{"id":42450,"date":"2019-08-29T12:01:51","date_gmt":"2019-08-29T12:01:51","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=42450"},"modified":"2021-08-11T12:55:27","modified_gmt":"2021-08-11T12:55:27","slug":"quero-um-namorado-15-maneiras-comprovadas-de-encontrar-o-homem-certo","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/quero-um-namorado-15-maneiras-comprovadas-de-encontrar-o-homem-certo\/","title":{"rendered":"Quero um namorado: 15 maneiras comprovadas de encontrar o homem certo"},"content":{"rendered":"

In today\u2019s world, everywhere you look, you hear girls saying: I don\u2019t want a boyfriend<\/em>. V\u00eaem-se raparigas a desfrutar da sua vida de solteiras, sem planear mud\u00e1-la por causa de um homem.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

However, you\u2019re different. You\u2019re tired of being alone and you think it\u2019s time to find someone to share your life with.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

As one of the most famous I want a boyfriend quotes says: you\u2019re not desperate, you just want a boyfriend because you\u2019re sick of sitting back and watching everybody else fall in love.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

You want someone to wake up next to every morning, someone to text you on a regular basis, someone to understand you, someone to kiss you\u2026 You want someone you will love and someone to love you back.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Well, if this is something you can relate to, you\u2019ve come to the right place because we\u2019re about to help you find a boyfriend the easiest way possible. Just follow this step-by-step guide and you\u2019ll have your dream guy in no time.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

1. Descobrir o que se pretende<\/strong><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
\"Quero<\/figure>\n\n\n\n

Antes de fazer qualquer coisa, h\u00e1 algumas perguntas que deve fazer a si pr\u00f3prio.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Quero um namorado? <\/p>\n\n\n\n

If the answer is no, why don\u2019t I want a boyfriend? Am I scared of rejection or am I really good on my own?<\/p>\n\n\n\n

No entanto, se a resposta for sim, ent\u00e3o porque \u00e9 que eu quero tanto um namorado?<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Ser\u00e1 que quero um namorado s\u00f3 por ter um ou estou pronta para partilhar a minha vida com outra pessoa? Estarei a tentar fazer ci\u00fames a algu\u00e9m do meu passado?<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Quero o meu ex-namorado de volta ou estou pronta para conhecer algu\u00e9m novo?<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Once you answer all of these questions, it\u2019s time to set your standards. I\u2019m not advising you to be extra picky, but it is crucial to know what you want and what you\u2019re looking for before trying to get it.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Se tem dificuldade em perceber quais as qualidades que procura num homem, escreva o seu factores de rutura<\/a> e desejos numa folha de papel. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

This doesn\u2019t guarantee you that you\u2019ll find exact perfect man, but at least you\u2019ll have some kind of framework to help you with your search.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Outra op\u00e7\u00e3o \u00e9 colocar-se em frente ao espelho e repetir o seguinte:<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Quero um namorado que me ame, me respeite e me trate como eu mere\u00e7o. Quero mesmo um namorado que me compreenda e me aceite como sou. O que eu quero num namorado \u00e9 um amante e um amigo, tudo num s\u00f3.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Of course, you can always add some other qualities that are important for you personally. Either way, what\u2019s crucial is to verbalize the characteristics you\u2019re searching for and stick with it, no matter what.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

2. And don’t settle for less<\/strong><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
\"Quero<\/figure>\n\n\n\n

Como j\u00e1 foi dito, ser demasiado exigente no que diz respeito aos homens e ter padr\u00f5es elevados s\u00e3o duas coisas diferentes. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Por muito que queira melhorar a sua vida amorosa, encontrar o seu pr\u00edncipe encantado e envolver-se numa rela\u00e7\u00e3o s\u00e9ria, a \u00faltima coisa que deve pensar em fazer \u00e9 contentar-se com menos do que merece.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Infelizmente, quando come\u00e7am a sentir que o seu tempo est\u00e1 a acabar, muitas mulheres solteiras t\u00eam o h\u00e1bito de se envolverem com o primeiro homem que aparece, por medo da solid\u00e3o.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Please, don\u2019t make that mistake \u2013 you\u2019ll only worsen things. Just because your love life is on pause right now, it doesn\u2019t mean that you should be with someone who doesn\u2019t meet your needs or isn\u2019t compatible with you.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Don\u2019t forget that it\u2019s always better to permanecer solteiro at\u00e9 aparecer o homem certo<\/a>.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

3. Ser realista<\/strong><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
\"Quero<\/figure>\n\n\n\n

Outra coisa importante que deve ter em conta quando procura a pessoa certa \u00e9 ser realista quanto \u00e0s suas pr\u00f3prias qualidades e expectativas. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Be aware of your own worth \u2013 don\u2019t underestimate yourself, but don\u2019t try going out of your league either.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

All of us have an idea of our prince charming and you\u2019re no exception. However, that doesn\u2019t mean that you\u2019ll necessarily find this man in all of his perfection.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

O que \u00e9 importante \u00e9 encontrar a pessoa certa para si: algu\u00e9m cujas imperfei\u00e7\u00f5es se coadunem com as suas.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

4. Refor\u00e7ar a sua confian\u00e7a<\/strong><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
\"Quero<\/figure>\n\n\n\n

I won\u2019t lie to you, physical appearance is the first thing every man notices about a girl. That said, if you don\u2019t have charisma or some kind of X factor, all of your looks are in vain.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Before going out on a first date with a new guy you\u2019ve met, you have to feel confident in your skin (and your body language should show it) if you want things to work out. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

This might sound clich\u00e9d, but you really have to learn how to love yourself before you try to find love elsewhere.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

I\u2019m not advising you to become cocky or egocentric, but this guy has to see that you\u2019re a woman who feels good about herself and is certain in her qualities. That you are perfectly fine on your own and not desperate to find a life partner.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

This man has to realize that you know exactly what you want, that he can\u2019t diminish o seu valor<\/a>, and that he can\u2019t ruin your confidence, even if he tries.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

He has to see that you\u2019re not here looking for his approval. That you like him, but will never allow him to treat you poorly, and that you will never be with someone who doesn\u2019t match your standards.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

5. Melhorar as suas compet\u00eancias sociais<\/strong><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
\"Quero<\/figure>\n\n\n\n

Uma das formas comprovadas de arranjar um namorado e aumentar a sua confian\u00e7a \u00e9 melhorar as suas compet\u00eancias sociais e alargar o seu c\u00edrculo social. Desta forma, tem a oportunidade de conhecer novas pessoas, o que pode levar a conhecer tamb\u00e9m um namorado adequado.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Tenha cuidado para n\u00e3o se sobrecarregar com a ideia de encontrar o homem certo, apesar de ser esse o seu objetivo final. Em vez de deixar que esta seja a \u00fanica coisa em que pensa, descontraia-se o mais poss\u00edvel e deixe-se levar pela corrente.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Permita que novas pessoas entrem na sua vida, sem quaisquer expectativas ou obriga\u00e7\u00f5es. Isto ajud\u00e1-lo-\u00e1 a treinar para o mundo dos encontros.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

You\u2019ll have a chance to get to know someone new, talk to strangers, and practice your communication skills, all of which will come in handy in your love life, as well.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Don\u2019t be scared of exiting your comfort zone. Go to a new gym, find a new hobby, or start taking a foreign language class.  <\/p>\n\n\n\n

6. Tornar-se <\/strong>namorada<\/strong><\/a> material<\/strong><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
\"Quero<\/figure>\n\n\n\n

This might sound harsh, but the truth is that you ought to observe the dating scene as a kind of business. After all, you\u2019re looking for something in particular, but in return, you also have to offer something valuable.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Actually, it\u2019s pretty simple: if you look for a man who is cut out for a serious relationship, firstly you need to become a woman this kind of guy would want.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

I\u2019m not saying that you should compare yourself to anyone, but you have to understand that there are a lot of single women out there who are looking for the same thing you are, and that the competition is huge.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Por isso, tens de te tornar uma namorada material. S\u00ea tudo isso os homens querem<\/a> e mais.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Para o conseguir, tem de investir na sua mente e no seu corpo. Para come\u00e7ar, tente estar sempre no seu melhor, melhore a sua imagem nas redes sociais e trabalhe a sua personalidade.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Trabalhe nas pequenas coisas: o seu sentido de humor, as suas capacidades de comunica\u00e7\u00e3o. Expanda os seus horizontes, mantenha-se atualizado sobre temas interessantes do mundo, aprenda a namoriscar. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

This way you\u2019ll attract some interesting people in your life and your potential boyfriend might be one of them.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

7. Colocar-se no mercado dos encontros<\/strong><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
\"Quero<\/figure>\n\n\n\n

Um conhecido meme \"Quero um namorado\" diz o seguinte:<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Eu: Quero um namorado<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Also me: Doesn\u2019t go out, doesn\u2019t put myself out there\u2026<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Well, real life is not a fairy tale and your dream guy won\u2019t magically arrive on a white horse knocking on your door, asking you to be his. Instead, you have to actively search for him.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Assim, o pr\u00f3ximo passo para encontrar a sua alma g\u00e9mea \u00e9 colocar-se no piscina de encontros<\/a>. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Don\u2019t get me wrong, I don\u2019t advise you to hit the street, asking every man who passes by if he needs a girlfriend, or to Google single men in your area.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Antigamente, a \u00fanica forma de encontrar um par rom\u00e2ntico era sair ou perguntar a um amigo comum se tinha algu\u00e9m que lhe pudesse recomendar. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

However, if you\u2019re not into clubbing and if you want to get to know a guy better through texting before going out on a first date, there is a solution for you too.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Felizmente, nos encontros modernos, existem muitas outras op\u00e7\u00f5es para encontrar um par adequado, como os encontros em linha (pode utilizar tanto as redes sociais como in\u00fameras aplica\u00e7\u00f5es de encontros no Google). <\/p>\n\n\n\n

It\u2019s your job to use these tools to your advantage. One of these dating apps is Tinder, a dating site that\u2019s helped many find love.\u00a0\u00a0<\/p>\n\n\n\n

8. Mostrar iniciativa<\/strong><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
\"Quero<\/figure>\n\n\n\n

I bet you\u2019re used to a guy always making the first move. A guy being the one to approach you first in person or on dating sites.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

However, times have changed. Now, there\u2019s nothing wrong with a woman hitting on a man. This way, you\u2019ll show him that you\u2019re a modern girl who has no trouble taking life into her own hands.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

After all, men also need to be reassured that they are doing the right thing. They need a green light that you\u2019re interested in them.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

I\u2019m not saying for you to be pushy or stalk a guy you like. However, there is nothing wrong in asking him on a second date after you two had a great time on the first one.
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9. But don’t rush things<\/strong><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
\"Quero<\/figure>\n\n\n\n

Nevertheless, it\u2019s important not to appear desperate to find a boyfriend. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Even when you meet someone you\u2019re interested in, let things go slowly and at their own pace.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Don\u2019t act as if your only goal in life is to find a man and don\u2019t push him over his boundaries.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

For example, if you like a guy you\u2019ve already been on a date with, but you\u2019re too shy to ask him out again directly, you can indirectly imply that you would be thrilled for a segundo encontro<\/a> to happen soon and that you can\u2019t wait to see him again.
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10. Pedir ajuda<\/strong><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
\"Quero<\/figure>\n\n\n\n

If you\u2019re not into dating apps such as Tinder and online dating in general, but have trouble finding a boyfriend on your own, there is no shame in asking your social circle for help. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Diz aos teus melhores amigos,Quero um namorado<\/em>e ouvir os seus conselhos quando se trata de encontrar um parceiro rom\u00e2ntico.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Also, it\u2019s not shameful to find a boyfriend through a mutual friend. Just ask your best friends to set you up with some guy he or she knows would suit you the best.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Of course, you don\u2019t have to go out with this man on a encontro \u00e0s cegas<\/a> imediatamente. Pode namoriscar com ele atrav\u00e9s de mensagens de texto ou at\u00e9 pedir a um amigo que marque um encontro para os tr\u00eas antes de o ver em privado.  <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Outra possibilidade \u00e9 pedir ajuda a treinadores de encontros que organizam encontros para pessoas que t\u00eam dificuldade em encontrar a sua cara-metade. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Estes especialistas podem dar-lhe conselhos eficazes e ajud\u00e1-lo a encontrar o seu par de acordo com as suas qualidades.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

11. Apresentar um desafio<\/strong><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
\"Quero<\/figure>\n\n\n\n

Most men like the chase, at least in the beginning of a relationship. When they\u2019re getting to know you, they want to feel that they have competition and need to win you over from all those other guys trying to have your attention.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

That\u2019s why you have to tweak your strategy and present a challenge for a guy in order for him to run after you. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

I\u2019m not saying to act like a bitch or never send him a signal that you like him back, but playing a little hard-to-get can bring you much more guys than you think.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Don\u2019t play with men, but don\u2019t act as if they can have you whenever they feel like it either. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Send them body language signals you\u2019re into them, but don\u2019t act as if your only purpose in life is to win their affection.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Flirt with them, but don\u2019t be all desperate for their attention. Show them that you have your options open and that you\u2019ll never beg them to be yours.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

12. Ser claro sobre o que se pretende<\/strong><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
\"Quero<\/figure>\n\n\n\n

Conhecer um homem que te convida para sair \u00e9 canja. Ter um engate ao acaso \u00e9 ainda mais f\u00e1cil.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

However, what is more difficult in today\u2019s world is finding someone who is disposto a comprometer-se<\/a>. E \u00e9 exatamente isso que se pretende.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Tweak your game plan. Be clear about what you\u2019re looking for right from the outset. Don\u2019t hesitate to tell your potential boyfriend that you\u2019re not interested in quase rela\u00e7\u00f5es<\/a>, em namoros casuais, ou em acordos sem compromisso.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

This way, you\u2019ll give him the chance to back out in the beginning and you\u2019ll avoid wasting time on someone who doesn\u2019t want to get serious. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Al\u00e9m disso, os homens v\u00e3o apreciar a sua honestidade e o facto de ter os seus objectivos de relacionamento bem definidos.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

13. Don’t be too needy<\/strong><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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No matter how crazy he is for you, every guy needs his space \u2013 this is especially important in the beginning of a relationship.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

You might be head over heels for this dude and it\u2019s understandable that you want to spend every second of your free time hanging out with him, but trust me, being too needy will only make him grow tired of you.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

It is one thing if you insist on putting a label on your relationship (which is something you should definitely do without hesitation), but it\u2019s another thing entirely if you start acting like the two of you have been together for ages after only a few dates.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Uma das piores coisas que pode fazer na fase inicial da sua rela\u00e7\u00e3o \u00e9 enviar uma mensagem de texto ao seu namorado Quero um beb\u00e9<\/em> ou Quero casar-me<\/em>s\u00e3o formas seguras de o afastar. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Sim, h\u00e1 muitas mulheres que dizem Quero que o meu namorado me pe\u00e7a em casamento<\/em>mas esta n\u00e3o \u00e9 a forma de o convencer a p\u00f4r um anel.
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14. Mostra-lhe o teu lado feminino<\/strong><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
\"Quero<\/figure>\n\n\n\n

You\u2019ve often <\/strong>ouvi mulheres a dizer, Quero que o meu namorado seja mais dominante<\/em>. Quero sentir-me protegida e segura ao lado dele<\/em>. Well, if you\u2019re one of these women and you want a real man, it\u2019s time to show guys your gentle, delicate side.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Aja como uma senhora, mesmo quando namoriscar com um rapaz. Preste aten\u00e7\u00e3o \u00e0s pequenas coisas relacionadas com a sua apar\u00eancia e comportamento.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Let him feel like a macho man \u2013 allow him to spoil you, but don\u2019t ask for too much. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Let him protect you, but don\u2019t make him think you\u2019re an immature brat who can\u2019t handle life on her own.
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15. Esperar antes de ter rela\u00e7\u00f5es sexuais<\/strong><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
\"Quero<\/figure>\n\n\n\n

Let\u2019s face it, sex is a crucial part of every healthy relationship. Besides being a physical pleasure, it also makes a couple more connected on all levels.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

When you first meet a man you\u2019re attracted to, it is natural that you two can\u2019t keep your hands off each other. He\u2019ll probably ask you to come over for some Netflix and chill as soon as you two get a little more comfortable.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

However, it\u2019s at this moment where you need to set some boundaries. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Sleeping with a guy right away can give him a wrong impression and can lead your potential relationship to a disaster before it\u2019s even started.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Por isso, se queres que um homem te leve a s\u00e9rio, o melhor que tens a fazer \u00e9 esperar antes de ter rela\u00e7\u00f5es sexuais<\/a>. Wait until you\u2019re ready; wait until you two make things exclusive<\/p>\n\n\n\n

This way, every man will respect you more because he\u2019ll see that you\u2019re a woman who appreciates her body and her feelings. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

He\u2019ll see that he can\u2019t get just parts of you \u2013 that he has to be in for the entire package if he wants to have you.
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