{"id":43453,"date":"2019-09-25T19:27:26","date_gmt":"2019-09-25T19:27:26","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=43453"},"modified":"2021-08-11T12:15:45","modified_gmt":"2021-08-11T12:15:45","slug":"5-mascaras-enganadoras-que-todos-os-narcisistas-usam","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/5-mascaras-enganadoras-que-todos-os-narcisistas-usam\/","title":{"rendered":"5 m\u00e1scaras enganadoras que todos os narcisistas usam"},"content":{"rendered":"

Basicamente, todos os narcisistas s\u00e3o meros actores com segundas inten\u00e7\u00f5es que s\u00f3 eles conhecem. <\/span><\/p>\n

Devido \u00e0 falta de <\/span>apoio emocional<\/span><\/a> Nos seus anos mais jovens e mais fr\u00e1geis, desenvolvem um mecanismo de defesa que, mais tarde na vida, se torna um m\u00e9todo vicioso e manipulador para conseguirem o que querem.<\/span><\/p>\n

 <\/span>A falta de sentido de si pr\u00f3prios e a necessidade de terem sempre o que querem transformaram-nos em pessoas que usam muitas m\u00e1scaras diferentes perante todas as pessoas com quem entram em contacto.<\/span><\/p>\n

 <\/span>Tudo depende dos seus desejos e necessidades actuais e do que pretendem alcan\u00e7ar. <\/span><\/p>\n

Mudam de m\u00e1scara sempre que precisam de algo diferente de si.<\/span><\/p>\n

 <\/span>It\u2019s like a game to them. They don\u2019t know how to be any other way. <\/span><\/p>\n

They are not shaped as people the way you and I are, therefore they have to play a role in order to feel important and fulfilled and to achieve what\u2019s on their agenda for that day.<\/span><\/p>\n

 <\/span>O dinheiro, o estatuto, a admira\u00e7\u00e3o p\u00fablica e o sexo s\u00e3o os seus objectivos mais comuns. <\/span><\/p>\n

E depois de conhecerem <\/span>a sua v\u00edtima<\/span><\/a>Quando o seu filho est\u00e1 a ser tratado, eles decidem qual a m\u00e1scara que t\u00eam de p\u00f4r para o espremer.<\/span><\/p>\n

 <\/span>It\u2019s really hard to see through their mask as they have learned to play each role perfectly. <\/span><\/p>\n

Nunca se adivinharia o que realmente est\u00e1 por detr\u00e1s das camadas das suas palavras doces, gestos am\u00e1veis e planos para um futuro que nunca acontecer\u00e1.<\/span><\/p>\n

 <\/span>Estas s\u00e3o as 5 m\u00e1scaras mais comuns que um narcisista usa para se fazer de v\u00edtima e conseguir o que precisa dela.<\/span><\/p>\n

 1. <\/span>A v\u00edtima<\/span><\/h2>\n

\"Homem<\/p>\n

 <\/span>Esta \u00e9 a m\u00e1scara que ele coloca quando precisa que sintam pena dele. <\/span><\/p>\n

It usually involves a bunch of crazy exes, impossibly harsh bosses who treated him unfairly and toxic parents who didn\u2019t provide him with enough love and nurturing as a kid.<\/span><\/p>\n

 <\/span>Ele n\u00e3o vai descarregar tudo isto em cima de si de uma s\u00f3 vez. <\/span><\/p>\n

As you\u2019re getting to know him, he will unfold, piece by piece, seemingly reluctant to share such painful memories but secretly pleased that it\u2019s working like a charm.<\/span><\/p>\n

 <\/span>Vai cair na esparrela, porque ele vai ter um desempenho digno de um \u00d3scar, e \u00e9 assim que ele vai <\/span>enganch\u00e1-lo<\/span><\/a> e drena-o um dia de cada vez, tirando-lhe o que precisa de si e deixando-o emocionalmente vazio e completamente esgotado.<\/span><\/p>\n

 2.<\/span> <\/span>O amante perfeito<\/span><\/h2>\n

\"O<\/p>\n

 <\/span>Inicialmente, ele parecer\u00e1 o homem ideal. Dir\u00e1 as coisas certas, n\u00e3o se precipitar\u00e1 e, aparentemente, respeitar\u00e1 os seus desejos. <\/span><\/p>\n

He won\u2019t be coming on too strong and you\u2019ll think you were the one who seduced him (when in fact it\u2019s all part of his master plan).<\/span><\/p>\n

 <\/span>And once he gets you in the sack, he will enjoy every bit of you until he\u2019s had enough. <\/span><\/p>\n

You\u2019ll think the night is going perfectly, up until the moment he gets up, puts his clothes on and leaves you, with a beaming smile on his face.<\/span><\/p>\n

 <\/span>And that\u2019s when it will hit you. It was all just a ploy to get you into bed. He doesn\u2019t give a shit about you or your needs. <\/span><\/p>\n

Tudo o que ele queria era uma boa queca e ele sabia exatamente como a conseguir. <\/span><\/p>\n

Ele ter\u00e1 feito de si um violino e ter\u00e1 satisfeito as suas necessidades narc\u00edsicas. E arrepender-se-\u00e1 de o ter conhecido para o resto da sua vida.<\/span><\/p>\n

 3.<\/span> <\/span>O viciado em trabalho<\/span><\/h2>\n

\"Jovem<\/p>\n

 <\/span>This guy can\u2019t stop going on about how hard-working, capable and successful he is. <\/span><\/p>\n

No matter what line of work he\u2019s in, you\u2019ll never hear the end of it. <\/span><\/p>\n

It will appear as if you\u2019re talking to an owner of multiple successful companies the way he presents himself.<\/span><\/p>\n

 <\/span>Este tipo n\u00e3o consegue imaginar que algu\u00e9m seja mais capaz ou tenha mais sucesso no seu trabalho do que ele. <\/span><\/p>\n

E para se certificar de que toda a gente sabe disso, ele ter\u00e1 de compensar exageradamente, gabando-se constantemente das suas capacidades.<\/span><\/p>\n

 <\/span>Se tiveres este tipo de homem perto de ti, tem cuidado.<\/span><\/p>\n

He might seem like an okay guy who\u2019s just a bit too into his job, when in fact he\u2019s a severely <\/span>narcisista manipulador<\/span><\/a> que n\u00e3o vai parar por nada para provar o qu\u00e3o superior ele \u00e9 a si e a qualquer um que ouse desafi\u00e1-lo.<\/span><\/p>\n

 4. <\/span>O cavaleiro de armadura brilhante<\/span><\/h2>\n

\"Retrato<\/p>\n

 <\/span>This guy is seemingly always there. That\u2019s what he wants you to think anyway. <\/span><\/p>\n

He will find a person who is in need of \u2018saving\u2019 and he will prey on you. <\/span><\/p>\n

Ele ajud\u00e1-lo-\u00e1 a realizar pequenas tarefas em casa ou a organizar uma festa.<\/span><\/p>\n

 <\/span>E o facto de ele estar sempre l\u00e1 para si significa que espera o mesmo de si e muito mais. <\/span><\/p>\n

Ele quer pression\u00e1-la para que se sinta em d\u00edvida para com ele ao ponto de fazer basicamente tudo o que ele quer que fa\u00e7a.<\/span><\/p>\n

 <\/span>Don\u2019t fall for this. Nothing he does is selfless and it all comes at a great price. <\/span><\/p>\n

Ele pode parecer simp\u00e1tico no in\u00edcio, mas pouco depois tira a m\u00e1scara e mostra-lhe porque \u00e9 que a usou. <\/span><\/p>\n

Because his true self is much more frightening than you ever could\u2019ve imagined.<\/span><\/p>\n

 5. <\/span>O m\u00e1rtir<\/span><\/h2>\n

\"Homem<\/p>\n

 <\/span>Esta \u00e9 a m\u00e1scara mais maligna que ele usa. <\/span><\/p>\n

Aparecer\u00e1 como o homem que dedicou a sua vida a ajudar os outros, seja o seu c\u00f4njuge, os seus vizinhos ou amigos.<\/span><\/p>\n

E vai grit\u00e1-lo dos telhados.<\/span><\/p>\n

 <\/span>He\u2019s the guy who will always lend you a hand when you are in need of help and make sure everybody sees it.<\/span><\/p>\n

E tudo isto faz parte do seu plano secreto para te manter agarrada a ele durante o m\u00e1ximo de tempo poss\u00edvel. <\/span><\/p>\n

When you finally realize what he\u2019s doing and who he is, you will be considered \u2018the bad guy\u2019 for leaving this selfless, kind man.<\/span><\/p>\n

 <\/span>Ele vai fazer de si uma parceira t\u00f3xica que foi desonesta e\/ou infiel, enquanto finge estar a chafurdar na mis\u00e9ria. <\/span><\/p>\n

He will have the sympathy of everyone around him because that\u2019s the image he has created for himself and you\u2019ll be the b**** who left the nicest man in the neighborhood.<\/span><\/p>\n

 <\/p>\n

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Basically, all narcissists are merely actors with ulterior motives that are known only to them.  Due to a lack of emotional support in their young and most fragile years, they develop a coping mechanism that later in life becomes a vicious, manipulative method of getting what they want.  Their lack of sense of self and…<\/p>","protected":false},"author":21,"featured_media":43463,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29633],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-43453","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-narcissism"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29633,"label":"narcissism"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/09\/shutterstock_1457763896.jpg",800,615,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Maria Parker","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/author\/maria\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29633,"name":"narcissism","slug":"narcissism","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29633,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Mind games and manipulations are narcissist's favorite controlling tactics. Learn how their mind operates so that you can protect yourself. ","parent":22911,"count":232,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29633,"category_count":232,"category_description":"Mind games and manipulations are narcissist's favorite controlling tactics. Learn how their mind operates so that you can protect yourself. ","cat_name":"narcissism","category_nicename":"narcissism","category_parent":22911}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/43453","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/21"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=43453"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/43453\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/43463"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=43453"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=43453"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=43453"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}