\u2019t force your guy to have the where-things-are-going conversation with you.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n Ao faz\u00ea-lo, poupar\u00e1 muito tempo e nervos a ambos.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n Let\u2019s say that you\u2019ve decided to have that conversation with your guy and you\u2019re not satisfied with his answers and now you wish you could turn back time and erase the moment you decided to do so.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n Spending \u2013 or better said \u2013 wasting your time on defining things will not bring you anything good. Instead, you should enjoy passar tempo juntos<\/a> e n\u00e3o pensar demasiado em cada palavra ou movimento. <\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n Esta \u00e9 a maior diferen\u00e7a entre homens e mulheres. Enquanto as mulheres passam muito tempo a definir as coisas, os homens est\u00e3o ocupados a planear o que v\u00e3o fazer a seguir consigo. Est\u00e1 a ver a diferen\u00e7a?<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n If you think that what you\u2019re feeling is overwhelming and there\u2019s no solution for it, you are wrong.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n What you\u2019re feeling is totally normal for everyone out there who is dealing with something new or who has met someone new.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n New things make us anxious and that is just how we humans are wired. Everything new you start doing is risky and there\u2019s no one to tell you how things will end.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n1. Os homens precisam de mais tempo para processar as suas emo\u00e7\u00f5es<\/h2>\r\n
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<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n2. You don\u2019t want to look desperate<\/h2>\r\n
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<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n3. A incerteza n\u00e3o \u00e9 um problema que tem de ser resolvido<\/h2>\r\n
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<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n4. Deve APROVEITAR em vez de DEFINIR<\/h2>\r\n
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<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n5. Em vez de precisar de saber, trabalhe o seu medo<\/h2>\r\n
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