{"id":4170,"date":"2020-07-06T20:50:31","date_gmt":"2020-07-06T20:50:31","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/herway.net\/?p=4170"},"modified":"2022-02-23T10:44:35","modified_gmt":"2022-02-23T10:44:35","slug":"como-amar-uma-rapariga-quebrada-como-a-shell-te-ama-de-volta","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/como-amar-uma-rapariga-quebrada-como-a-shell-te-ama-de-volta\/","title":{"rendered":"Como amar uma rapariga quebrada e como ela o vai amar de volta"},"content":{"rendered":"

Amar uma rapariga destro\u00e7ada ser\u00e1 dif\u00edcil.<\/strong> I don\u2019t want to lie to you.<\/p>\n

Loving her, in fact, will be the hardest thing there is. It will require a lot of effort and many times you\u2019ll wonder if it\u2019s even worth it.<\/p>\n

The beautiful part about loving a broken-hearted girl is that only those who think it\u2019s worth it get to see a butterfly born from the cocoon.<\/p>\n

S\u00f3 aqueles que ficam por c\u00e1 tempo suficiente conseguem ver a beleza por detr\u00e1s do amor uma rapariga quebrada<\/a>.<\/p>\n

Amar uma rapariga quebrada ser\u00e1 cheio de inseguran\u00e7as e d\u00favidas<\/strong>Tamb\u00e9m, mas n\u00e3o s\u00f3, do seu lado.<\/p>\n

\"homem<\/p>\n

She\u2019ll have a hard time believing you\u2019ll stay.<\/p>\n

She\u2019ll have a hard time trusting you because her past made her insecure; because her past made her doubt every single thing there is.<\/p>\n

Ela tem um cora\u00e7\u00e3o fr\u00e1gil, o cora\u00e7\u00e3o de uma menina, insegura e inocente como uma flor delicada.<\/strong><\/p>\n

The easiest thing you could do right now is break her. She’d snap like a twig, aching silently…in peace…all alone.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Even if you say you\u2019ll stay, even when you promise you\u2019ll be different, even though you do your best to hug and kiss out each and every doubt she has from her bones, there will always be a small dose of fear that you might turn out to be the same as the person that broke her.<\/p>\n

\"homem<\/p>\n

Outrora uma bela exibi\u00e7\u00e3o de uma mulher forte, transformou-se agora numa rapariga assustada e t\u00edmida.<\/p>\n

A dor muda as pessoas <\/a>e, sem d\u00favida, mudou-a profundamente.<\/p>\n

Doubt will be haunting her, and she\u2019ll fight it, but there will be days when she won\u2019t be able to be brave anymore, and even though you do make her happy, she\u2019ll end up lying on her bedroom floor, crying her soul out because of the fear she feels.<\/p>\n

Talvez ningu\u00e9m o compreenda, mas o mundo dela \u00e9 um mundo cruel e frio para se viver.<\/p>\n

Few are those who could find the courage to live with and survive the emotional pain she’s feeling every minute of every hour of every day.<\/p>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

Sometimes, when you\u2019re with her, she won\u2019t be able to give you all she has<\/strong>. Sometimes, she\u2019ll fail to be the best version of herself.<\/p>\n

Por vezes she won’t be able to take it anymore <\/a>. Sometimes, she\u2019ll forget to smile. Sometimes, she will want to be alone. And then you\u2019ll know what\u2019s she thinking about.<\/p>\n

You\u2019ll try to fix her<\/strong>. Mas como consertar uma rapariga quebrada? Ser\u00e1 sequer poss\u00edvel?<\/p>\n

You\u2019ll try to make her do things that she isn\u2019t sure she wants, thinking you\u2019re helping.<\/p>\n

You\u2019ll try to make her be another version of herself, and you\u2019ll do your best to fix what broke her.<\/p>\n

\"casal<\/p>\n

Don\u2019t. That won\u2019t help. You\u2019ll only push her away. You can\u2019t fix her\u2014only she can do that.<\/p>\n

Ela \u00e9 a \u00fanica que pode pegar na sua vida fr\u00e1gil e ergu\u00ea-la das cinzas para a tornar mais forte do que nunca.<\/p>\n

Instead of wasting your energy on fixing her, why don\u2019t you try and love her<\/strong>? Use your words to make her believe you\u2019re staying.<\/p>\n

Then turn your words into actions, and actually show her you\u2019re staying.<\/p>\n

Show her you love her. Give her more than words. Give her hope. Give her hope in tomorrow. Give her hope that one day, she\u2019ll be complete again.<\/p>\n

\"casal<\/p>\n

Faz com que ela acredite que as suas cicatrizes v\u00e3o desaparecer. E quando fizeres tudo isto,   don\u2019t let her go. <\/a><\/p>\n

Make her a part of the story of your life\u2014a story with a happy ending for the both of you, especially her.<\/p>\n

Se lhe mostrar que confia nela e se lhe der espa\u00e7o para confiar em si, ela vai am\u00e1-lo como nunca ningu\u00e9m o amou antes. Ela vai amar-te de forma diferente.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Ela sabe o que merece.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Despite everything she’s been through, she is still a rapariga rom\u00e2ntica <\/a> no fundo.<\/p>\n

And although she’s still a bit scared to sail on the sea of love, she will try once again because she’s not a quitter.<\/p>\n

\"jovem<\/p>\n

S\u00f3 que, desta vez, os seus olhos estar\u00e3o bem abertos e todos os seus sentidos estar\u00e3o prontos para sentir o perigo.<\/p>\n

At the first sign of possible heartbreak, she will be out! This time, this lucky broken girl knows how much she’s worth.<\/p>\n

This time, she’s aware of how strong she is.<\/strong><\/p>\n

She won’t allow tears of pain to touch her face anymore. She won’t cry because she’s helpless, alone, and hurt!<\/p>\n

Ela s\u00f3 consegue chorar de felicidade e orgulho. Conseguiu levantar-se, apanhar os peda\u00e7os da sua vida despeda\u00e7ada e seguir em frente. Ela n\u00e3o sabia que tinha isso em si.<\/p>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

If you want her to love her, you’ll have to respect her strength and her stubbornness. She was once burnt because she trusted someone.<\/p>\n

She has lost her strength because she gave herself to someone else. Don’t expect her to do the same this time, too.<\/p>\n

Ela \u00e9 cautelosa.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Her shields are up all the time because she’s not quite sure what to feel. She can hold you up one moment and move you away from her the other.<\/p>\n

She only does this because she’s scared you’ll hurt her, so she tries to jump ahead of you by ‘removing’ you from her life before something bad happens to her.<\/p>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

She’s not lying about why she does it. She is very honest when it comes to her feelings and her reasons.<\/p>\n

She is keeping her guard up for one simple reason\u2014she’s been hurt like hell before and she’s not hiding it.<\/p>\n

Ela luta as suas pr\u00f3prias batalhas.<\/p>\n

Honestly, it’s pretty challenging to keep up with her. It’s challenging to understand her all of the time. But, it’s all worth her love.<\/p>\n

She isn’t needy, and she’s not annoying.<\/p>\n

Pelo contr\u00e1rio, ela nunca o incomodar\u00e1 com os seus problemas, porque trava as suas batalhas sozinha.<\/p>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

Sometimes her independence will bother you because she will keep everything to herself. You’ll have to drag everything out of her because she won’t say it to you all by herself.<\/p>\n

When she’s hurting, she backs down.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Maybe her hurting has nothing to do with you, so don’t make a big deal out of it.<\/p>\n

Don’t pressure her into confessing what is wrong with her, never get her in that situation because you’re only going to make things worse.<\/p>\n

Quando ela se torna escura e se retira, \u00e9 preciso ter cuidado. Nestas situa\u00e7\u00f5es, a paci\u00eancia \u00e9 a chave <\/a>.<\/p>\n

Deixa-a estar. Deixa-a chorar as l\u00e1grimas que se est\u00e3o a for\u00e7ar a sair.<\/p>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

Don’t let her keep her pain inside her, and don’t force her to open up to you. She will do that all by herself. There is no need for you to pressure her into doing anything.<\/p>\n

Ela nunca te deixar\u00e1 ir.<\/strong><\/p>\n

She has found love in you after a devastating heartbreak. Do you really think she’s going to give up on you at the first sign of trouble?<\/p>\n

She would never do that because you already know she’s a fighter, and she doesn’t give up.<\/p>\n

Ela far\u00e1 tudo o que estiver ao seu alcance para o manter, mas poder\u00e1 interpretar as suas inten\u00e7\u00f5es de forma errada.<\/p>\n

Ela \u00e9 diferente de todos os que te amaram at\u00e9 agora. Ela faz as coisas de forma diferente e ama de forma diferente.<\/p>\n

\"jovem<\/p>\n

Maybe you won’t recognize her fighting for you in the beginning, but believe me, she is.<\/p>\n

Ela nunca desistir\u00e1 do amor.<\/strong><\/p>\n

She will always have faith in love. Whether she’s left with just a few pieces of her broken heart, she will use them to love someone again.<\/p>\n

She will be scared, she will be terrified to the bone, but she will go for it anyway. It’s because she has faith and she believes. She will never stop believing.<\/p>\n

Fica o tempo suficiente para ver o casulo a transformar-se numa bela borboleta. Fique o tempo suficiente para ver a beleza por tr\u00e1s de amar uma garota quebrada.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Porque todas as mulheres t\u00eam uma beleza tremenda, mas as que est\u00e3o quebradas escondem a sua beleza.<\/strong><\/p>\n

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