{"id":41486,"date":"2020-11-05T10:24:08","date_gmt":"2020-11-05T10:24:08","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=41486"},"modified":"2021-08-12T12:49:36","modified_gmt":"2021-08-12T12:49:36","slug":"4-coisas-que-ele-realmente-te-diz-quando-diz-que-nao-esta-pronto-para-um-relacionamento","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/4-coisas-que-ele-realmente-te-diz-quando-diz-que-nao-esta-pronto-para-um-relacionamento\/","title":{"rendered":"4 coisas que ele est\u00e1 realmente a dizer-te quando diz que n\u00e3o est\u00e1 pronto para uma rela\u00e7\u00e3o"},"content":{"rendered":"

N\u00e3o h\u00e1 nada de errado em n\u00e3o querer uma rela\u00e7\u00e3o. N\u00e3o h\u00e1 nada de errado em preferir ser solteiro e descobrir a sua vida.<\/p>\n

No entanto, conduzir algu\u00e9m<\/a> e dar-lhes falsas esperan\u00e7as \u00e9 terr\u00edvel. Dizer \u00e0 pessoa que gosta de si que n\u00e3o est\u00e1 preparado para uma rela\u00e7\u00e3o neste momento e que as coisas acabar\u00e3o por mudar \u00e9 sorrateiro, mau e leva ao desgosto.<\/p>\n

Well, this is exactly what numerous guys have been doing lately. Instead of giving you the real reason why they don\u2019t want to make things official, they use this corny phrase that leaves you wondering where you stand.<\/p>\n

I don\u2019t want to stay faithful<\/h2>\n

\"um<\/p>\n

One of the first reasons most men say they don\u2019t want to label things is actually pretty simple and it lies in their need to screw around.<\/p>\n

Quando um rapaz nos diz uma coisa destas, ele quer mesmo continuar a viver a sua vida de solteiro e quer continuar a ser um rapaz que fode.<\/p>\n

However, being in this kind of relation with you doesn\u2019t put any obligation on him.<\/p>\n

As much as you don\u2019t want to hear it, the truth is that if he keeps things casual, he doesn\u2019t have the duty of being faithful to you.<\/p>\n

Instead, he has all the freedom of the world to flirt with other girls \u2013 to text, talk, or even sleep with them. In fact, in this arrangement, he is allowed to have another parallel relationship besides yours.<\/p>\n

And you know what the worst part is? The fact that you can\u2019t confront him about any of it.<\/p>\n

After all, the two of you aren\u2019t official and he has the right to do whatever the hell he wants.<\/p>\n

I\u2019m waiting for someone more conveniente<\/a><\/h2>\n

\"um<\/p>\n

Another meaning of the phrase \u201cI\u2019m not ready for a relationship\u201d that is somehow brutal but doesn\u2019t make it any less true.<\/p>\n

Detesto ser eu a dizer-lhe isto, mas existe a possibilidade de este homem a ter apenas como plano de reserva, at\u00e9 que apare\u00e7a uma rapariga que ele considere melhor para ele.<\/p>\n

You see, it\u2019s not that he isn\u2019t ready for a relationship right now, he just isn\u2019t ready for a relationship with you. And that is a huge difference.<\/p>\n

Maybe he is hoping to get back with his ex or waiting for some girl who will meet his standards. The point is that he doesn\u2019t see you as girlfriend material.<\/p>\n

However, this doesn\u2019t mean that you should question your worth just because he doesn\u2019t see it. Instead of looking at this entire situation as something bad, observe it as his loss.<\/p>\n

I\u2019m incapable of loving<\/h2>\n

\"um<\/p>\n

There are men who don\u2019t have the capacity to love someone with their entire heart.<\/p>\n

Homens que nunca conseguem comprometer-se completamente com uma mulher, independentemente da magnitude das emo\u00e7\u00f5es e do sacrif\u00edcio que recebem dela.<\/p>\n

Se \u00e9 este o caso do seu homem, tem de saber que n\u00e3o h\u00e1 nada de errado consigo.<\/p>\n

It doesn\u2019t mean that you should continue trying to break through his armor shield or put a little more effort into convincing him that true love exists.<\/p>\n

Ele \u00e9 simplesmente emocionalmente indispon\u00edvel e n\u00e3o h\u00e1 nada que possas fazer.<\/p>\n

Besides, him telling you that he isn\u2019t ready for a relationship NOW is nothing but a load of crap because a guy like this will never be ready for a committed, dedicated relationship.<\/p>\n

I\u2019m an immature brat<\/h2>\n

\"o<\/p>\n

Outro grupo de homens que nunca ter\u00e1 o que \u00e9 preciso para construir uma rela\u00e7\u00e3o saud\u00e1vel \u00e9 emocionalmente imaturo<\/a> mama\u2019s boys who refuse to grow up.<\/p>\n

This type doesn\u2019t have to necessarily be emotionally unavailable, he just wants to run away from every possible responsibility.<\/p>\n

He\u2019s telling you he doesn\u2019t want a real relationship right now because he can\u2019t man up and start acting like a grown ass man. He prefers living in an illusion that he is still young and has enough time to think about the future.<\/p>\n

He thinks of a relationship as a cage that will limit his freedom and he doesn\u2019t know how to be a part of a couple.<\/p>\n

This guy doesn\u2019t plan to marry or to start a family. Instead, he lives in the moment and you as his official girlfriend would just get in the way of his lifestyle.<\/p>\n

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There is nothing wrong in not wanting a relationship. Nothing wrong in preferring to be single and figuring your life out. However, leading someone on and giving them false hope is terrible. Telling the person who cares about you that you are not ready for a relationship right now and that things will eventually change…<\/p>","protected":false},"author":42,"featured_media":123530,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29646],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-41486","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-understanding-men"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29646,"label":"understanding men"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/08\/4-Things-Hes-Actually-Telling-You-When-He-Says-He-Isnt-Ready-For-A-Relationship-1024x684.jpg",1024,684,true],"author_info":{"display_name":"Selma June","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/author\/selmajune\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29646,"name":"understanding men","slug":"understanding-men","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29646,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Wondering about what's going on inside his head? Or do you need explanations for his actions? Learn to understand men, and your life will become easier.","parent":29643,"count":570,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29646,"category_count":570,"category_description":"Wondering about what's going on inside his head? Or do you need explanations for his actions? Learn to understand men, and your life will become easier.","cat_name":"understanding men","category_nicename":"understanding-men","category_parent":29643}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/41486","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/42"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=41486"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/41486\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/123530"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=41486"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=41486"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=41486"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}