{"id":43273,"date":"2019-09-20T08:58:28","date_gmt":"2019-09-20T08:58:28","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=43273"},"modified":"2021-08-11T12:26:06","modified_gmt":"2021-08-11T12:26:06","slug":"6-tracos-enfaticos-que-o-tornam-irresistivel-para-um-narcisista","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/6-tracos-enfaticos-que-o-tornam-irresistivel-para-um-narcisista\/","title":{"rendered":"6 tra\u00e7os enf\u00e1ticos que o tornam irresist\u00edvel para um narcisista"},"content":{"rendered":"

Livramo-nos de um narcisista e rapidamente nos encontramos numa rela\u00e7\u00e3o com outro. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

You start believing that only narcissists are what are left of living creatures on earth and that\u2019s why you meet only them.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

You lose all hope of ever meeting someone normal (it doesn\u2019t even have to be that famous, unicorn \u201creal man\u201d<\/a>) who will treat you the way you deserve, respect you, and won\u2019t play the fucking games with you.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

And every time you think you\u2019ve finally met the right one, it turns out that he\u2019s a narcissistic manipulator in disguise.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Parece-lhe familiar?<\/p>\n\n\n\n

The next step is accusing yourself of bad decisions and making poor choices in men, but what you probably didn\u2019t know is that it\u2019s no coincidence that you\u2019re a magnet for these toxic, narcissistic manipulators. These 6 emphatic traits make you simply irresistible to them:<\/p>\n\n\n\n

1. Confia naturalmente em toda a gente<\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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You don\u2019t divide people into two categories: those who cannot be trusted and those who need to earn your trust. You\u2019re somewhere in between the two because you naturally trust everyone. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

You believe that others will treat you with respect, just as you do yourself, and that they won\u2019t do any harm to you (mentally or physically).<\/p>\n\n\n\n

You\u2019re naturally trusting because of your pure soul; you always think positively, which is the main reason why you\u2019re the chief target of narcissistic manipulators.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Ver tamb\u00e9m: \u00c9 por isso que um narcisista odeia ver-te feliz<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n

2. Acredita na reciprocidade<\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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Acredita que se tratar algu\u00e9m com respeito, se o fizer sentir especial e se se esfor\u00e7ar constantemente numa rela\u00e7\u00e3o, o seu parceiro far\u00e1 o mesmo por si. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

You believe in reciprocity with your entire being because you don\u2019t know any other way.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Mas os narcisistas acreditam exatamente no oposto. Abusam da sua cren\u00e7a na reciprocidade, fingindo que querem a mesma coisa e que est\u00e3o dispostos a fazer um esfor\u00e7o e a retribuir (pelo menos, no in\u00edcio de uma rela\u00e7\u00e3o).<\/p>\n\n\n\n

3. Nunca desistes t\u00e3o facilmente<\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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You see good in others and you don\u2019t give up at the first small obstacle. You don\u2019t throw in the towel even if someone hurts you once, twice \u2013perhaps multiple times. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

A sua determina\u00e7\u00e3o em nunca desistir t\u00e3o facilmente na vida e nas rela\u00e7\u00f5es \u00e9 como uma droga para um manipulador narcisista<\/a>.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Eles gostam do jogo de o magoar e manipular e ficam ainda mais entusiasmados quando sabem que n\u00e3o vai desistir t\u00e3o facilmente. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Eles gostam de o ver sofrer e depois voltar para eles como se nada tivesse acontecido.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

4. You\u2019re honest and compassionate<\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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You\u2019re like an open book to everyone because you\u2019re not afraid to speak your mind and you have nothing to hide. You\u2019re not afraid to be vulnerable in front of others, even though you know they could use it against you. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

You\u2019re also compassionate to the core. You feel other people\u2019s pain and you always want to be with them and help them at any cost. Narcissists know all of this; they also know that honesty and compassion are two vulnerable traits to have, which is precisely why they exploit them. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Everything you say to narcissists, they will use against you and somehow you\u2019ll keep being compassionate with them, despite them hurting you. That\u2019s why you\u2019re their key target.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Ver tamb\u00e9m: 5 maneiras \u00e0 prova de bala para manter os narcisistas fora da sua vida<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n

5. Amas incondicionalmente<\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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Amas incondicionalmente. You have a big heart that\u2019s been broken many times<\/a>, but you still don\u2019t lose hope for better days. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

You still care more about others than yourself. You still care more about other people\u2019s happiness than your own. And narcissists are fully aware of that.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

They know that no matter what they did to you, you won\u2019t judge them or accuse them of being assholes. They know that you\u2019ll show compassion and always forgive them, no matter what they\u2019ve done to you. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Usam os seus tra\u00e7os inocentes e emp\u00e1ticos em proveito pr\u00f3prio e fingem que o adoram, enquanto concebem um plano perfeito para o seu jogo t\u00f3xico e manipulador.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

6. Tem um forte desejo de curar os outros e de corrigir as pessoas<\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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Tem um forte desejo de curar os outros e de os corrigir, se necess\u00e1rio, porque acredita que qualquer pessoa pode mudar se apenas a ajudar. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

E os narcisistas tamb\u00e9m sabem disso. Eles s\u00e3o bem versados em fisgar-nos ao serem imaturos e manipuladores<\/a> que precisam da vossa ajuda.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Mas, a verdade \u00e9 que eles nunca estiveram nem estar\u00e3o dispostos a mudar. Esta \u00e9 apenas uma ferramenta que lhes permite ganhar tempo para o poderem manipular durante mais tempo. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

The plain fact is that you cannot change anyone unless they themselves are willing to change \u2013 this applies to narcissistic manipulators too.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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You get rid of one narcissist and soon you find yourself in a relationship with another one. You start believing that only narcissists are what are left of living creatures on earth and that\u2019s why you meet only them. You lose all hope of ever meeting someone normal (it doesn\u2019t even have to be that…<\/p>","protected":false},"author":21,"featured_media":43280,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29633],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-43273","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-narcissism"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29633,"label":"narcissism"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/09\/shutterstock_600311720.jpg",800,534,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Maria Parker","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/author\/maria\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29633,"name":"narcissism","slug":"narcissism","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29633,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Mind games and manipulations are narcissist's favorite controlling tactics. Learn how their mind operates so that you can protect yourself. ","parent":22911,"count":232,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29633,"category_count":232,"category_description":"Mind games and manipulations are narcissist's favorite controlling tactics. Learn how their mind operates so that you can protect yourself. ","cat_name":"narcissism","category_nicename":"narcissism","category_parent":22911}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/43273","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/21"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=43273"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/43273\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/43280"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=43273"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=43273"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=43273"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}