{"id":43514,"date":"2019-09-26T13:19:56","date_gmt":"2019-09-26T13:19:56","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=43514"},"modified":"2021-08-11T12:13:58","modified_gmt":"2021-08-11T12:13:58","slug":"isto-sou-eu-a-aceitar-finalmente-o-facto-de-que-ja-nao-fazes-parte-de-mim","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/isto-sou-eu-a-aceitar-finalmente-o-facto-de-que-ja-nao-fazes-parte-de-mim\/","title":{"rendered":"Isto sou eu a aceitar finalmente o facto de que j\u00e1 n\u00e3o fazes parte de mim"},"content":{"rendered":"

Do you still think that I\u2019m the same woman who would go out of her way to meet your every need, to treat you with respect and appreciation, only to receive crumbs in return?<\/p>\n

Do you still think that I\u2019m the same woman who would stupidly keep finding excuses for your every mistake, your toxic words, and selfish treatment?<\/p>\n

No. I\u2019m sorry to \u201cdisappoint\u201d you, but that woman no longer exists!<\/p>\n

That woman has promised herself that she\u2019ll never let anyone play with her trust, mind, and heart ever again.<\/p>\n

That woman has promised herself that she\u2019ll never waste any more seconds of her time on those who don\u2019t deserve her.<\/p>\n

Sim, <\/b>that woman is me finally accepting the fact that you\u2019re no longer a part of me<\/b><\/a> \u2013 my body, my mind, my heart, my life!<\/b><\/p>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

Sim, sou eu a aperceber-me finalmente de que, durante todo este tempo, estava a dar est\u00fapida e desinteressadamente sem nunca pedir nada em troca.<\/p>\n

And you know what? You weren\u2019t worthy of any of it and you never will be!<\/p>\n

And don\u2019t think that I regret doing any of it.<\/p>\n

The only things I truly regret are believing that you\u2019ll eventually change and start reciprocating, and refusing to open my eyes to see the real truth, because the real truth is that you were never a part of me.<\/p>\n

Foste apenas um erro fatal sob a forma de uma li\u00e7\u00e3o que eu precisava de aprender para me tornar mais forte, mais s\u00e1bia e mais corajosa.<\/b><\/p>\n

You were just a stranger in a chapter of the book called \u201cToxic Love\u201d!<\/b><\/p>\n

And I\u2019m finally realizing that I didn\u2019t sign up for any of that.<\/p>\n

I\u2019m finally coming to grips with the fact that I\u2019ve been too cruel on myself and my heart certainly didn\u2019t deserve such treatment.<\/p>\n

I\u2019m finally twigging that a vida \u00e9 demasiado curta para perder o meu tempo com aldrab\u00f5es<\/a>pessoas t\u00f3xicas, manipuladores, palavras t\u00f3xicas, mentiras e enganos!<\/p>\n

Life is too short to keep thinking about too many \u201cwhat ifs\u201d \u2013 to keep blaming myself for things I didn\u2019t do and keep asking for answers.<\/p>\n

Because the only true answer is that you\u2019re no longer a part of me and you never were!<\/p>\n

The only true answer is that I\u2019m done with all the forms of bullshit by you and the rest of your crew out there.<\/p>\n

I\u2019ve abandoned trying to change those who are not ready to change.<\/p>\n

\"Mulher<\/p>\n

I\u2019m over pretending that I\u2019m bulletproof, because I\u2019m not.<\/p>\n

My heart is shattered into thousands of tiny pieces that will take forever to collect again, but still I couldn\u2019t be happier. <\/b><\/p>\n

Sabem porqu\u00ea? Porque sim <\/b>you\u2019re no longer a part of me<\/b><\/a>!<\/b><\/p>\n

You\u2019re no longer the first thing I think of when I wake up and my last thought before I go to sleep.<\/p>\n

You\u2019re no longer in my dreams and neither in reality.<\/p>\n

I\u2019m finally accepting the fact that I should\u2019ve done this a long time ago, but I guess I was too scared to make a mistake.<\/p>\n

I was too afraid to imagine my life without you and that\u2019s why I kept accepting your bullshit.<\/p>\n

But, today I\u2019m proud to say that I\u2019ve never felt better without you and I was never even in love with you!<\/b><\/p>\n

I was in love with the idea of you. I wanted to believe that you were something you\u2019re not.<\/b><\/p>\n

I wanted to believe that you\u2019re the One.<\/b><\/p>\n

\"Uma<\/p>\n

But, deep down in my heart I knew you weren\u2019t and I knew that this day would come. And I\u2019m glad that it did.<\/p>\n

I\u2019m glad that I finally realized that all this time I was neglecting my own happiness only to keep fighting for the happiness of those who are not worthy of it.<\/p>\n

I\u2019m glad that I finally opened my eyes and realized how cruel I was on myself and my heart that has already suffered enough.<\/p>\n

I\u2019m glad that I finally forgave myself for taking my happiness for granted.<\/p>\n

And yes, this is me finally accepting the fact that I\u2019m ten times better without you!<\/i><\/b><\/p>\n

This is me ultimately accepting that you\u2019d never change no matter what I did and no matter what I said!<\/i><\/b><\/p>\n

Isto sou eu a encarar finalmente o facto de que nunca foste digno de nada!<\/i><\/b><\/p>\n

This is me eventually recognizing that you\u2019re just a lesson and nothing else!<\/i><\/b><\/p>\n

\"Jovem<\/p>\n

This is me feeling awesome without your toxic presence, selfish words, and manipulative nature. This is me enjoying every second of my life like it\u2019s my last. And this is me thanking you for everything bad you\u2019ve done to me, because if you didn\u2019t, I wouldn\u2019t know how strong I actually am!<\/p>\n

Ver tamb\u00e9m: Este sou eu, finalmente a apanhar os peda\u00e7os e a seguir em frente<\/a><\/p>\n

\"Isto<\/p>\n

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Do you still think that I\u2019m the same woman who would go out of her way to meet your every need, to treat you with respect and appreciation, only to receive crumbs in return? Do you still think that I\u2019m the same woman who would stupidly keep finding excuses for your every mistake, your toxic…<\/p>","protected":false},"author":40,"featured_media":43524,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29618],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-43514","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-moving-on"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29618,"label":"moving on"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/09\/shutterstock_4212024071-1.jpg",800,543,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Tara Brown","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/author\/tara-brown\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29618,"name":"moving on","slug":"moving-on","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29618,"taxonomy":"category","description":"When nothing else works - inspiring stories about moving on are bound to help you let go of people and situations you never thought you could live without.\r\n","parent":38,"count":200,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29618,"category_count":200,"category_description":"When nothing else works - inspiring stories about moving on are bound to help you let go of people and situations you never thought you could live without.\r\n","cat_name":"moving on","category_nicename":"moving-on","category_parent":38}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/43514","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/40"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=43514"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/43514\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/43524"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=43514"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=43514"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=43514"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}