{"id":41538,"date":"2019-08-06T07:22:34","date_gmt":"2019-08-06T07:22:34","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=41538"},"modified":"2021-08-11T13:14:07","modified_gmt":"2021-08-11T13:14:07","slug":"ao-amor-que-nao-era-para-durar","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/ao-amor-que-nao-era-para-durar\/","title":{"rendered":"Para o amor que nunca foi feito para durar"},"content":{"rendered":"

Sempre que se inicia uma nova rela\u00e7\u00e3o, no fundo, uma parte de n\u00f3s espera secretamente que seja para sempre. Que ela sobreviver\u00e1 apesar de todos os desafios e obst\u00e1culos.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Deseja que seja um conto de fadas<\/a> em que tu e o teu ente querido viver\u00e3o felizes para sempre.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Sempre que se come\u00e7a a amar algu\u00e9m novo, no fundo, uma parte de n\u00f3s espera que desta vez seja diferente. Que voc\u00eas os dois v\u00e3o ser melhores do que todos os outros casais e que v\u00e3o ter sucesso, apesar de todas as probabilidades.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

At least this is the way I always think. You can call me a hopeless romantic, but I don\u2019t see the point in letting someone in your life when you already have an exit strategy.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

I don\u2019t see any point in starting something new if you\u2019re planning its end. In beginning a love story that you know has an expiration date right from the start.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

However, things don\u2019t always turn out the way we want them to. Sadly, many stories don\u2019t have happy endings and many loves are not meant to last, despite all of our hopes and desires.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

That is exactly what happened with us \u2013 we were obviously never destined to end up together. As much as we loved each other, we couldn\u2019t fight against everything fate had prepared for us.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

\"Para<\/figure>\n\n\n\n

Don\u2019t get me wrong, this doesn\u2019t mean I blame the higher powers for our failure. I don\u2019t blame either of us, either.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

The truth is that I\u2019ve accepted our end. I\u2019ve come to terms with the fact that I lost you for good and that you\u2019re not coming back.  <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Nevertheless, this doesn\u2019t mean that I consider time spent with you wasted. It doesn\u2019t mean that I regret giving you my entire self, nor does it mean that I wouldn\u2019t have done it all over again, if I had the chance.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Mais importante ainda, it doesn\u2019t mean that we didn\u2019t have a purpose in each other\u2019s lives. It doesn\u2019t mean we didn\u2019t matter or our love wasn\u2019t true.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Sabes, demorei s\u00e9culos a perceber tudo isto. No in\u00edcio, quando te perdi, amaldi\u00e7oei o meu destino por te ter enviado no meu caminho s\u00f3 para que me fosses tirado.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

I wondered what the point of everything was \u2013 why God sent me a man I loved so much, if He knew he wasn\u2019t my forever person.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Por que raz\u00e3o tinha eu de experimentar um amor t\u00e3o avassalador e absorvente, se acabaria por sofrer por isso? Qual era o objetivo de toda esta dor por que estava a passar?<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\"Para<\/figure>\n\n\n\n

Then, after a lot of thought, it dawned on me that sometimes we can\u2019t understand everything. Apercebi-me que h\u00e1 raz\u00f5es que est\u00e3o para al\u00e9m da nossa compreens\u00e3o.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Descobri que a nossa hist\u00f3ria serviu como um li\u00e7\u00e3o valiosa<\/a>. A lesson that cost me endless sleepless nights and tears, but a lesson I\u2019ll never forget.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Descobri que estavas l\u00e1 para me ensinar a amar com todo o meu ser. Estavas l\u00e1 para me ensinar a lidar com a perda, a manter-me forte apesar de todas as dificuldades e a ultrapassar a dor.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Para me ensinar que sou uma mulher autossuficiente que pode sobreviver a tudo o que a vida lhe atira. Para me mostrar todo o meu poder interior que eu nunca soube que tinha.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

You were there to school me that I can\u2019t always have whatever and whoever I want. That sometimes, life is a bitch who kicks us in the gut when we least expect it.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

To teach me how to appreciate people while they\u2019re still in my life. How to cope with sadness and nostalgia.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Mais importante ainda, you were there to teach me that some people are not meant to stay. That some loves aren\u2019t meant to last, as much as we want it to be.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

So, maybe you don\u2019t want to hear this, but after finally understanding all of this, I don\u2019t regret losing you anymore. And you know why?<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Because I know that everything I\u2019ve been through was for my own good. Because I know that bigger and better things await me.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Because I know that we\u2019ll both manage to be happy in the future without each other. Because I am convinced that we\u2019ll both meet the people who are <\/strong>destinado a ser nosso<\/strong><\/a> at\u00e9 ao fim dos tempos.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

And when that does happen, we\u2019ll realize why things never worked between us.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

\"Para<\/figure>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

Whenever you enter a new relationship, deep down, some parts of you secretly hope that it will be forever. That it will survive despite all the challenges and obstacles. You wish for it to be a fairytale in which you and your loved one will live happily ever after. Whenever you start loving someone new,…<\/p>","protected":false},"author":40,"featured_media":41544,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29617],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-41538","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-heartbreak"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29617,"label":"heartbreak"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/08\/shutterstock_1036776307-1.jpg",800,534,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Tara Brown","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/author\/tara-brown\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29617,"name":"heartbreak","slug":"heartbreak","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29617,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Recovering after having your heart broken is tough. That's why I've decided to collect different stories of heartbreak - to help everyone going through the same.","parent":38,"count":146,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29617,"category_count":146,"category_description":"Recovering after having your heart broken is tough. That's why I've decided to collect different stories of heartbreak - to help everyone going through the same.","cat_name":"heartbreak","category_nicename":"heartbreak","category_parent":38}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/41538","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/40"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=41538"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/41538\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/41544"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=41538"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=41538"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=41538"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}