{"id":4274,"date":"2017-09-11T11:50:11","date_gmt":"2017-09-11T11:50:11","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/herway.net\/?p=4274"},"modified":"2021-08-12T12:36:12","modified_gmt":"2021-08-12T12:36:12","slug":"6-coisas-acontecem-quando-finalmente-se-conhece-um-bom-rapaz","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/6-coisas-acontecem-quando-finalmente-se-conhece-um-bom-rapaz\/","title":{"rendered":"6 coisas que te acontecem quando finalmente conheces um bom rapaz"},"content":{"rendered":"

You\u2019ve probably been through hell and back. You\u2019re done\u2014no more dating. It\u2019s not worth your tears.\u00a0\u00a0<\/span>You\u2019ve had some long monologues within your four lonesome walls\u2014struggles which went deep into the night\u2014 and you\u2019ve made the decision you\u2019re never going to let anyone hurt you\u2014ever again!\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n

You\u2019ve made the decision that you are better than that. You\u2019ve made the decision that you are stronger than that.<\/span><\/p>\n

Disseste que n\u00e3o<\/i><\/b> to all the insulting words screamed at you\u2026<\/span><\/p>\n

Disseste que n\u00e3o<\/i><\/b> to all the punches you\u2019ve received\u2026<\/span><\/p>\n

Disseste que n\u00e3o<\/i><\/b> to being the last one on the list\u2026anybody\u2019s list\u2026<\/span><\/p>\n

Disseste que n\u00e3o<\/i><\/b> para desrespeitar. <\/i><\/b><\/p>\n

But although you\u2019ve buried that part of your life forever\u2014although you\u2019ve \u2018buried\u2019 him for good\u2014you can\u2019t stop your past from haunting you.<\/a> It\u2019s nearly impossible to recover from such a mistake that is him\u2014although he\u2019s gone forever.\u00a0\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n

Even now, you wake at night covered in cold sweat because you\u2019ve dreamed about him. You relived the horror that was your life once. Right after you become aware of your reality, after you fully wake up, you realize that he\u2019s gone and that you\u2019re safe.\u00a0\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n

But, it\u2019s the same thing in the morning. His harsh and cold words are coming back to you with a piercing noise drilling inside your head.<\/span> You\u2019re getting the chills\u2014you\u2019re getting sick. \u00a0<\/i><\/b><\/p>\n

Not a day passes by without you imagining seeing his face from the distance. It\u2019s a horrible feeling. You start to panic. You start shaking. You\u2019re desperately seeking a way out of running into him. <\/span><\/p>\n

Then you look again\u2014it\u2019s not him. The guy you\u2019ve mistaken him for doesn\u2019t even look like him. <\/span><\/p>\n

You are seeing him everywhere because you are still afraid he\u2019s going to find you and hurt you once again.<\/i><\/b><\/p>\n

But you should know that every story has a twist\u2014for you, it\u2019s a happy twist. For you, it\u2019s someone who will take you and nurture you into health. For you, it\u2019s someone who will amar-vos incondicionalmente.<\/a><\/span><\/p>\n

For you, it\u2019s someone who will teach you how to love and how to start trusting again.<\/i><\/b><\/p>\n

He will\u2026<\/span><\/i><\/p>\n

1. Mostrar o seu apoio e desafi\u00e1-lo<\/b><\/span><\/h2>\n

Ele encoraj\u00e1-lo-\u00e1 a dizer o que pensa livremente. Ele certificar-se-\u00e1 de que sabes que tudo o que fazes ou queres fazer \u00e9 importante. Ele sabe que o seu apoio \u00e9 a \u00fanica coisa de que mais precisas.<\/span><\/p>\n

You were put down, called names, screamed at so many times that you\u2019ve lost your self-confidence and self-worth. He knows how to bring those things back.<\/span><\/p>\n

He is aware than he needs to challenge you on all levels\u2014he needs you to realize that you can be even better than you already are. He needs you to understand that you are competent to do anything. <\/span><\/p>\n

Accept what he\u2019s got to offer because he is the one who will make everything better\u2014\u00e9 nele que se pode confiar.<\/a><\/span><\/p>\n

2. Respeitar-te<\/b><\/span><\/h2>\n

He will respect your opinions and he will never tell you to shut up. He is going to respect you every single day and every minute of every day. He will never tell you he\u2019s going to meet you and then bail on you. He will respect you. Period. <\/span><\/p>\n

You\u2019ve never experienced this kind of treatment before. Don\u2019t be confused and afraid. It\u2019s not that you are privileged to be treated like this\u2014you are only getting what you should have gotten a long time ago. Give in to this amazing feeling and embrace it\u2014you deserve it. <\/span><\/p>\n

Ver tamb\u00e9m:<\/strong>\u00a08 coisas que acontecem quando se conhece um bom rapaz depois de uma rela\u00e7\u00e3o t\u00f3xica<\/a><\/p>\n

\"Casal<\/p>\n

3. \u00a0Always keep his word.<\/span> <\/b><\/h2>\n

This is the kind of a guy who you can trust. If he says he\u2019s going to do something, he is. Forget about all that mistreatment and false, empty words you\u2019ve been hearing for so long. <\/span><\/p>\n

Esquece o facto de estares sempre em \u00faltimo lugar na lista dele. Este tipo nunca te vai deixar de repente para ir ter com os amigos assim que eles telefonarem. <\/span><\/p>\n

Este homem \u00e9 de confian\u00e7a e tem a certeza de que a ama e que nunca a ir\u00e1 desiludir ou magoar. <\/span><\/p>\n

4. Ensinar-te a amar-te de novo<\/b><\/span><\/h2>\n

Due to all the horrific things you\u2019ve been through, it\u2019s no wonder that you forgot how to love and respect yourself. <\/span><\/p>\n

Tens de saber isso se quiseres deixar-te amar por algu\u00e9m, \u00e9 preciso amarmo-nos primeiro a n\u00f3s pr\u00f3prios.<\/a> \u00c9 preciso recuperar a f\u00e9 em si pr\u00f3prio. <\/span><\/p>\n

Este homem vai ajud\u00e1-la a tornar-se na mulher que ama a si pr\u00f3pria e que sabe que precisa de ser. <\/span><\/p>\n

5. Mostrar-te o verdadeiro lado do amor<\/b><\/span><\/h2>\n

Although your abuser swore on his life that he loves you, you know that\u2019s not true. How can you love someone and make them feel like a worthless nothing at the same time? <\/span><\/p>\n

Isso n\u00e3o \u00e9 amor. \u00c9 car\u00eancia. O seu agressor precisava de si para descarregar as suas inseguran\u00e7as e insatisfa\u00e7\u00e3o em si.<\/span><\/p>\n

This guy will show you the real side of love. He will introduce you to some new and strange feelings you\u2019ve never experienced before. Actually, they are not strange at all. They are completely normal, just not to you. <\/span><\/p>\n

Maybe you won\u2019t be able to understand those feelings right away but don\u2019t worry because this new good guy knows that, and he\u2019s going to be patient.<\/span><\/p>\n

6. Vai ensinar-te a confiar de novo<\/b><\/span><\/h2>\n

In time, you\u2019ll learn to trust him. He is going to be very patient with you. You have to remember that his task is not an easy one\u2014having all that love to give to someone who is not ready to receive it, yet. But he\u2019ll wait. <\/span><\/p>\n

Bit by bit, he will be closer to his goal. Soon enough, you\u2019ll start to open up to him and show him your vulnerable side\u2014you\u2019ll start trusting him because you know now that he won\u2019t ever hurt you. <\/span><\/p>\n

Don\u2019t lose hope! <\/i><\/b><\/p>\n

One day a good guy will come and he will tear down that wall you\u2019ve built around you.<\/i><\/b><\/p>\n

He\u2019ll show you what real love is\u2014he\u2019ll love you the way you deserve.<\/i><\/b><\/p>\n

Ver tamb\u00e9m:\u00a0<\/strong>Um dia vais conhec\u00ea-lo (Aquele que te vai mostrar o que \u00e9 o verdadeiro amor)<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n

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