{"id":4194,"date":"2020-02-28T08:59:08","date_gmt":"2020-02-28T08:59:08","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/herway.net\/?p=4194"},"modified":"2022-01-09T17:22:40","modified_gmt":"2022-01-09T17:22:40","slug":"10-sinais-de-obsessao","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/10-sinais-de-obsessao\/","title":{"rendered":"Sinais de obsess\u00e3o: 10 sinais de que ele \u00e9 perigosamente obsessivo, n\u00e3o apaixonado"},"content":{"rendered":"

Os sinais de obsess\u00e3o s\u00e3o f\u00e1ceis de detetar? \u00c9 realmente fant\u00e1stico quando temos algu\u00e9m especial ao nosso lado, algu\u00e9m de quem gostamos verdadeiramente e que gosta de n\u00f3s.<\/p>\n

\u00c9 fant\u00e1stico quando o homem da nossa vida \u00e9 tudo aquilo com que sonh\u00e1mos e nos d\u00e1 todo o seu amor e apoio.<\/p>\n

Mas h\u00e1 pessoas que podem facilmente ficar obcecadas pelo seu parceiro e transformar o seu amor num amor obsessivo.<\/p>\n

Tornam-se aqueles que os perseguem, que os fantasmatizam, que os sufocam.<\/p>\n

The ones who don\u2019t let them have their free time or spend some time with family members and friends.<\/p>\n

H\u00e1 rapazes que agem de forma bastante normal no in\u00edcio de uma rela\u00e7\u00e3o, mas depois, por alguma raz\u00e3o, come\u00e7am a ser controladores.<\/p>\n

\"homem<\/p>\n

They start to manipulate, convincing their partners that they don\u2019t need anyone and that they are the only person they need in their life. Those men can be very dangerous because what they feel is not love.<\/p>\n

They are some of the extreme cases where love turns into an obsessive relationship and the other person in it has no idea she’s dealing with an obsessed person.<\/p>\n

If you have a partner who was normal at the beginning of your relationship but who changed over time and he doesn\u2019t make you feel good now, deix\u00e1-lo<\/a>. Your relationship with him won\u2019t get any better.<\/p>\n

It will only get worse. And the worst thing is that you can\u2019t do anything about that.<\/p>\n

You can\u2019t change him. Only he can change his obsessive behavior if he decides it is time for that.<\/p>\n

Se n\u00e3o tem a certeza se o seu homem est\u00e1 obcecado por si, eis alguns sinais de alerta de amor obsessivo:<\/p>\n

Ele \u00e9 demasiado pegajoso<\/h2>\n

\"casal<\/p>\n

Sei que \u00e9 agrad\u00e1vel quando ele passa muito tempo consigo no in\u00edcio da vossa rela\u00e7\u00e3o.<\/p>\n

Mas quando \u00e9 demasiado, \u00e9 simplesmente demasiado. Ele tem de compreender que tem a sua pr\u00f3pria vida e que, por vezes, pode ter vontade de ficar sozinha.<\/p>\n

Todos n\u00f3s precisamos de algum tempo a s\u00f3s e de tempo que possamos passar apenas com os nossos amigos e fam\u00edlia.<\/p>\n

A guy who doesn\u2019t want to accept your relationships with your friends and family probably has mental health issues connected to obsessive-compulsive behavior.<\/p>\n

Esse tipo de rela\u00e7\u00e3o n\u00e3o \u00e9 saud\u00e1vel, por isso \u00e9 melhor queimar as pontes entre os dois antes que seja tarde demais.<\/p>\n

A \u00faltima coisa de que precisa \u00e9 de uma baixa autoestima seguida de um cora\u00e7\u00e3o partido e de uma alma desfeita em milh\u00f5es de peda\u00e7os!<\/p>\n

Ele bombardeia-te com mensagens<\/h2>\n

\"homem<\/p>\n

It is sweet to get a \u2018good morning\u2019 message from your sweetheart but if he keeps texting you every fifteen minutes, it is a little bit pushy.<\/p>\n

Ele precisa de compreender que n\u00e3o \u00e9 o centro do seu mundo e que h\u00e1 muitas coisas a acontecer na sua vida.<\/p>\n

He can spend time with his friends or family as well. He can find a hobby or do something that fulfills him. But he can\u2019t suffocate you in that way.<\/p>\n

Se ele continuar a fazer isso, sentir-se-\u00e1 mal nessa rela\u00e7\u00e3o e desejar\u00e1 nunca o ter conhecido.<\/p>\n

It is okay to send you a message while you are at work to ask something important but asking you about some things that don\u2019t matter simply doesn\u2019t make any sense.<\/p>\n

Answering all those texts will take a lot of time, especially if he’s bombarding you on social media as well, and you won\u2019t be able to focus on your work.<\/p>\n

That is why you need to set some boundaries because if you don\u2019t do it now, you will have problems later.<\/p>\n

And if he can\u2019t understand that, then he is not worthy of your love and your love is not healthy love.<\/p>\n

S\u00f3 um homem que a compreenda e que saiba que est\u00e1 a trabalhar arduamente \u00e9 que nunca lhe far\u00e1 uma coisa destas.<\/p>\n

Tu \u00e9s o seu modelo<\/h2>\n

\"homem<\/p>\n

\u00c9 \u00f3timo quando se \u00e9 um modelo a seguir para algu\u00e9m, mas \u00e9 um pouco estranho quando o seu homem lhe diz isso depois do primeiro encontro. Isso \u00e9 um sinal gritante de transtorno obsessivo-compulsivo.<\/p>\n

I mean, come on, he hasn\u2019t gotten to know you well yet\u2014how can he judge a book by its cover? His behavior is showing pure infatuation, mixed with obsession.<\/p>\n

Se se encontrar numa situa\u00e7\u00e3o como esta, pense duas vezes se ele \u00e9 o homem com quem quer ter um segundo encontro ou at\u00e9 mesmo passar a sua vida.<\/p>\n

It is just a sign that he doesn\u2019t have any life experience and that he doesn\u2019t know anything about love.<\/p>\n

Enquanto estiver com ele, deve sentir-se bem na sua pr\u00f3pria pele, mas se n\u00e3o se sentir assim, talvez ele n\u00e3o seja a pessoa certa e deva acabar com ele.<\/p>\n

Tenha em conta que precisa de ter um homem que seja totalmente independente e n\u00e3o algu\u00e9m que venha ter consigo para resolver todos os problemas que tem.<\/p>\n

Se o rejeitarem, ele fica zangado<\/h2>\n

\"homem<\/p>\n

Este \u00e9 um dos sinais mais comuns de que ele est\u00e1 obcecado por si.<\/p>\n

He just can\u2019t understand that, \u201cNo,\u201d means, \u201cNo.\u201d And he needs to understand that.<\/p>\n

If you are not feeling like doing something, he can\u2019t just think about himself only.<\/p>\n

He needs to let you go to do things in your own way. That is a good thing and we all need it, even if we are in a relationship. Your free time is what you need and what you deserve so don\u2019t let a guy tell you what you have to do.<\/p>\n

Isso n\u00e3o \u00e9 bom nem saud\u00e1vel, pelo que \u00e9 necess\u00e1rio estabelecer algumas regras se quiser que a sua rela\u00e7\u00e3o dure.<\/p>\n

No matter how much he says that he loves you, he won\u2019t admit that he is wrong.<\/p>\n

If you catch yourself in a situation like this, try to talk to him in a normal and calm way. If that doesn\u2019t work, I guess ele n\u00e3o \u00e9 o homem certo para si<\/a>!<\/p>\n

Bu, don’t worry, there are a lot of people out there who are your perfect match and most importantly, are ready to make you the object of their affection\u2014but in a healthy way.<\/p>\n

Ele diz que se mata se o deixares<\/h2>\n

\"vista<\/p>\n

Oh, that sneaky bastard! He is just blackmailing you because he knows that you love him and that you won\u2019t let him do any harm to himself. He is not the kind of man you need in your life.<\/p>\n

Se ele faz isso no in\u00edcio da vossa rela\u00e7\u00e3o, pode imaginar o que far\u00e1 quando as coisas se tornarem s\u00e9rias.<\/p>\n

He needs to know that he can\u2019t do that to you and later tell you he loves you. That is not love, it is manipulation and it is not healthy.<\/p>\n

Ele \u00e9 apenas um idiota manipulador<\/a> que tenta manter-te perto e sugar toda a tua energia positiva.<\/p>\n

The truth is that he doesn\u2019t have the guts to kill himself and all those stories are just a show for you.<\/p>\n

Espero que sejas suficientemente inteligente para n\u00e3o acreditares nesta merda, porque um ente querido nunca diria uma coisa dessas. As coisas que ele diz e faz s\u00e3o pura treta!<\/p>\n

Ele persegue-te<\/h2>\n

\"homem<\/p>\n

Este \u00e9 um sinal ineg\u00e1vel de que ele est\u00e1 obcecado por si<\/a>. Ele vai verificar-te no trabalho, vai sem ser convidado \u00e0s festas que tens com as raparigas e diz que foi apenas uma coincid\u00eancia.<\/p>\n

Deixa-te de tretas! Este gajo \u00e9 um perseguidor e faz isso porque \u00e9 louco. Primeiro come\u00e7a com coisas pequenas, depois torna-se maior e mais s\u00e9rio.<\/p>\n

Deveria pensar duas vezes se ele \u00e9 o tipo de homem que quer na sua vida.<\/p>\n

Let\u2019s be honest, the situation can only get worse, to the point where you should be seriously considering getting a restraining order. It’s usually how these relationships end.<\/p>\n

Ele insiste que \u00e9 a sua alma g\u00e9mea<\/h2>\n

\"casal<\/p>\n

Um homem que fala de casamento e filhos depois do primeiro encontro n\u00e3o \u00e9 uma pessoa mentalmente saud\u00e1vel.<\/p>\n

Okay, we have all daydreamed about our wedding day with some hot dude we saw on the street but to actually go up to that person and start talking about it, that\u2019s insane!<\/p>\n

He doesn\u2019t care how that makes you feel, because in his head it\u2019s a completely normal thing to do.<\/p>\n

He \u2018knows\u2019 that you\u2019re the one for him, he has to be the one for you, right? Hell no! This is one of the most disturbing signs that he is obsessed with you.<\/p>\n

He created a scenario about the two of you in his head where everything is ideal but he forgot one thing\u2014to ask for your opinion.<\/p>\n

O que ele precisa de fazer \u00e9 organizar-se antes de perder uma rapariga fant\u00e1stica como tu.<\/p>\n

Ele verifica o seu telem\u00f3vel<\/h2>\n

\"fotografia<\/p>\n

Este \u00e9 um sinal de obsess\u00e3o, mas tamb\u00e9m \u00e9 um sinal de ambos inseguran\u00e7a e ci\u00fame<\/a>.<\/p>\n

Se ele ler as mensagens que enviou a outras pessoas, provavelmente s\u00f3 quer saber se gosta de outros homens, porque sabe que vai sempre contar ao seu melhor amigo tudo o que acontece na sua vida.<\/p>\n

Assim, ele aproveita o tempo em que n\u00e3o est\u00e1 por perto para mexer no seu telem\u00f3vel.<\/p>\n

He does not respect your privacy because in his head it\u2019s completely normal to share everything and he needs to know how you feel exactly and what you have been doing throughout the day.<\/p>\n

He is insecure and that is the only reason he does that to you. Well, that and because of the personality disorder he’s suffering from.<\/p>\n

Se alguma vez o apanhares a fazer isto, t\u00eam de se sentar e ter uma conversa longa e s\u00e9ria.<\/p>\n

He needs to know that you want a man who will love you and support you\u2014not an egomaniac who will freak out every single time you do something that he doesn\u2019t like!<\/p>\n

Maybe it will all stop with jealousy but what if he starts being abusive? What if he starts hitting you every time you don\u2019t do what he wants? These are the things you need to think about before it is too late.<\/p>\n

He says, \u201cYes,\u201d to everything you ask<\/h2>\n

\"casal<\/p>\n

It is a little bit boring when your man says, \u201cYes,\u201d to everything that you have to say.<\/p>\n

I am not saying that the two of you can\u2019t have the same opinion about something, I am just saying you can\u2019t do that all the time.<\/p>\n

After all, you are a woman and he is a man. It is normal that you don\u2019t think the same. That is what makes you unique as a couple!<\/p>\n

If you feel he doesn\u2019t want to say what he thinks just so you wouldn\u2019t get angry, it is a sign of obsession.<\/p>\n

A guy like this will put up with all the things he doesn\u2019t like about you and he will explode one day. And the only victim in all this will be you.<\/p>\n

I suggest you talk to him openly and tell him that he can be honest with you even if the two of you don\u2019t want the same thing. That is how problems are solved in healthy relationships.<\/p>\n

Ele est\u00e1 presente mesmo que o tratem mal<\/h2>\n

\"homem<\/p>\n

He won\u2019t get out of your life even if you treat him badly. He will stick around even if you tell him you need some time alone.<\/p>\n

He will call you, send you messages and buy you gifts. This is a sign that he doesn\u2019t have any self-respect and that he would do anything to be with you again, no matter how poorly you treat him.<\/p>\n

This is a big, red flag, a sign of obsession, so be prepared that you won\u2019t be able to get away from him so easily. If this is not a sign of mental illness, I don\u2019t know what is!<\/p>\n

\"Sinais<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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