{"id":4264,"date":"2020-05-11T11:06:38","date_gmt":"2020-05-11T11:06:38","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/herway.net\/?p=4264"},"modified":"2022-06-08T17:13:30","modified_gmt":"2022-06-08T17:13:30","slug":"reconhecer-um-homem-emocionalmente-imaturo","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/reconhecer-um-homem-emocionalmente-imaturo\/","title":{"rendered":"Como reconhecer um homem emocionalmente imaturo"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>\u201cThis is who I am, take it or leave it\u201d.<br \/>\nEstas s\u00e3o as palavras que s\u00f3 um <a href=\"https:\/\/www.psychologytoday.com\/blog\/the-superhuman-mind\/201611\/10-signs-emotionally-immature-adult\" rel=\"noopener\">homem emocionalmente imaturo<\/a> diria durante uma discuss\u00e3o com a sua mulher.<\/p>\n<p>Os psic\u00f3logos afirmam que o maior problema \u00e9 que toda a gente est\u00e1 a tentar apresentar-se da melhor forma no in\u00edcio de uma rela\u00e7\u00e3o, pelo que \u00e9 dif\u00edcil ver a sua verdadeira maturidade nessa altura.<\/p>\n<p>Depois de completarem a sua pesquisa sobre este assunto, fizeram uma lista dos tipos mais comuns de homens emocionalmente imaturos.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">O narcisista inseguro<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-93823\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/09\/young-man-looking-at-mirror.jpg\" alt=\"jovem a olhar para o espelho\" width=\"800\" height=\"540\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/09\/young-man-looking-at-mirror.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/09\/young-man-looking-at-mirror-300x203.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/09\/young-man-looking-at-mirror-768x518.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>A sua confian\u00e7a assenta muito na sua arrog\u00e2ncia. Passa demasiado tempo em frente ao espelho e s\u00f3 se preocupa com a sua apar\u00eancia.<\/p>\n<p>Por baixo dessa camada est\u00e1 a inseguran\u00e7a e o medo de estar com algu\u00e9m que possa ser mais bonito e bem sucedido do que ele.<\/p>\n<p>Ele escolher\u00e1 uma mulher que lhe fa\u00e7a elogios e alimente o seu ego.<\/p>\n<p>Assim que ela deixar de o fazer, ele transferir\u00e1 as suas inseguran\u00e7as para ela, queixar-se-\u00e1 e destruir\u00e1 a sua confian\u00e7a.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">A carreira orientada<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-93827\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/09\/man-working-on-his-laptop.jpg\" alt=\"homem a trabalhar no seu computador port\u00e1til\" width=\"800\" height=\"535\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/09\/man-working-on-his-laptop.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/09\/man-working-on-his-laptop-300x201.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/09\/man-working-on-his-laptop-768x514.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>O seu \u00fanico objetivo na vida \u00e9 ser bem sucedido no seu trabalho. Tudo o que n\u00e3o seja isso \u00e9 apenas uma perda de tempo.<\/p>\n<p>Don\u2019t get this wrong\u2014people should be ambitious and go for their dreams, but if that ambition makes you neglect the other important things in life, then you have a problem.<\/p>\n<p>He believes that his career is more important than anyone else\u2019s needs, emotions or dreams.<\/p>\n<p>Este tipo de homem precisa de uma mulher que o apoie em tudo o que ele faz e que dedique toda a sua vida apenas a ele e \u00e0 sua carreira.<\/p>\n<p>No momento em que ela decide <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/life\/10-razoes-para-estar-sempre-em-primeiro-lugar\/\">para se colocar em primeiro lugar<\/a> and, God forbid, ask for support and some affection from him, he\u2019s offended and hurt, because he truly believes that his career comes above everything else.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">O Salvador<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-93828\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/09\/young-handsome-man-posing.jpg\" alt=\"homem jovem e bonito a posar\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/09\/young-handsome-man-posing.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/09\/young-handsome-man-posing-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/09\/young-handsome-man-posing-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Sente-se atra\u00eddo por pessoas que est\u00e3o em m\u00e1s situa\u00e7\u00f5es. Ajud\u00e1-las f\u00e1-lo esquecer os seus pr\u00f3prios problemas e, assim, sente-se melhor na sua pr\u00f3pria pele.<\/p>\n<p>Ele procura uma mulher que o fa\u00e7a sentir que precisa dele desesperadamente.<\/p>\n<p>Ele far\u00e1 com que ela se sinta bem, certificar-se-\u00e1 de que repara cada uma das suas feridas, porque est\u00e1 a tentar<a href=\"https:\/\/thoughtcatalog.com\/heidi-priebe\/2015\/04\/here-is-what-happens-when-you-run-away-from-all-of-your-problems\/\" rel=\"noopener\"> escapar ao confronto com os seus pr\u00f3prios problemas<\/a> e feridas.<\/p>\n<p>If he helps someone, he will feel good for a while, but what happens when you don\u2019t need him anymore?<\/p>\n<p>He\u2019s hurt, he\u2019s broken and leaves in even a worse state than he was in before he entered the relationship.<\/p>\n<p>He\u2019s not committed to you, to loving you; he\u2019s committed to helping you in order to run away from his own problems.<\/p>\n<p>He\u2019s not capable of truly loving anyone, because he doesn\u2019t know how to love himself.<\/p>\n<p>He\u2019s not capable of solving problems that may appear in your relationship, because the only thing he has ever known has been running away from them.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">O Viciado<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-93829\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/09\/man-drinking-a-beer-from-bottle.jpg\" alt=\"homem a beber uma cerveja da garrafa\" width=\"800\" height=\"533\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/09\/man-drinking-a-beer-from-bottle.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/09\/man-drinking-a-beer-from-bottle-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/09\/man-drinking-a-beer-from-bottle-768x512.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Drugs, alcohol, gambling, or food\u2014things he gets dependent on to bring him joy.<\/p>\n<p>Tudo o que os homens imaturos procuram \u00e9 uma mulher que lhes d\u00ea uma descarga de adrenalina.<\/p>\n<p>Uma mulher casada, uma paix\u00e3o de liceu ou at\u00e9 a ex podem dar-lhe esse tipo de prazer.<\/p>\n<p>Depois de se fartar de si, passa para a sua pr\u00f3xima v\u00edtima.<\/p>\n<p>O seu maior problema \u00e9 n\u00e3o se desenvolver por si pr\u00f3prio, pelo que estar\u00e1 sempre dependente de algu\u00e9m e nunca conseguir\u00e1 manter-se de p\u00e9.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Mommy\u2019s Boy<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-93831\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/09\/young-man-posing.jpg\" alt=\"jovem a posar\" width=\"800\" height=\"547\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/09\/young-man-posing.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/09\/young-man-posing-300x205.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/09\/young-man-posing-768x525.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Toda a gente conhece pelo menos um deles. A sua rela\u00e7\u00e3o mais importante e \u00fanica verdadeira \u00e9 com a sua m\u00e3e.<\/p>\n<p>Quer ele a ame ou a odeie, ir\u00e1 sempre comparar as outras mulheres da sua vida com ela.<\/p>\n<p>Ela \u00e9 sempre o modelo a seguir e nunca chegaremos ao seu n\u00edvel.<\/p>\n<p>Fa\u00e7am o que fizerem, d\u00eaem-lhe o que derem, a m\u00e3e dele j\u00e1 o fez muito melhor e deu-lhe mais.<\/p>\n<p>He seeks approval from his mother, and you don\u2019t have that much of a say in the relationship.<\/p>\n<p>A mulher que ele procura ou \u00e9 muito parecida com a sua m\u00e3e ou \u00e9 completamente o oposto.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">O descontente<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-93834\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/09\/sad-man-sitting-on-the-couch.jpg\" alt=\"homem triste sentado no sof\u00e1\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/09\/sad-man-sitting-on-the-couch.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/09\/sad-man-sitting-on-the-couch-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/09\/sad-man-sitting-on-the-couch-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Whether it\u2019s with his work or social life, this guy is always unhappy, unsatisfied, and <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/life\/rotina-de-auto-cuidado-pessoas-que-sofrem-de-depressao\/\">numa depress\u00e3o profunda<\/a>.<\/p>\n<p>Tem sempre a sensa\u00e7\u00e3o de que o mundo o quer apanhar e que as coisas m\u00e1s s\u00f3 lhe acontecem a ele.<\/p>\n<p>He\u2019s playing the victim because <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/homens-que-precisam-de-atencao-feminina-constante\/\">he needs someone\u2019s constant attention<\/a> e cuidados.<\/p>\n<p>Finding a woman who will provide him with a shoulder to cry on &#8211; or better yet, one who can motivate him and give his life a purpose &#8211; is essential for him.<\/p>\n<p>Mas para essa mulher, este tipo de rela\u00e7\u00e3o pode ser extremamente inebriante.<\/p>\n<p>That woman will give him everything he needs because she loves him. But the more she gives, the more he will take, and at some point, he will just walk out of her life, because he\u2019s better now.<\/p>\n<p>If you recognize one of these types in your man, don\u2019t try to convince yourself that you can change him.<\/p>\n<p>Muito provavelmente, a toxicidade dele tamb\u00e9m a envenenar\u00e1 a si. Pare de perder o seu tempo com ele e encontre algu\u00e9m que seja suficientemente maduro para merecer uma mulher como voc\u00ea.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-93814\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/09\/How-To-Recognize-An-Emotionally-Immature-Man-pinterest.jpg\" alt=\"Como reconhecer um homem emocionalmente imaturo\" width=\"735\" height=\"1102\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/09\/How-To-Recognize-An-Emotionally-Immature-Man-pinterest.jpg 735w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/09\/How-To-Recognize-An-Emotionally-Immature-Man-pinterest-200x300.jpg 200w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/09\/How-To-Recognize-An-Emotionally-Immature-Man-pinterest-683x1024.jpg 683w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 735px) 100vw, 735px\" \/><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>\u201cThis is who I am, take it or leave it\u201d. These are the words only an emotionally immature man would say during a fight with his woman. Psychologists claim the biggest problem is that everyone is trying to present themselves in the best light at the beginning of a relationship, so it is hard to&#8230;<\/p>","protected":false},"author":42,"featured_media":93835,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29646],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-4264","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-understanding-men"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29646,"label":"understanding men"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/09\/How-To-Recognize-An-Emotionally-Immature-Man.jpg",800,531,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Selma June","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/author\/selmajune\/"},"comment_info":1,"category_info":[{"term_id":29646,"name":"understanding men","slug":"understanding-men","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29646,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Wondering about what's going on inside his head? 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