{"id":42589,"date":"2019-09-04T10:07:14","date_gmt":"2019-09-04T10:07:14","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=42589"},"modified":"2021-09-08T09:51:24","modified_gmt":"2021-09-08T09:51:24","slug":"5-sinais-de-que-tens-um-amor-de-adulto","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/5-sinais-de-que-tens-um-amor-de-adulto\/","title":{"rendered":"5 Sinais de que voc\u00ea tem aquele tipo de amor \"adulto"},"content":{"rendered":"

When you were a kid, the idea of love was probably a fantasy you didn\u2019t know much about, except from what you saw from your parents and Disney movies you watched.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Quando era adolescente, provavelmente via o amor de forma um pouco diferente e sonhava em conhecer o seu pessoa para sempre<\/a> in school, hoping you\u2019d be able to tell your kids all about how their parents were high-school sweethearts who withstood the test of time.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

And now, you know that love isn\u2019t as movie-like as you imagined it to be way back when and meeting your soulmate is a little more complicated than that. <\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Now, you just hope that you meet a guy who will be exactly what he appears to be\u2014honest, kind and open to love. A guy who will treat you with respect and prioritize you at all times.<\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Now, you don\u2019t need that love from the movies. You know that\u2019s not real. You just want to know that the guy you\u2019re with isn\u2019t playing games and cares for you the way you do for him.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

If you\u2019re with a guy who you feel is your forever person, the following 5 signs will probably make you that much more sure of your relationship, as they are all clear indicators that you finally have that \u2018grown-up\u2019 love we all eventually long to have.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

1.  <\/strong>\t<\/strong>As suas prioridades mudaram completamente<\/strong><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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Quando era mais nova, provavelmente s\u00f3 queria um namorado jeitoso com um corpo fant\u00e1stico que pudesse desfilar orgulhosamente e apreciar o facto de ter sido voc\u00ea a conseguir fisg\u00e1-lo.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

But now, all that is lower on your priority list. You understand now that life doesn\u2019t work that way and appearances are most definitely not everything. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Even if you found a guy who you actually liked and who was at the same time good-looking, you know that it doesn\u2019t guarantee anything.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

S\u00f3 o tempo dir\u00e1 se ele \u00e9 realmente t\u00e3o bom como parece no papel. Porque agora, valoriza um cora\u00e7\u00e3o bondoso e um homem honesto acima de qualquer outro aspeto superficial que costumava desejar.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

2.  <\/strong>\t<\/strong>Agora v\u00ea a diferen\u00e7a <\/strong>entre a lux\u00faria e o amor<\/strong><\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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No in\u00edcio de qualquer rela\u00e7\u00e3o, um pouco de lux\u00faria \u00e9 sempre bem-vinda. Significa que existe uma qu\u00edmica sexual ineg\u00e1vel entre os dois, o que \u00e9 sempre \u00f3timo.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

E quando era mais jovem, isso era provavelmente tudo o que precisava e queria de um amante. Mas agora, apercebe-se que precisa dessa liga\u00e7\u00e3o mais profunda que vai para al\u00e9m do desejo sexual.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

It\u2019s important, for sure, but in order for a relationship to last, there has to be a real connection with your partner that is about love, life and your mutual plans for the future. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

You can\u2019t sustain a healthy long-term commitment that is based solely on sex. That\u2019s not love and now you know that.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

3.  <\/strong>\t<\/strong>O seu futuro conjunto tornou-se mais importante do que as suas necessidades individuais<\/strong><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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Agora v\u00eas que, para prosperar e manter este belo amor que tens com o seu homem<\/a>Para al\u00e9m disso, as suas necessidades e desejos devem ser igualmente importantes. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

As suas pr\u00f3prias necessidades passam para segundo plano, porque percebe que o compromisso \u00e9 o que o estimula a avan\u00e7ar.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

You used to think that what you wanted was of the utmost importance and if a guy couldn\u2019t handle it and please your every need, it was time to call it quits. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

E ningu\u00e9m o culpa, todos n\u00f3s tivemos as nossas prioridades distorcidas numa idade mais jovem.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

The important thing is that now you see that your partner\u2019s needs are just as important and finding a common ground will help you maintain this love you now share.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

4.\u00a0You have started thinking more long-term<\/strong><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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Gosta de onde est\u00e3o agora e as coisas est\u00e3o a correr muito bem, mas para que continuem assim, sabe que tem de come\u00e7ar a pensar no futuro, se isto for uma coisa a longo prazo.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

You keep finding yourself thinking about where you\u2019ll be in a few years and how things will turn out for you two. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Est\u00e3o concentrados em dar sempre um ao outro o que cada um precisa do outro e em ser um parceiro verdadeiramente presente e empenhado.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Sabe que as coisas que o manter\u00e3o unido se baseiam no compromisso e \u00e9 inflex\u00edvel em estar sempre ao lado do seu parceiro e ouvir as suas necessidades para encontrar o melhor para ambos.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

5.  <\/strong>\t<\/strong>You know it\u2019s not always going to be perfect and you\u2019re okay with that<\/strong><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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Now that you\u2019ve finally found o amor da sua vida<\/a>, you know that it\u2019s not always going to be sunshine and rainbows. You know that it\u2019s childish to expect things to always be perfect and nothing ever to go wrong.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

You\u2019ve been together long enough and you\u2019ve been through a lot together as a couple, so you know that life will sometimes throw you a curveball. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Mas ao contr\u00e1rio de todos os outros rapazes com quem sa\u00edste, sabes que vale a pena lutar por este.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Esperar que as coisas sejam sempre perfeitas \u00e9 um exagero e sabe que tudo o que pode fazer \u00e9 estar presente um para o outro e tentar sempre compreender o ponto de vista do seu parceiro.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

You\u2019ve been through too much to give up at the first sight of trouble. <\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

And now that you know you have that \u2018grown-up\u2019 type of love that everybody is dreaming of, be sure to nurture it and cherish it. <\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Esse amor \u00e9 o que vos manter\u00e1 s\u00e3os neste mundo de imprevisibilidade.<\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

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