{"id":43439,"date":"2019-09-25T19:39:48","date_gmt":"2019-09-25T19:39:48","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=43439"},"modified":"2021-08-24T13:21:41","modified_gmt":"2021-08-24T13:21:41","slug":"chega-de-jogos-mentais-vamos-ser-reais-por-uma-vez","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/chega-de-jogos-mentais-vamos-ser-reais-por-uma-vez\/","title":{"rendered":"Chega de jogos mentais - Vamos ser reais de uma vez por todas"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>N\u00e3o quero adivinhar o que se passa no teu cora\u00e7\u00e3o.<\/p>\n<p>I don\u2019t want to <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/life\/8-tipos-de-comportamento-que-mostram-que-ele-tem-medo-do-quanto-gosta-de-si\/\">estudar o seu comportamento <\/a>na minha dire\u00e7\u00e3o.<\/p>\n<p>I don\u2019t want to look for hints and hidden meanings inside your texts.<\/p>\n<p>I don\u2019t want to assume you have feelings for me \u2014 I want to know.<\/p>\n<p>I want to know whether we are on the same page or not, that\u2019s all.&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>Confia em mim, tudo o que disseres que sentes ser\u00e1 bom para mim.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-43455\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/09\/shutterstock_14924729391.jpg\" alt=\"rapariga com rapaz no parque\" width=\"800\" height=\"497\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/09\/shutterstock_14924729391.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/09\/shutterstock_14924729391-300x186.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/09\/shutterstock_14924729391-768x477.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Even if you give me an answer I wasn\u2019t hoping for, even if it\u2019s bad news and you are not into me as much as I am into you, I will make my peace with it. I promise I will.&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><b>Porque mesmo a verdade mais dolorosa \u00e9 menos dolorosa do que os jogos mentais.&nbsp;<\/b><\/p>\n<p>I don\u2019t want you to pretend like you care if you don\u2019t.<\/p>\n<p>I don\u2019t want hot and cold games.<\/p>\n<p>I don\u2019t want to share my soul with you one day and pretend like we don\u2019t know each other the next.&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>I don\u2019t want your lips imprinted on mine if you have no plans to stay.<\/p>\n<p>I don\u2019t want to be your emergency call when you are in need of some tender love and care.<\/p>\n<p>I don\u2019t want to be there only when it\u2019s convenient, and you have nothing better to do.&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>I don\u2019t want to get my hopes up just so you could crush them.<\/p>\n<p>I don\u2019t want to chase you if you are not chasing me back.&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><b>Para o inferno com todos os jogos mentais.<\/b><\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-43457\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/09\/shutterstock_11600142971.jpg\" alt=\"Casal feliz e amoroso em casa\" width=\"800\" height=\"533\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/09\/shutterstock_11600142971.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/09\/shutterstock_11600142971-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/09\/shutterstock_11600142971-768x512.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>I\u2019ve had enough of sleepless nights because of uncertainties I was living in.<\/p>\n<p>I\u2019ve spilled enough tears because of men who weren&#8217;t genuine and honest.&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>I don\u2019t want you to be one of them. I don\u2019t want you to be my \u2018almost love\u2019.<\/p>\n<p><b>N\u00e3o estou a dizer que temos de descobrir imediatamente se somos adequados um para o outro.<\/b><\/p>\n<p><b> Quero apenas saber se est\u00e1 disposto a experimentar.&nbsp;<\/b><\/p>\n<p>Quero uma rela\u00e7\u00e3o que flua lentamente.<\/p>\n<p>Uma verdadeira, constitu\u00edda por duas pessoas que investem igualmente e fazem os mesmos esfor\u00e7os.<\/p>\n<p>Two people engaged in each other&#8217;s lives.<\/p>\n<p>Duas pessoas que se enviam mensagens de texto todos os dias, que querem passar tempo uma com a outra com frequ\u00eancia.&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>Os r\u00f3tulos s\u00e3o importantes.<\/p>\n<p>Don\u2019t even try to sell me some shitty story about how we know what we have, and it\u2019s nobody else&#8217;s business.<\/p>\n<p>O facto de gostarmos um do outro e de estarmos numa rela\u00e7\u00e3o \u00e9 algo que todos \u00e0 nossa volta devem saber.&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><b>I don\u2019t do games. I am a terrible player. I am too sincere for that.&nbsp;<\/b><\/p>\n<p>N\u00e3o sou bom em t\u00e1cticas. Detesto manter o registo de quem ligou primeiro a quem.<\/p>\n<p>Detesto fazer-me de fria quando \u00e9 \u00f3bvio que estou caidinha por ti.<\/p>\n<p>Parece-me uma perda de tempo e de energia.&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>I never play mind games because I\u2019ve been on the other side.<\/p>\n<p>J\u00e1 me enganaram e sei o quanto d\u00f3i.<\/p>\n<p>I\u2019ve invested so much into someone who never really made me a part of his life.&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>I was always kept at arm\u2019s length.<\/p>\n<p>Estava a receber peda\u00e7os enquanto dava toda a minha alma \u00e0quela quase rela\u00e7\u00e3o.&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-43460\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/09\/shutterstock_14919214251.jpg\" alt=\"Mulher bonita a olhar para o namorado na cama\" width=\"800\" height=\"533\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/09\/shutterstock_14919214251.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/09\/shutterstock_14919214251-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/09\/shutterstock_14919214251-768x512.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>I was living in hope that something will change, that he\u2019ll see my worth, that he\u2019ll feel my love because he was giving me just enough of his attention and affection to make me hold on but never enough to call me his.&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>I don\u2019t want to go through that again.<\/p>\n<p>I don\u2019t want to do that to anyone else either.<\/p>\n<p>It seems so cruel to play games with someone\u2019s heart.&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><b>My heart is not a toy. My feelings aren\u2019t something to be messed with.&nbsp;<\/b><\/p>\n<p>Nunca mais permitirei que algu\u00e9m <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/relationship\/amarrar-9-maneiras-de-contar\/\">me amarrar<\/a>.<\/p>\n<p>If I learn right from the start that there isn\u2019t even a prospect of a relationship there, I am out.&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>Tenho de proteger o meu cora\u00e7\u00e3o de se partir.<\/p>\n<p>Tenho de proteger a minha alma de sofrer em v\u00e3o.<\/p>\n<p>That\u2019s why I refuse to deal with anything half-assed in this life, especially love.&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><b>Por isso, por favor, sejam sinceros comigo.&nbsp;<\/b><\/p>\n<p>Seja a lufada de ar fresco neste deserto cheio de homens falsos.<\/p>\n<p>S\u00ea honesto comigo desde o in\u00edcio.<\/p>\n<p>Digam-me o que pensam sobre mim.<\/p>\n<p>Don\u2019t trick me into thinking you care if you don\u2019t.&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>Don\u2019t allow me to wait for your text for days.<\/p>\n<p>Don\u2019t treat me as a stop along the way and drop by only when it\u2019s convenient.<\/p>\n<p>Fazer um esfor\u00e7o. S\u00ea pr\u00f3ximo. Sejam sinceros nas vossas inten\u00e7\u00f5es para comigo.&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-43469\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/09\/shutterstock_12388153571.jpg\" alt=\"mulher e homem felizes a fazer caf\u00e9 \" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/09\/shutterstock_12388153571.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/09\/shutterstock_12388153571-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/09\/shutterstock_12388153571-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>That\u2019s all I am asking. Either you are in this with me or you are out.<\/p>\n<p>N\u00e3o h\u00e1 meios-termos.<\/p>\n<p>A vida \u00e9 demasiado curta para isso, e por muito que goste de ti, o respeito que tenho por mim \u00e9 maior.&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>Ponham tudo em cima da mesa. O bom, o mau e o feio.<\/p>\n<p>Para saber qual \u00e9 a minha posi\u00e7\u00e3o. Para saber se podemos ter algo a s\u00e9rio.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-large wp-image-43510\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/09\/organized-by-St.-Jude-Chapel8-724x1024.jpg\" alt=\"Chega de jogos mentais - Vamos ser reais de uma vez por todas\" width=\"724\" height=\"1024\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/09\/organized-by-St.-Jude-Chapel8-724x1024.jpg 724w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/09\/organized-by-St.-Jude-Chapel8-212x300.jpg 212w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/09\/organized-by-St.-Jude-Chapel8-768x1086.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/09\/organized-by-St.-Jude-Chapel8.jpg 794w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 724px) 100vw, 724px\" \/><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>I don\u2019t want to guess what\u2019s happening in that heart of yours. I don\u2019t want to study your behavior towards me. I don\u2019t want to look for hints and hidden meanings inside your texts. I don\u2019t want to assume you have feelings for me \u2014 I want to know. I want to know whether we&#8230;<\/p>","protected":false},"author":53,"featured_media":43506,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29614],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-43439","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-love-talks"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29614,"label":"love talks"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/09\/shutterstock_10218440471-1.jpg",800,534,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Ariel Quinn","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/author\/ariel\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29614,"name":"love talks","slug":"love-talks","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29614,"taxonomy":"category","description":"What is love? 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