Sabes aquela que te deixa de rastos e que te faz arrepiar a pele?<\/em><\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n That\u2019s the one. And this guy was something special. He knew just what to say and how to treat me, and I felt like this was the one for me, no doubt about it.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n Apesar de estar a passar por dificuldades na altura (uma ligeira depend\u00eancia do \u00e1lcool e uma situa\u00e7\u00e3o de vida menos do que ideal), decidi que estava preparado para a vida. <\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n Senti que tinha encontrado o homem com quem era suposto passar a minha vida para sempre, apesar das bandeiras vermelhas \u00f3bvias (que eram sobretudo da minha parte).<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n See, I was in no place for a stable, healthy, love story. I wasn\u2019t equipped to deal with that all-encompassing love that takes you for a spin and makes you want to commit for life.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n Eu estava uma grande confus\u00e3o.<\/a> Estava numa situa\u00e7\u00e3o t\u00e3o m\u00e1 que at\u00e9 a ideia de cuidar e alimentar uma rela\u00e7\u00e3o me deixava tonta, mas enganei-me a mim pr\u00f3pria, pensando que estava preparada para isso.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n I went against myself and ignored all of his pleas to get help. I just thought I knew best. In my head \u2013 I was fine. <\/em><\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n Who doesn\u2019t drink every now and then? So what if I couldn\u2019t find a permanent place to live? Isn\u2019t that the way it\u2019s supposed to be when you\u2019re young?<\/em><\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n But it wasn\u2019t, and it took me a few years to come to terms with it. I thought I knew what I was doing. I thought I could flip a switch inside of me just like that and make everything okay\u2026 but I couldn\u2019t.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n Escusado ser\u00e1 dizer que a minha rela\u00e7\u00e3o se desmoronou antes de ter tido a oportunidade de florescer. Nunca tivemos hip\u00f3teses. S\u00f3 gostava de ter percebido isto mais cedo.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n Devo dizer que foi dif\u00edcil de engolir, mas tinha de acontecer para eu ganhar esta perspetiva t\u00e3o necess\u00e1ria.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n Now I know that God is the only one who knows what I need. And He won\u2019t show it to me until He knows that I am ready. And that\u2019s okay.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n Porque, com toda a honestidade, o que \u00e9 que sabemos realmente sobre a vida e o amor? <\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n You learn as you go. You make your mistakes, and only after you\u2019ve learned from those mistakes does God show you the one you\u2019re destinado a ser<\/a> com.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n I know it might seem a bit harsh, but that\u2019s the truth. I\u2019ve stopped thinking I know everything. I\u2019ve stopped believing that I know what\u2019s best. I don\u2019t, and it feels so good to be able to say that.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n It\u2019s all in God\u2019s hands. And trust me \u2013 He knows what He\u2019s doing.<\/em><\/strong><\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n At times it might feel like you\u2019re lost. And in those times, you need to keep your faith that this is the path you need to walk in order to make your mistake and learn a valuable lesson from it.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n Quando deixares de ver os teus erros como algo mau e come\u00e7ares a trat\u00e1-los como experi\u00eancias de aprendizagem, as coisas v\u00e3o come\u00e7ar a melhorar para ti. E foi o que aconteceu comigo.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n![\"Deus](\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/09\/shutterstock_1100960654.jpg\")
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