{"id":42199,"date":"2019-08-19T11:55:32","date_gmt":"2019-08-19T11:55:32","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=42199"},"modified":"2021-09-08T09:51:41","modified_gmt":"2021-09-08T09:51:41","slug":"e-assim-que-se-age-no-amor-com-base-no-seu-estilo-de-ligacao","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/e-assim-que-se-age-no-amor-com-base-no-seu-estilo-de-ligacao\/","title":{"rendered":"\u00c9 assim que voc\u00ea age no amor, com base no seu estilo de apego"},"content":{"rendered":"

Um estilo de vincula\u00e7\u00e3o \u00e9 um padr\u00e3o de comportamento que se apresenta em rela\u00e7\u00e3o aos outros e a forma como se vincula aos seus entes queridos. \u00c9 a forma como actua nas suas amizades e rela\u00e7\u00f5es rom\u00e2nticas e familiares.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

O estudo original dos estilos de vincula\u00e7\u00e3o incidia principalmente sobre a rela\u00e7\u00e3o entre as crian\u00e7as e os pais, mas mais tarde os especialistas aperceberam-se de que as rela\u00e7\u00f5es entre adultos tamb\u00e9m funcionam de forma semelhante.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Existem quatro destes estilos e todos n\u00f3s temos um que \u00e9 predominante e que dita o nosso comportamento em rela\u00e7\u00e3o \u00e0s pessoas importantes nas nossas vidas.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Fixa\u00e7\u00e3o segura<\/strong><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
\"\u00c9<\/figure>\n\n\n\n

Se pertence a este estilo de vincula\u00e7\u00e3o, o mais importante nas rela\u00e7\u00f5es rom\u00e2nticas \u00e9 a seguran\u00e7a. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

You would never let in someone you\u2019re not sure about or someone who can\u2019t give you the security you crave in your heart.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

You don\u2019t look for butterflies and excitement because you know true love is more than that. You don\u2019t need passion which will overwhelm you, just so it could fade away.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u00c9 suficientemente maduro para escolher sempre o amor permanente sobre a lux\u00faria tempor\u00e1ria<\/a>. Saber que a intimidade \u00e9 muito mais do que a a\u00e7\u00e3o vaporosa no quarto.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Instead of searching for love at first sight, you\u2019re looking for a person whose love will feel like home. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Algu\u00e9m que seja o teu companheiro de vida, algu\u00e9m que te acalme e algu\u00e9m que seja o teu porto de abrigo nas tempestades mais dif\u00edceis.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Quando se trata de si, tudo acontece gradualmente. Quando se conhece a pessoa que fica para sempre, n\u00e3o h\u00e1 fogo de artif\u00edcio nem dramas desnecess\u00e1rios.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

In fact, you fall in love while getting to know your partner. You don\u2019t have a desire to change them and their qualities attract you, one by one.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Embora alguns possam considerar este tipo de hist\u00f3ria de amor aborrecido, a verdade \u00e9 que rela\u00e7\u00f5es como estas duram muitas vezes uma vida inteira.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Vincula\u00e7\u00e3o insegura e evitante<\/strong><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
\"\u00c9<\/figure>\n\n\n\n

Contrary to the previous attachment style, you usually let your insecurities take over you when you\u2019re in a romantic relationship.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Inconscientemente, no passado, desenvolveu uma tend\u00eancia para se apaixonar por homens emocionalmente indispon\u00edveis. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

For men who couldn\u2019t have given you the love you deserved and who didn\u2019t have the emotional capacities you needed.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Por isso, ensinado por experi\u00eancias dolorosas anteriores, tem dificuldade em formar proximidade emocional em qualquer rela\u00e7\u00e3o e especialmente nas rom\u00e2nticas. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

With time, you concluded that men won\u2019t respond to your feelings, so you\u2019ve learned to repress them.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Now, you have trouble letting people in all the way. You\u2019ve tornar-se cauteloso<\/a> e construiu muros \u00e0 volta do seu cora\u00e7\u00e3o que mant\u00eam todos os intrusos fora.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

After all the disappointments you\u2019ve experienced, you\u2019ve learned that the only way to protect yourself is to remain a careful and closed person and never to allow someone new to crush you.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Vincula\u00e7\u00e3o ambivalente\/ansiosa<\/strong><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
\"\u00c9<\/figure>\n\n\n\n

As pessoas que pertencem a este estilo de vincula\u00e7\u00e3o s\u00e3o normalmente dependentes emocionalmente das pessoas que fazem parte das suas vidas, especialmente dos seus parceiros rom\u00e2nticos. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Quando se apaixona, o seu homem torna-se o centro do seu mundo e a \u00fanica causa da sua exist\u00eancia.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

The fear of him leaving you takes over you completely and you\u2019re ready to do whatever it takes to prevent that from happening. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

De repente, tornamo-nos numa pessoa que agrada \u00e0s pessoas e mudamos a ess\u00eancia da nossa personalidade, s\u00f3 para que esse tipo goste mais de n\u00f3s.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Quer evitar a rejei\u00e7\u00e3o e o abandono a todo o custo e as inseguran\u00e7as e medos que lhe est\u00e3o associados fazem-no sentir-se carente e agarrado. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

You are concerned that you\u2019re the one who loves more and the only one fighting for your relationship.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Vincula\u00e7\u00e3o desorganizada<\/strong><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
\"\u00c9<\/figure>\n\n\n\n

The name says it all\u2014you\u2019re unpredictable and it usually appears that you don\u2019t even know what you want. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Your actions are often confusing for your partner and it appears that your behavior doesn\u2019t make any sense or have any order.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Not only that\u2014you\u2019re also considered a real drama queen in all of your relationships. You enjoy the chase and playing hot and cold games.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Tens o h\u00e1bito de fingir que \u00e9s dif\u00edcil de obter<\/a>, just to test your partner\u2019s love for you.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Naturalmente, tudo isto leva a uma montanha russa de emo\u00e7\u00f5es. Isso leva a uma rela\u00e7\u00e3o rom\u00e2ntica turbulenta, que no in\u00edcio parece uma liga\u00e7\u00e3o apaixonada, mas que acaba por ser um verdadeiro pesadelo.<\/p>\n\n\n\n\n\n

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An attachment style is a pattern of behavior you display in relation to others and the way you attach to your loved ones. It is the way you act in your friendships and romantic and family relationships. The original study of attachment styles was primarily about a children-parents relationship but later on, experts realized that…<\/p>","protected":false},"author":53,"featured_media":42205,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29614],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-42199","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-love-talks"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29614,"label":"love talks"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/08\/shutterstock_1163227696.jpg",800,534,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Ariel Quinn","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/author\/ariel\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29614,"name":"love talks","slug":"love-talks","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29614,"taxonomy":"category","description":"What is love? How does it affect us? How to know someone loves you or show someone you love them? What types of love are there? Learn all that and much more.","parent":38,"count":426,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29614,"category_count":426,"category_description":"What is love? How does it affect us? How to know someone loves you or show someone you love them? What types of love are there? Learn all that and much more.","cat_name":"love talks","category_nicename":"love-talks","category_parent":38}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/42199","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/53"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=42199"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/42199\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/42205"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=42199"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=42199"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=42199"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}