If Tom Hardy had approached me, I wouldn\u2019t have reacted at all. I only wanted my ex to touch me and no one else.<\/strong><\/p>\n O facto de a sua rela\u00e7\u00e3o com a nova namorada ter progredido bem despertou-me a raiva.<\/p>\n I wanted so badly to have sex with random guys but I just couldn\u2019t. Luckily, something always turned me off.<\/p>\n Tinha medo de me afei\u00e7oar a uma pessoa que escolhi ao acaso para fazer sexo e que essa pessoa tamb\u00e9m me magoasse. <\/strong><\/p>\n Depois tive uma fase em que sentia nojo de todos os homens. Era como se a minha pele se tivesse habituado a n\u00e3o ter qualquer contacto.<\/strong><\/p>\n Nos primeiros meses, tive dificuldade em adaptar-me. O meu corpo ansiava por sexo e eu estava sempre a falar sobre isso.<\/p>\n I kept watching porn, which didn\u2019t help at all. Every time I went out with the girls, I was looking for my prey but my ex kept popping up in my mind. It kept me safe from all those random guys.<\/p>\n Naquela altura, parecia que eu era a rapariga mais atraente da zona. Havia uma energia sexual \u00e0 minha volta e toda a gente podia senti-la.<\/p>\n As time passed, this energy decreased. I felt miserable and like I couldn\u2019t attract anyone. And it was true at that time. I really had this toxic energy around me.<\/p>\n I was confused and I couldn\u2019t take anyone or anything seriously. I just existed.<\/p>\n That was the point when I decided to turn the tables. It could have been Uranus in Taurus, I don\u2019t know, but I accepted every situation and every change. <\/strong><\/p>\n Decidi n\u00e3o ter rela\u00e7\u00f5es sexuais com ningu\u00e9m at\u00e9 saber que tinha encontrado algu\u00e9m especial ou, pelo menos, uma pessoa relativamente fi\u00e1vel.<\/strong><\/p>\n O que aconteceu depois foi que comecei a prestar aten\u00e7\u00e3o \u00e0s pessoas e aos acontecimentos \u00e0 minha volta.<\/p>\n Deixei de me preocupar com a minha falta de sexo, de contacto humano, de emo\u00e7\u00f5es e de tudo o que vinha inclu\u00eddo nesse pacote.<\/p>\n My body didn\u2019t crave it anymore, it adjusted well.<\/p>\n Comecei a correr, apesar de nunca ter praticado qualquer desporto. O meu corpo ficou bem formado e, devido \u00e0s endorfinas libertadas durante a pr\u00e1tica desportiva, senti-me satisfeita.<\/p>\n Conheci tantas pessoas fant\u00e1sticas e comecei a prestar aten\u00e7\u00e3o a mim pr\u00f3pria.<\/p>\n Apareceram muitas oportunidades de emprego. Senti-me muito poderosa.<\/p>\n Era como se tivesse tirado de mim esta necessidade crua e primitiva e, de repente, me tivesse tornado t\u00e3o bem sucedido e profundo, como um homem da Renascen\u00e7a.<\/p>\n O mais importante foi o facto de me ter sentido t\u00e3o pura e com poder.<\/p>\n Depois de me ter abra\u00e7ado a mim pr\u00f3pria e a esta minha nova pureza, e tamb\u00e9m ao meu novo aspeto empresarial, reparei de repente que muitos rapazes estavam agora interessados em mim.<\/p>\n \u00c9 quase como se eles pudessem sentir o cheiro da minha nova auto-confian\u00e7a e sucesso. <\/strong><\/p>\n No in\u00edcio, estava sempre a recusar as suas ofertas e a fugir dos seus olhares, porque estava muito interessada em mim pr\u00f3pria e na minha rec\u00e9m-conquistada independ\u00eancia e confian\u00e7a.<\/p>\n O facto de eu ser inacess\u00edvel para eles tornava-os ainda mais loucos por mim. <\/strong><\/p>\n But I wasn\u2019t playing the ice queen actually. I was still afraid that they were going to hurt me and I was focusing on my job and my needs only. <\/strong><\/p>\n It lasted for a couple of months and then I fell in love again. I can\u2019t explain to you how suspicious I was in the beginning but he turned out to be the best thing that ever happened to me.<\/p>\n Ele compreende-me e apoia-me, admira-me e diz-me que sou a rapariga mais bonita de sempre, mesmo que tenha acabado de sair da cama e tenha mau h\u00e1lito.<\/p>\n Continuo a ser excelente no meu trabalho e na minha vida social porque tenho todo o apoio dele. E o sexo \u00e9 fant\u00e1stico.<\/strong><\/p>\n Talvez por ter esperado tanto tempo por algu\u00e9m especial.<\/strong><\/p>\n It had been more than two years that I had sex. The person I had been involved with hurt me really badly and I didn\u2019t let anyone approach me afterward. I felt disgusted and afraid. I also believed that he would repent and come back to me but he never did. 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