{"id":41509,"date":"2019-08-05T12:23:59","date_gmt":"2019-08-05T12:23:59","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=41509"},"modified":"2021-08-11T13:14:34","modified_gmt":"2021-08-11T13:14:34","slug":"3-coisas-a-ter-em-conta-quando-o-seu-ex-segue-em-frente-antes-de-si","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/3-coisas-a-ter-em-conta-quando-o-seu-ex-segue-em-frente-antes-de-si\/","title":{"rendered":"3 coisas a ter em conta quando o teu ex segue em frente antes de ti"},"content":{"rendered":"

Infelizmente, depois de terminarem uma rela\u00e7\u00e3o duradoura, muitos casais come\u00e7am a agir como se seguir em frente fosse uma competi\u00e7\u00e3o.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Who will be the first one to find a new partner? Who will post more selfies which show that they’re doing great and that they don’t miss a thing from their previous life? Sounds familiar, right?<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Quer queira admitir ou n\u00e3o, de alguma forma acabou por ser arrastada para a mesma situa\u00e7\u00e3o. E o que \u00e9 ainda pior, parece que o seu ex-namorado seguiu em frente antes de si.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

You’re still lamenting your love and you’re still grieving your relationship while he’s out there, living his life like you were never a part of it. Naturally, you feel like the weaker one and like the one who loved more.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Se isto \u00e9 algo com que se identifica, aqui est\u00e3o algumas coisas a ter em conta.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

1. A cura \u00e9 um processo<\/strong><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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First and foremost, you need to remember that healthy healing never happens overnight. Yes, it is possible for you to deceive yourself and others, lying that you’ve seguiu em frente<\/a> completamente e esqueceu tudo sobre o seu passado em apenas alguns dias.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

No entanto, isso est\u00e1 longe de ser verdade. De facto, reprimir as suas emo\u00e7\u00f5es e fingir que \u00e9 melhor do que realmente \u00e9 s\u00f3 vai piorar as coisas.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

A sua dor vai chegar at\u00e9 si, mais cedo ou mais tarde, por isso \u00e9 muito melhor processar as coisas a tempo do que escov\u00e1-las para debaixo do tapete, esperando que desapare\u00e7am por magia.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Just because it looks like your ex has continued with his life and just because it appears he’s forgotten all about you, doesn’t make it true.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Ele pode estar a fazer tudo isto de prop\u00f3sito e para a magoar. Ou talvez pense que n\u00e3o \u00e9 viril sofrer, por isso faz-se passar por um tipo duro que deixou o passado para tr\u00e1s.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Either way, this shouldn’t concern you. Even if he really did manage to move on so quickly, the last thing you should do is compare yourself to him.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

We all recover at a different pace. Just because your process is taking a bit longer, it doesn’t make you any weaker and it doesn’t mean that you won’t move on eventually.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

2. This doesn’t annul your history<\/strong><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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A primeira coisa que provavelmente lhe passa pela cabe\u00e7a no momento em que v\u00ea que o seu ex seguiu em frente \u00e9 o facto de ele nunca a ter amado a s\u00e9rio. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

You start to think that you were irrelevant, that you were just one girl in a row for him and that you didn’t leave any impact on his life whatsoever.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Let’s face it\u2014these thoughts can hurt even more than the rutura<\/a> itself. After all, it seems he’s gotten over you so fast that you start doubting your entire relationship and everything that you two went through.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Bem, deixem-me dizer-vos que pensar assim \u00e9 um grande erro.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

First of all, your relationship is a part of your past and nobody can change that. You shouldn’t allow this man’s present actions to destroy your memory of everything beautiful you two went through.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

No matter what he is doing right now, he can’t erase the fact that he was your boyfriend and that you guys shared some intense feelings.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

3. Moving on isn’t just jumping into a new relationship<\/strong><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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The last but definitely not the least important thing you mustn’t forget when your ex moves on before you is that a rela\u00e7\u00e3o de ricochete<\/a> doesn’t equal healing. Moving forward is much more than finding a new romantic partner.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Just because you saw him with another girl, it doesn’t mean that he’s gotten over you completely.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

This is especially the case if your ex has been jumping from one relationship to the next because that is living proof that he can’t cope with the fact that he’s lost you.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

So, please, don’t even think of looking for comfort in other guys because you’ll just hurt yourself even more. Don’t do anything you’re not ready for just to get even with your ex or to meet the world’s expectations.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Instead, wait until you’re ready to make some changes in your life. Take all the time you need and let it do its magic.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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Sadly, after ending a long-term relationship, many couples start acting like moving on is a competition. Who will be the first one to find a new partner? Who will post more selfies which show that they’re doing great and that they don’t miss a thing from their previous life? Sounds familiar, right? Whether you like…<\/p>","protected":false},"author":23,"featured_media":41523,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29631],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-41509","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-getting-over-him"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29631,"label":"getting over him"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/08\/shutterstock_1170996406-1.jpg",800,534,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Leah Lee","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/author\/leah\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29631,"name":"getting over him","slug":"getting-over-him","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29631,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Getting over someone you still care about is one of the biggest challenges, but nothing is impossible when you know you're not alone, so check out our brilliant advice.","parent":29627,"count":124,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29631,"category_count":124,"category_description":"Getting over someone you still care about is one of the biggest challenges, but nothing is impossible when you know you're not alone, so check out our brilliant advice.","cat_name":"getting over him","category_nicename":"getting-over-him","category_parent":29627}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/41509","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/23"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=41509"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/41509\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/41523"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=41509"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=41509"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=41509"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}