{"id":41960,"date":"2019-08-09T12:34:19","date_gmt":"2019-08-09T12:34:19","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=41960"},"modified":"2021-08-11T13:05:45","modified_gmt":"2021-08-11T13:05:45","slug":"5-razoes-pelas-quais-um-narcisista-nao-pode-durar-muito-tempo-numa-relacao","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/5-razoes-pelas-quais-um-narcisista-nao-pode-durar-muito-tempo-numa-relacao\/","title":{"rendered":"5 raz\u00f5es pelas quais um narcisista n\u00e3o pode durar muito tempo numa rela\u00e7\u00e3o"},"content":{"rendered":"<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Entre uma infinidade de atributos indesej\u00e1veis, todos os narcisistas t\u00eam ainda outra coisa em comum. Quer tenham consci\u00eancia disso ou n\u00e3o, simplesmente n\u00e3o foram feitos para rela\u00e7\u00f5es duradouras.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Na sua mente distorcida, n\u00e3o h\u00e1 nada que possam fazer de errado. Se perguntarmos <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/relationship\/o-teu-rabo-narcisista-abusou-do-meu-amor-e-transformou-o-em-odio-por-ti-proprio\/\">o seu narcisista<\/a>, he would probably insist that his relationships with his family, friends and co-workers couldn\u2019t be better. When in fact, that couldn\u2019t be further from the truth.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">A narcissist\u2019s inability to empathize with other people and understand where the majority of their emotions come from makes it extremely challenging for them to form long-lasting, healthy relationships.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">They don\u2019t see it the way other people do but they lack in the emotional department and since they are unable (and unwilling) to go through the daily motions of the average Joe, they simply cannot last in a relationship.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Todos os narcisistas t\u00eam um modo de atua\u00e7\u00e3o semelhante. O seu comportamento pode ser facilmente previsto, porque eles fazem a sua cena num ciclo em todas as rela\u00e7\u00f5es rom\u00e2nticas. <\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">And that right there is the main cause of their romantic downfall. (Ironic, isn\u2019t it?)<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Due to this peculiar occurrence, it\u2019s easier to understand exactly why they cannot form relationships that can actually stand the test of time.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">They are the ones standing in their own way and if it wasn\u2019t for their manipulative behavioral patterns, their luck in love would perhaps increase! <\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Mas, felizmente para todas as mulheres, elas cumprem a sua agenda e eis exatamente como sabotam os seus esfor\u00e7os rom\u00e2nticos.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\">1. Os narcisistas tratam as pessoas (e os seus parceiros rom\u00e2nticos) como objectos<\/h2>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/08\/shutterstock_453509824.jpg\" alt=\"5 raz\u00f5es pelas quais um narcisista n\u00e3o pode durar muito tempo numa rela\u00e7\u00e3o\" class=\"wp-image-41967\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/08\/shutterstock_453509824.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/08\/shutterstock_453509824-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/08\/shutterstock_453509824-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/figure>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">As we are all already familiar with, narcissists cannot feel empathy, therefore have zero regard for other people\u2019s well-being. <\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">N\u00e3o podem cair <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/relationship\/5-coisas-que-o-homem-ama-loucamente\/\">loucamente apaixonado<\/a> the way you, I and the rest of the world can. They aren\u2019t wired that way.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">What they can do is fall for a person in an extremely unhealthy, obsessive manner, let their delusion of love overcome them and within days return to their \u2018normal\u2019 self who treats people like objects.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\"><li>They use their partner\u2019s emotions for their own gain and discard them when they no longer serve their purpose.<\/li><li>Esgotam a energia do seu parceiro e deixam-no vazio e com uma necessidade desesperada de recarga que nunca acontece.<\/li><li>Em vez de se comprometerem, tiram o que querem e n\u00e3o d\u00e3o nada, a n\u00e3o ser que isso fa\u00e7a sentido para o seu pr\u00f3prio lucro e para o seu pr\u00f3prio bem-estar.<\/li><\/ul>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\">2. Os narcisistas vivem a vida com a cabe\u00e7a nas nuvens<\/h2>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/08\/shutterstock_646467355.jpg\" alt=\"5 raz\u00f5es pelas quais um narcisista n\u00e3o pode durar muito tempo numa rela\u00e7\u00e3o\" class=\"wp-image-41972\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/08\/shutterstock_646467355.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/08\/shutterstock_646467355-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/08\/shutterstock_646467355-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/figure>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Narcissists don\u2019t care what\u2019s happening around them. They don\u2019t care what you think or feel. <\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">T\u00eam os seus pr\u00f3prios ideais particulares que est\u00e3o bastante desligados da realidade. T\u00eam objectivos demasiado altos e esperam muito, mas n\u00e3o querem oferecer nada.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Procuram um parceiro que sirva apenas como um acess\u00f3rio giro no seu bra\u00e7o. Querem que algu\u00e9m satisfa\u00e7a todas as suas necessidades, acreditando que t\u00eam todo o direito a isso. <\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">They don\u2019t care what you want. The only thing that matters is what they have imagined in their head and working on achieving it (no matter how delusional or far-fetched it is).<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\"><li>A narcissist doesn\u2019t make it easy on their partner. You will always look over your shoulder wondering if you did something wrong and how to make amends.<\/li><li>A sua constante insatisfa\u00e7\u00e3o consigo ir\u00e1 pregar-lhe partidas na mente e transform\u00e1-lo num pessimista cansado que perdeu o gosto pela vida.<\/li><li>Nunca far\u00e3o a sua parte para <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/relationship\/a-pessoa-certa-nao-te-vai-obrigar-a-passar-pelo-inferno-para-seres-feliz\/\">para ser feliz<\/a>. They will ALWAYS expect you to do that. You will be the one in charge of your narcissist\u2019s happiness and it will be extremely difficult living that way.<\/li><\/ul>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\">3. Os narcisistas n\u00e3o confiam em NINGU\u00c9M<\/h2>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/08\/shutterstock_1196195179.jpg\" alt=\"5 raz\u00f5es pelas quais um narcisista n\u00e3o pode durar muito tempo numa rela\u00e7\u00e3o\" class=\"wp-image-41973\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/08\/shutterstock_1196195179.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/08\/shutterstock_1196195179-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/08\/shutterstock_1196195179-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/figure>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">They don\u2019t put their trust in anyone\u2019s hands but their own. They see it as a weakness because they have never let themselves depend on anybody. <\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Unlike other people, who trust their nearest and dearest, narcissists don\u2019t have that luxury.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">They don\u2019t understand how people give away their trust that easily as it can backfire within seconds. And this is why their relationships end way too prematurely. <\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">A sua incapacidade de confiar no parceiro torna dif\u00edcil manter um envolvimento rom\u00e2ntico, uma vez que a confian\u00e7a \u00e9 o principal ingrediente de uma rela\u00e7\u00e3o amorosa saud\u00e1vel e feliz!<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\"><li>To them, trust equals vulnerability and they don\u2019t allow themselves to be weak. Not for their partner, not for anyone.<\/li><li>N\u00e3o conseguem ver que a confian\u00e7a aumenta a for\u00e7a de uma rela\u00e7\u00e3o e ajuda a construir a liga\u00e7\u00e3o e a aproximar duas pessoas.<\/li><li>Confiar nas pessoas significa depender delas e os narcisistas n\u00e3o dependem de ningu\u00e9m a n\u00e3o ser deles pr\u00f3prios.<\/li><\/ul>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\">4. Os narcisistas s\u00e3o demasiado controladores e manipuladores<\/h2>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/08\/shutterstock_1207123849.jpg\" alt=\"5 raz\u00f5es pelas quais um narcisista n\u00e3o pode durar muito tempo numa rela\u00e7\u00e3o\" class=\"wp-image-41977\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/08\/shutterstock_1207123849.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/08\/shutterstock_1207123849-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/08\/shutterstock_1207123849-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/figure>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Os narcisistas t\u00eam sempre de controlar as pessoas e as situa\u00e7\u00f5es em que se colocam. <\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Nunca se deixam ficar de fora, tendo de voltar a juntar as pe\u00e7as, porque est\u00e3o sempre em cima do acontecimento.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">E isto, juntamente com a sua necessidade de manipula\u00e7\u00e3o, faz com que seja dif\u00edcil para eles manterem uma rela\u00e7\u00e3o de compromisso com algu\u00e9m. <\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Far\u00e3o tudo o que estiver ao seu alcance para se apresentarem da melhor forma poss\u00edvel e atir\u00e1-lo-\u00e3o para debaixo do autocarro, se necess\u00e1rio. A sua necessidade de perfei\u00e7\u00e3o \u00e9 mais importante do que qualquer outra coisa.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\"><li>If a certain situation doesn\u2019t appear to be in their favor, they will make shit up and lie to get their desired outcome.<\/li><li>They don\u2019t respond well to being criticized, so they will resort to many manipulative tactics to drive their partner insane, such as being passive-aggressive and giving you <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/relationship\/7-formas-de-reagir-ao-tratamento-silencioso-na-sua-relacao\/\">o tratamento silencioso.<\/a><\/li><li>They never own up to their shit. The blame always falls on somebody else\u2019s shoulders and they will make sure never to be responsible for any shit they cause. They are masters of covering their tracks.<\/li><\/ul>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\">5. Os narcisistas podem tornar-se agressivos muito rapidamente<\/h2>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/08\/shutterstock_1245348004.jpg\" alt=\"5 raz\u00f5es pelas quais um narcisista n\u00e3o pode durar muito tempo numa rela\u00e7\u00e3o\" class=\"wp-image-41980\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/08\/shutterstock_1245348004.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/08\/shutterstock_1245348004-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/08\/shutterstock_1245348004-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/figure>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">If they don\u2019t have their way, they can turn violent just like that. Narcissists are known to be abusive to their partners and don\u2019t even recognize it as bad behavior. To them, you provoked them, therefore you got yours.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">If their partner doesn\u2019t please their every need, they may resort to domestic violence. And if your narcissist possesses any of these problematic traits, the chances of him turning hostile are higher than in any other situation:<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\"><li>O seu narcisista sofre de um ego fr\u00e1gil?<\/li><li>Ele tem o h\u00e1bito de usar as pessoas que lhe s\u00e3o pr\u00f3ximas para seu proveito ego\u00edsta?<\/li><li>Falta-lhe empatia?<\/li><li>Sente-se superior a si e a todos os que o rodeiam?<\/li><li>O seu comportamento \u00e9 assustador e muitas vezes dif\u00edcil de decifrar?<\/li><\/ul>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">If you have answered yes to the majority of these, it is probable that things may take a turn for the worse and sooner than you think. Don\u2019t let your fear keep you with him. If he hasn\u2019t shown signs of major aggression yet, take it as your chance to leave and never look back.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"683\" height=\"1024\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/08\/PINTEREST-2019-08-09T143307.863-683x1024.jpg\" alt=\"5 raz\u00f5es pelas quais um narcisista n\u00e3o pode durar muito tempo numa rela\u00e7\u00e3o\" class=\"wp-image-41992\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/08\/PINTEREST-2019-08-09T143307.863-683x1024.jpg 683w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/08\/PINTEREST-2019-08-09T143307.863-200x300.jpg 200w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/08\/PINTEREST-2019-08-09T143307.863.jpg 735w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 683px) 100vw, 683px\" \/><\/figure>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Among a multitude of undesirable attributes, all narcissists have yet another thing in common. Whether they are aware of it or not, they are simply not made for long-term relationships. In their twisted mind, there is nothing they can do wrong. If you asked your narcissist, he would probably insist that his relationships with his&#8230;<\/p>","protected":false},"author":21,"featured_media":41989,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29633],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-41960","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-narcissism"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29633,"label":"narcissism"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/08\/shutterstock_1064722256.jpg",800,534,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Maria Parker","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/author\/maria\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29633,"name":"narcissism","slug":"narcissism","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29633,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Mind games and manipulations are narcissist's favorite controlling tactics. 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