{"id":4245,"date":"2017-09-08T13:58:55","date_gmt":"2017-09-08T13:58:55","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/herway.net\/?p=4245"},"modified":"2021-08-12T12:36:35","modified_gmt":"2021-08-12T12:36:35","slug":"merecem-uma-relacao-sem-paixao","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/merecem-uma-relacao-sem-paixao\/","title":{"rendered":"Mereces muito mais do que uma rela\u00e7\u00e3o sem paix\u00e3o"},"content":{"rendered":"

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\u201cDo it with passion or not at all!\u201d <\/span><\/i>\u00a0( Rosa Nouchette Carey)<\/span><\/p>\n

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Isto aplica-se a todas as coisas na vida, especialmente \u00e0s rela\u00e7\u00f5es. Quando fazemos as coisas com paix\u00e3o, fazemo-las com uma sensa\u00e7\u00e3o de alegria e satisfa\u00e7\u00e3o e com uma facilidade incr\u00edvel. <\/span><\/p>\n

Por que raz\u00e3o haveria de o fazer de outra forma? <\/span><\/i><\/p>\n

Quando se pensa na rela\u00e7\u00e3o perfeita, provavelmente as principais coisas que nos v\u00eam \u00e0 cabe\u00e7a s\u00e3o o amor, a honestidade, o empenho e a paix\u00e3o. O melhor seria a harmonia e o equil\u00edbrio entre estes componentes. De alguma forma, ao longo do tempo, as rela\u00e7\u00f5es come\u00e7aram a carecer de alguns dos componentes, e a paix\u00e3o parece ser aquele que a maioria das pessoas parece ignorar t\u00e3o facilmente. <\/span><\/p>\n

Porqu\u00ea? <\/span><\/i><\/p>\n

Est\u00e3o a racionalizar demasiado. Est\u00e3o a contentar-se com menos. <\/span><\/p>\n

Entram numa rela\u00e7\u00e3o ou permanecem nela porque ele \u00e9 bom para elas; ele \u00e9 geralmente bom; nunca encontrar\u00e3o algu\u00e9m que as trate t\u00e3o bem como ele; ele ama-as mais do que tudo, etc. <\/span><\/p>\n

O erro aqui \u00e9 que est\u00e3o demasiado concentrados no que algu\u00e9m pode fazer por eles e n\u00e3o tanto no seu lado da hist\u00f3ria. Apreciam os benef\u00edcios e o facto de n\u00e3o terem de devolver muito do seu lado porque o outro lado est\u00e1 a dar mais. Assim, acabam por ficar presos numa situa\u00e7\u00e3o desagrad\u00e1vel. <\/span><\/p>\n

Contentam-se com o bom em vez de procurarem o \u00f3timo. <\/span><\/p>\n

Confundem<\/span><\/i> \u201clove\u201d<\/i><\/b> e \u00a0<\/span><\/i>\u201cin love\u201d.<\/i><\/b><\/a><\/p>\n

We can love somebody without being in love with them. That \u201cin love\u201d feeling is made from our passion. And love is what you can feel toward your friends and family, too. When it comes to relationships, it is a different, more consuming kind of love. <\/span><\/p>\n

Esfor\u00e7amo-nos por ter esse sentimento de amor verdadeiro, altru\u00edsta e impensado. O amor e o estar apaixonado devem andar lado a lado ou n\u00e3o temos nada. Acabamos por ficar em rela\u00e7\u00f5es que nos d\u00e3o conforto e uma sensa\u00e7\u00e3o de seguran\u00e7a <\/span>mas nunca aquela sensa\u00e7\u00e3o de fogo de artif\u00edcio que ilumina o c\u00e9u e aquela sensa\u00e7\u00e3o de estar loucamente apaixonado. <\/i><\/b><\/p>\n

Even though we may give more emphasis to security and emotions, we shouldn\u2019t exclude passion. Passion in the sense of attraction and sex drive is a crucial part of the relationship.<\/span><\/p>\n

We can\u2019t exclude that drive that pulls us to another person. At least, we shouldn\u2019t exclude it. Without it, you might start regarding your partner as just your friend, when in fact, he should be both your friend and your lover.<\/span><\/p>\n

Com o tempo, as pessoas que se acomodam podem sentir-se incompletas e insatisfeitas. Come\u00e7am a perguntar-se,<\/span> \u201cWhat would happen if I waited for something real?\u201d <\/span><\/i>\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n

Em suma, \u00e9 dif\u00edcil generalizar. Os aspectos do amor e da paix\u00e3o s\u00e3o diferentes para cada indiv\u00edduo. Para algumas pessoas, a paix\u00e3o \u00e9 uma parte vital da rela\u00e7\u00e3o amorosa, para outras nem tanto. \u00a0\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n

S\u00f3 tu podes decidir o que \u00e9 que realmente queres e don\u2019t settle for anything less. <\/a><\/b><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

  \u201cDo it with passion or not at all!\u201d \u00a0( Rosa Nouchette Carey)   This goes for all things in life, especially relationships. When you do things with passion, you do it with that sense of joy and fulfillment and incredible ease. Why would you want to do it any other way? When you think…<\/p>","protected":false},"author":25,"featured_media":4246,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29622],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-4245","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-relationship-advice"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29622,"label":"relationship advice"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/09\/ayo-ogunseinde-324306-1.jpg",800,533,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Amy Nicholson","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/author\/amy\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29622,"name":"relationship advice","slug":"relationship-advice","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29622,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Making all aspects of your relationship work is one of the biggest challenges. Here, you can find advice for most of the issues you might encounter. ","parent":29620,"count":544,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29622,"category_count":544,"category_description":"Making all aspects of your relationship work is one of the biggest challenges. Here, you can find advice for most of the issues you might encounter. ","cat_name":"relationship advice","category_nicename":"relationship-advice","category_parent":29620}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/4245","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/25"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=4245"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/4245\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/4246"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=4245"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=4245"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=4245"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}