{"id":43552,"date":"2019-09-26T18:29:20","date_gmt":"2019-09-26T18:29:20","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=43552"},"modified":"2021-08-11T12:12:18","modified_gmt":"2021-08-11T12:12:18","slug":"6-coisas-a-ter-em-conta-quando-estiver-a-espera-da-resposta-dele","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/6-coisas-a-ter-em-conta-quando-estiver-a-espera-da-resposta-dele\/","title":{"rendered":"6 coisas a ter em conta quando se est\u00e1 \u00e0 espera da resposta dele"},"content":{"rendered":"

Ent\u00e3o, enviou-lhe uma mensagem h\u00e1 algumas horas, h\u00e1 alguns dias (ou talvez h\u00e1 um m\u00eas), e ele ainda n\u00e3o lhe respondeu.<\/p>\n

The longer you\u2019re waiting, the more anxious you\u2019re becoming, and you feel like there\u2019s nothing you can do about it but sentir-se frustrado e confuso como o diabo<\/a>.<\/p>\n

E provavelmente n\u00e3o \u00e9 a primeira vez que isto lhe acontece.<\/p>\n

It doesn\u2019t matter if you\u2019re in a relationship, if he\u2019s your ex, if you\u2019ve just started dating or you haven\u2019t even met yet (in person), there will always come a moment when you will wait next to your cell phone waiting for his reply.<\/p>\n

There will always come a moment when you will think that you\u2019re not good enough or worthy enough of his time, and whenever you start feeling like this, please keep in mind the following 6 things that will help you go through the waiting phase!<\/p>\n

1. \u201cEu sou digno<\/a>!\u201d<\/h2>\n

\"o<\/p>\n

Every time you start feeling like you\u2019re asking for too much and that you\u2019re not worthy of being texted back, delete those thoughts immediately.<\/p>\n

Remember that you\u2019re a worthwhile human being and other people\u2019s actions don\u2019t define your worth.<\/p>\n

O facto de ele n\u00e3o te responder \u00e0s mensagens n\u00e3o tem nada a ver com o teu verdadeiro valor.<\/p>\n

N\u00e3o deve levar isto a peito, porque h\u00e1 muitas raz\u00f5es para que ele n\u00e3o lhe tenha enviado uma mensagem de resposta.<\/p>\n

Maybe he forgot, maybe he was stuck in a place where he didn\u2019t have a signal or maybe he\u2019s lost his phone.<\/p>\n

Or maybe he\u2019s a manipulative asshole only playing hard to get.<\/p>\n

Seja o que for, continua a n\u00e3o ter nada a ver consigo.<\/p>\n

If he was prevented from texting you back, you will surely be notified about it in the future, and if he\u2019s an asshole, even better.<\/p>\n

Nunca mais o ver\u00e1s ou ouvir\u00e1s falar dele!<\/p>\n

2. \u201cInstead of waiting, I choose to live my life now.\u201d<\/h2>\n

\"Mulher<\/p>\n

It\u2019s really easy to lose yourself when it comes to \u00e0 espera que algu\u00e9m lhe responda a uma mensagem.<\/a><\/p>\n

Mas, em vez de esperar, deve escolher viver a sua vida agora!<\/p>\n

Saia com os seus amigos, beba a(s) sua(s) bebida(s) preferida(s), releia o seu livro preferido, ou\u00e7a uma m\u00fasica inspiradora, desenhe, dance ou o que mais lhe agradar.<\/p>\n

O pior que se pode fazer \u00e9 esperar ao lado do telem\u00f3vel, porque isso \u00e9 uma receita para perder a cabe\u00e7a e pensar demais.<\/p>\n

Por que raz\u00e3o desperdi\u00e7ar os seus preciosos segundos \u00e0 espera que ele lhe responda a uma mensagem quando pode ter as duas coisas?<\/p>\n

You can have the time of your life while \u201cimaginarily\u201d waiting for him to text you back. (And you will certainly not miss anything.)<\/p>\n

3. \u201cIt\u2019s probably a stupid or simple reason, and I\u2019m overthinking it.\u201d<\/h2>\n

\"Mulher<\/p>\n

If you think he\u2019s not texting you back because he no longer likes you, because he\u2019s thinking about breaking up with you or perhaps because he\u2019s cheating on you<\/a>Pensa de novo.<\/p>\n

Qual \u00e9 a probabilidade de o que pensa que est\u00e1 a acontecer ser realmente verdade?<\/p>\n

There are thousands of possible reasons, and most of the time it\u2019s a stupid or simple reason behind him not texting you back.<\/p>\n

Be aware of the fact that you\u2019re probably overthinking it, and there\u2019s no need to torture yourself because, in the end, everything will be alright, and you will probably laugh when you hear why he couldn\u2019t text you back!<\/p>\n

4. \u201cHe has his own life.\u201d<\/h2>\n

\"homens<\/p>\n

I understand that you\u2019ve probably said a lot of important things to him, and you\u2019re dying to see his reaction, but you need to understand that he has his own life, too (just like you).<\/p>\n

We often forget that the reason why they didn\u2019t text us back is because they have something important going on, that they\u2019re busy, and they simply didn\u2019t have time to deal with texting.<\/p>\n

5. \u201cIt\u2019s normal to need to wait for text messages sometimes.\u201d<\/h2>\n

\"<\/p>\n

It\u2019s normal to need to wait for text messages sometimes (if it\u2019s a reasonable amount of waiting).<\/p>\n

When we impatiently wait for something to happen, seconds turns into hours, and that is why you probably have the feeling that it\u2019s taking him forever to reply.<\/p>\n

It\u2019s important to stay patient, and remind yourself that it\u2019s normal to wait for a text message sometimes.<\/p>\n

And if he never replies, then screw him! You\u2019re better off without him anyway.<\/p>\n

6. \u201cNo matter what happens \u2013 it\u2019s going to be OK!\u201d<\/h2>\n

\"<\/p>\n

No matter what happens, if he eventually texts you back or not, it\u2019s going to be OK, and there\u2019s nothing to worry about.<\/p>\n

As already said, if he texts you back and apologizes for letting you wait too long for his reply \u2013 perfect.<\/p>\n

If he still hasn\u2019t texted you back and you\u2019re convinced that he won\u2019t, it\u2019s perfect again because you know that he\u2019s an asshole, and he definitely doesn\u2019t deserve you.<\/p>\n

Por isso, respire fundo, (pare de olhar para o telem\u00f3vel) e viva a sua vida como uma chefe!<\/p>\n

Ver tamb\u00e9m: 7 coisas a fazer quando ele n\u00e3o responde \u00e0s mensagens<\/a><\/p>\n

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So, you texted him a few hours ago, a few days ago (or maybe a month), and he still hasn\u2019t texted you back. The longer you\u2019re waiting, the more anxious you\u2019re becoming, and you feel like there\u2019s nothing you can do about it but feel frustrated and confused as hell. And this is probably not…<\/p>","protected":false},"author":42,"featured_media":43553,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29648],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-43552","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-dating-tips"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29648,"label":"dating tips"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/09\/shutterstock_1196509285_800x.jpg",800,533,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Selma June","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/author\/selmajune\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29648,"name":"dating tips","slug":"dating-tips","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29648,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Learn to date like a pro and avoid making some of the biggest mistakes in texting, flirting, winning a man's heart, and commitment. ","parent":29643,"count":442,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29648,"category_count":442,"category_description":"Learn to date like a pro and avoid making some of the biggest mistakes in texting, flirting, winning a man's heart, and commitment. ","cat_name":"dating tips","category_nicename":"dating-tips","category_parent":29643}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/43552","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/42"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=43552"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/43552\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/43553"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=43552"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=43552"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=43552"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}