What if he doesn\u2019t even like me anymore because this is not the first time I\u2019m waiting for him to move his ass and send me some proof of his existence?<\/i><\/p>\n
\u201cWhat if\u201d \u2013 two words with such a large amount of uncertainty and expectation, that it can kill even the toughest ones.<\/p>\n
My family and friends didn\u2019t even recognize me anymore. From a mulher feliz e forte<\/a>Tornei-me uma criatura frustrada e miser\u00e1vel.<\/p>\n Comecei a odiar-me ainda mais.<\/p>\n Pe\u00e7o a Deus que me envie respostas a estas famosas perguntas: Porqu\u00ea eu? Porque \u00e9 que tenho de ser sempre eu a acabar por ser infeliz com o tipo errado?<\/i><\/p>\n Foi ent\u00e3o que tive um momento de verdadeira epifania. Percebi que todo este tempo estava a ficar desesperada porque andava atr\u00e1s dos tipos errados.<\/p>\n I was CHASING them, even though I knew they didn\u2019t deserve it.<\/p>\n Eu estava a correr cegamente atr\u00e1s de ser magoada e tomada como garantida porque estava mais preocupada com o bem-estar e a felicidade deles do que com a minha.<\/p>\n I\u2019ve neglected myself because all this time, I was busy chasing something that would never be mine.<\/p>\n Algu\u00e9m que nunca me faria feliz.<\/p>\n Enquanto estava ocupado a fazer tudo isto, ignorava a \u00fanica verdade que devia estar escrita nas paredes de todos os cantos do mundo:<\/p>\n Quando deixar de perseguir os tipos errados<\/a>, a pessoa certa vai encontr\u00e1-lo! <\/b>Sim.<\/p>\n Quando deixe de perder o seu tempo \u00e0 espera que comecem a trat\u00e1-lo como merece<\/a>, you will open the doors to the right one to whom you\u2019ll be number one priority.<\/p>\n Esta \u00e9 a \u00fanica e bela verdade que deve ser sempre guardada num compartimento especial do nosso c\u00e9rebro.<\/p>\n Chasing someone who doesn\u2019t give a damn about you will only result in you getting more and more hurt.<\/p>\n It\u2019s the only logical conclusion of which I\u2019ve been ignorant for years.<\/p>\n Why in the world would we ever think that if stay determined in chasing someone, that they\u2019d somehow suddenly change their mind and finally notice us, our efforts, our tears?<\/p>\n Porque \u00e9 que havemos de escolher viver nesta ilus\u00e3o quando, no fundo da nossa alma, sabemos que nada vai mudar?<\/b><\/p>\n Because of fear. We fear that we\u2019ll never find someone better and we think that this is how things are supposed to be.<\/p>\n We think that we deserve to be treated poorly because no one has convinced us to believe otherwise. We believe that we\u2019re not digno de amor<\/a>.<\/p>\n We blindly chase those who are wrong for us because we\u2019re convinced that we\u2019ll never find someone who will treat us the way we deserve.<\/p>\n Mas, a verdade \u00e9 que, quando deixamos de o fazer, a pessoa certa encontra-nos!<\/p>\n Quando deixar de perder tempo \u00e0 espera que lhe telefonem, a pessoa certa bater\u00e1 \u00e0 sua porta!<\/b><\/p>\n When we\u2019re only focused on chasing things that are bad for us, we\u2019re multiplying our chances to receive more shit in our lives.<\/p>\n Every time we wait for their call, we\u2019re deliberately hurting ourselves by wasting our time on someone who doesn\u2019t appreciate ours.<\/p>\n Mas, quando finalmente deixamos de o fazer, libertamo-nos de toda a toxicidade e energia negativa.<\/p>\n We start seeing things differently. We start noticing those who were in the shadows the entire time \u2013 the right ones.<\/p>\n E a \u00fanica coisa que precisa de fazer para as acolher na sua vida \u00e9 deixar de perseguir as pessoas erradas.<\/p>\n The only thing you need to do is to stop paying attention to those who wrong you, stop anticipating their calls, stop waiting for them to notice you, stop hanging on in the hopes that they\u2019ll change!<\/p>\n Because the more you chase them, the more you\u2019re going to hurt yourself! The more you chase them, the longer you\u2019ll stay away from true happiness!<\/b><\/p>\n The more you chase the wrong ones, the more power you\u2019re giving them.<\/p>\n Quanto mais os perseguir, mais eles o far\u00e3o tom\u00e1-lo por garantido<\/a>. E por que \u00e9 que o toleraria?<\/p>\n Porque \u00e9 que deixaria algu\u00e9m interferir na sua felicidade e fazer de si um idiota?<\/p>\n Why would you let someone keep you living in fear and the hope that they\u2019ll eventually change?<\/p>\n Mereces ser tratada como uma senhora!<\/i><\/p>\n Merece sorrir at\u00e9 lhe doer a cara em vez de estar sempre a enxugar as l\u00e1grimas!<\/i><\/p>\n Merece que cuidem de si e n\u00e3o que se sintam negligenciados!<\/i><\/p>\n You deserve to be someone\u2019s dream instead of just an option! <\/i>Merece experimentar a verdadeira felicidade!<\/i><\/p>\n Por isso, deixem de perder o vosso tempo a perseguir os tipos errados, para que a correcta<\/a> pode encontrar-vos!<\/b><\/p>\n Quando decidires ser o dono da tua pr\u00f3pria felicidade, ir\u00e1s acolher muitas possibilidades na tua vida.<\/p>\n When you decide to stop chasing those who do you wrong, you\u2019ll make space for the right ones to find you.<\/p>\n When you stop accepting bad things, you\u2019ll start receiving the great ones. 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